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Re: relationships w/ your father [Re: Anonymous #13]
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I'm 43 :smile: Good guess!

And yes, I think this has a LOT to do with things. My parents stayed married. I think that the newer generations will have an easier time of it, too, because many fathers are staying close to their children after divorce, and it's not an automatic assumption that moms get full custody these days.

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Re: relationships w/ your father [Re: Anonymous #1]
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I am a male in my forties. I used to hate my father and refused to talk to him for a year. We get along better now, but he is really controlling and hard to deal with. I don't see him much outside of holidays. I speak to him on the phone a little.

My friends and I all had workaholic fathers, then divorce and were raised by mothers. We all did tons of drugs.

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Re: relationships w/ your father [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
jw, me and a few friends were discussing our relationships with our fathers, and we all seemed to have bad onrs. so whats yours like? state if you are a girl or guy


I'm a guy, and my relationship with my father is awkward and somewhat uneasy.

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Re: relationships w/ your father [Re: Anonymous #16]
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I imagine most of us have baby boomer and tweener aged parents. This generation is SOOO screwed up it's not even funny.

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Re: relationships w/ your father [Re: Anonymous #6]
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Seriously. What are we going to do?

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Re: relationships w/ your father [Re: Anonymous #16]
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22 and male. I don't get along with my alcoholic father at all... never really have, probably never will. It does seem that most guys don't get along with their fathers very well, which makes me wonder if it is just the generation or what. It's kinda fucked up though either way. Generation of men raised by women... isn't that the truth.

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Re: relationships w/ your father [Re: Anonymous #17]
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I think it may be sort of natural for men to not get along, we're competitive creatures after all, aren't we?

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Re: relationships w/ your father [Re: Anonymous #16]
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30ish Female here..  I haven't gotten along with my father since I was about 11 and really started to understand how badly he treated my mother and I.  He is an alcoholic along with being physically and verbally abusive. 

To this day I wish I had a real father that I could hang with.

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Re: relationships w/ your father [Re: Anonymous #18]
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Why was your father such a bad person?

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Re: relationships w/ your father [Re: Anonymous #13]
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I'm a guy-my whole life I never really talked to my dad much-he never talked to me either. My mom and dad split up a while ago but never divorced..then they got back together and moved in a new nice house. (They broke up because he's an alcoholic.) Then about a year ago he got drunk and tried crack-cocaine. He's been hooked ever since-in and out of rehabs. They divorced. I live with my mom and and haven't talked to my dad since.

I too wish I had a dad that I had a good relationship with but hey..that's life.

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Re: relationships w/ your father [Re: Anonymous #19]
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Jeez it doesn't seem like many people have great relationships with their fathers.  I wonder if thats a shroomery-eqsue observation or just our generation in general. 

I have a feeling that our idea of the conventoinal family/family life will change soon.

But I also feel like it would be for the better.

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Re: relationships w/ your father [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Male.

Alcoholic father. Absolute disgrace. Feel bad for him. He was intelligent,had two degrees in law but fucked up.

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Re: relationships w/ your father [Re: Anonymous #20]
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Fuck....

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Re: relationships w/ your father [Re: Anonymous #13]
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dude, 18
me and my dad have always been somewhat close. we don't really talk about deep stuff ever but we are alot alike. Except he is smug and arrogant sometimes and I just shake my head.

we should include moms too

my mom is super religious ever since my dad divorced her (i was 1). She's overall alright, but is fucking psycho sometimes. wouldn't let me read harry potter, hid/threw out metallica and sum 41 shirts I had when I was little. She doesn't have a big problem with me smoking pot though. When I was 16 I had a trippy picture as my computer wallpaper and during a doctor visit she told him she was worried I'd do lsd! Best part is this Doc says "well any ILLEGAL drugs aren't good for you", I am amazed at how smart people can be so fucking stupid.

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Re: relationships w/ your father [Re: Anonymous #21]
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20, my relationship is decent. I keep thing calm, but it can be awkward being with my dad in public. When I eventually move out of my house I am gonna tell my dad that I smoke weed regularly, can't wait to see how he reacts, most likely not good though.  my mom is a fucking bitch though, I really despise her, she just bitches all day and does nothing. I wish my dad married someone else.

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Re: relationships w/ your father [Re: Anonymous #13]
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my dad is pretty cool but he is an alcoholic and you can tell... he is pretty cool becuz he doesnt care if i do drugs and he will buy me alcohol... but we dont have a great relationship because he moved out when i was 8

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Re: relationships w/ your father [Re: Anonymous #23]
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my relationship with MY father is bad by my relationship with everyone else's father is pretty good. i even hang out with this one person's dad while they're not around

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Re: relationships w/ your father [Re: Anonymous #24]
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27 ....My father was a great man in his prime(when he was my age) we had a wonderful realtionship when i was a child. In my late teens and early 20s i hated my dad because i always thought of the things he didn't do for me. Thinking back now i was selfish in those times and gave him alot of grief that he didn't deserve.

I think its hard to understand what its like to be a dad until you become one. I know there are special cases out there where some dads where physicly abusive or verbally abusive but I see alot of kids including my own that are totaly spoiled and thats why they hate there dads in the first place.

All im saying is give your dads a break....... its hard to please everyone. And its harder than you think being the dad. 

My dad has reached the dark side though... he's hooked on morphine and other various drugs. He actually almost falls asleep standing up sometimes and my mom has been on a crack and meth binge for going on three years now. She's in a rehab right now. But they were awsome when i was kid..... lol..... i love them all the same but i wish they wouldn't do so many drugs and if they are on a seriuos binge...leave me alone:rebelride:

Edited by Anonymous (02/22/09 02:24 PM)

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Re: relationships w/ your father [Re: Anonymous #13]
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Turned 25 on the 1st...

Did not get a call from my dad for my birthday or even on christmas, he does not call my sister or his grand kids...

I remember making a suicide attempt, never came to pick me up from the hospital, when I got back home I was told by him that I was no good for nothing....yup, love my old man.

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Re: relationships w/ your father [Re: Anonymous #13]
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18... parents divorced at 10, got kicked outta my moms at 18, now living with my dad... he is an alcoholic and has anger issues, on my case about school all the time which is like the only highlight about him.  he passes out on the floor/at the table in the kitchen watching tv every night.  when he moved to his duplex me and my sister and him have been sleeping on the floor in the same sleeping bags (that have not been washed) for the entire period.. and he snores like a MOTHERFUCKER, you can hear him downstairs no problem at all its ridiculous.  its a love/hate.


He makes 70k+ a year and is somehow 20k in debt even though he lives in a duplex that my grandma owns and he only pays like 300-350 a month on rent (incl utilities), he pisses his money away smoking a pack+ a day and a PJ of jim beam every couple days along with all the beer and wine.  the toilet barely works and the "shower" is a a small stream that dribbles outta the shower causing it to be almost impossible to wash mty hair (I now wash it in the sink).  all he talks about is the "white trash" that lives around us when we're JUST as trashy.  its pathetic.

Edited by suburbantoker (02/22/09 08:04 PM)

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