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Hate Thy Father?
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I'm In my late 20's. I  still hate the mother fucker. They always told me, we'd have a better relationship with age,but I still hate him with a fury like non other.

He wasn't physically abusive, he wasn't directly derogatory. What he was, what the biggest yuppie douche in the world. I only lived with him for 6 years in my late teens. Those were some critical years of my life, I had a wild few years,and settled down early. I stopped doing drugs( he barely knew anyways). I had been doing any and all drugs I could find since the age of 10 living with my mother. I went to school everyday, Went to college. Generally was a very grown up,well mannered kid by 18.  My wild days were over and I was ready to focus in life.

My father on the other hand. Is a master manipulator. A master of fucking people over,and he seems to be the most skilled at fucking over his own family. yet...only his children and ex-wife(my mother), not any other relatives. We were different. We grew up 99% without him. We grew up with mother working 90% of the time like most divorced familys, we kinda raised ourselves, pretty typical I guess.  We stay poor,happy,unique. ( did i mention happy?)

Father goes on to make lots of money,buys into the Upper middle class livestyle. Beemers and tennis are what he lives for. He moves to another state,and my drug,and violent past was catching up with me, i needed out. That aside, my mother needed a break from me,and i wanted her to save money and stress by having me live with my dad. (I later found out this was probably the worst decision I've ever made,and I'm so sorry to my mother every day.) I Move in with the father. He can't

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Re: Hate Thy Father? [Re: Anonymous #1]
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You sort of trailed off th...

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Re: Hate Thy Father? [Re: Anonymous #1]
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OP her^

I hit post instead of preview.sorry.


Basically He Made my life a living hell for years, By stifling anything that made me happy in life. All because it would make the neighborhood look bad. Or make him look bad. I wasn't into anything trashy or bad, just unique. Really just anything at all. You name it. I couldn't do it for some reason or another.

he'd always come up with ways to make me owe him money. I owed him 1500-2000 Dollars at any given time, the entire time i've lived there. The reasons were always him forcing his money onto me. I've nevr asked ONCE for a single Dollar. I'd go without Food for weeks before i'd even think of asking for money...which i never did. yet i constanty would owe him so much.

i know it doesn't sound like much but, i cold just go on and on and on. just making me feel like a stranger in my own house. Literally Replacing me his wifes children( literally, it was the most stupid thing ever) for a year or two.

He's a manic depressive Fuck who can't be happy,and thus he can't let anyone else be  happy.  I litterally lives an awsome(poor as fuck),but awsome life, than 6 or so years of complete and utter nothing. Being 100 % shut in with nothing to live for. I had to restart my life basically when i finally got out.






We've had some communication lately,and I still leave it with me Wishing he would just fucking die already. he's a plague to the Human race.


Any one else feel like this? I mean,yea, he's my dad,and I wish we had a relationship, but...i'd be much happier if he just died. he'll never be a good person,and he'll never be a good person,he'll never "see the light". he'll never be happy.

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Re: Hate Thy Father? [Re: Anonymous #1]
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OP yet again.

I really wasn't ready to have that posted yet.


to Explain the money. For example he'd just take my car and Spend a grand on it putting new parts on it and shit,and say i owe him for reasons like" well,if you didn't do it, it wouldn't happen and I'd pay for the tow truck and more parts to fix". Nothing like that ever happened. he'd just find ways to make me owe him money, so he could Bitch at me about something. So he had some kinda of leverage on me.

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Re: Hate Thy Father? [Re: Anonymous #1]
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i haven't talked to my dad in a couple years. he's a redneck, racist, sexist, homophobe. smokes about 2 ounces a week. the last straw was when i worked with him and had to get direct deposit into his account. when we got laid off from that job i went to his house about 2 or 3 weeks later to pick up the cash from my last paycheck and he tells me he had to pay the electric bill, as he's smoking a joint with an oz on the table. after about 5 months or so of still trying to have a relationship with him and occasionally asking for my money, if i needed it at the time, i just left town.

stupid fuck owes me about 5 grand as i see it. but that's something that we won't get into. the thing is, i'm not greedy. i try to put up with his racist and sexist remarks and maybe interject and try to save his mind, but when he pretty much ripped off his own son of legitimate money i realized he is all around just a piece of shit.

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Re: Hate Thy Father? [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Welcome to the club

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Re: Hate Thy Father? [Re: Anonymous #4]
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My father sucked too, disappeared for like 90% of my life.  When I got the call that he had died  I calmly finished my sandwich and stated:


:whocares:

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Re: Hate Thy Father? [Re: Anonymous #5]
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Dude, I love my dad.  I feel bad for you all.  I had the stereotypical american dream lifestyle growing up.  Not much money, but he gave up everything he had to make sure I'd make something of myself.

In retrospect, I think I might be a disappointment to him.

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Re: Hate Thy Father? [Re: Anonymous #6]
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Anonymous said:
Dude, I love my dad.  I feel bad for you all.  I had the stereotypical american dream lifestyle growing up.  Not much money, but he gave up everything he had to make sure I'd make something of myself.

In retrospect, I think I might be a disappointment to him.



oh, actually this is the guy with the pot smoking dad, forgot to mention, my parents were never married, but my first step-dad (out of two, he was there for 16 years and is my brother's dad) is great. i still talk to him and we get along great. we used to fight alot when i was a teenager before him and my mom got divorced, but that always happens to teenagers i think.

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