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Re: Unfaithfull [Re: Anonymous #18]
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If she really loved you she would not have moved 800 miles away.

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Re: Unfaithfull [Re: Anonymous #20]
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Anonymous said:
If she really loved you she would not have moved 800 miles away.


BULLSHIT.
I had to move due to unforeseen circumstances, and I do indeed love my girl. I remained faithful and now she's out here. Total of 5 months apart. If you are truly in love, distance doesn't matter.

But yea, don't see a problem with cheating if you feel like it, lol. Never been one to care much about most peoples feelings.

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Re: Unfaithfull [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous said:
Why can't you stay faithfull?


it's simple really.
there are more women than there are men.  being a heterosexual male, I have an ingrained desire to spread my seed to as many women that I deem worthy.

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Re: Unfaithfull [Re: Anonymous #19]
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I constantly cheat... My head is fucked. I love my girl, but she gets annoying and boring after to much interaction over a short period of time, so then i fuck other girls....

Its gotten so bad that i cant even be in a room with a girl im attracted to without fucking wanting to rip her cloths off. Its even with my girls friends. Some of you may object that i dont really love her, but i do, and feel VERY bad after i get off with another girl. My solution? for a while i was going down on chicks and blue balling myself various different ways. It made things way worse.

Anyways, here i am in my late 20's and i feel like a fucking 12 year old on the school bus that pops this raging hard on every time theres a hot chick there. Im not the best looking guy, but i can always land quality pussy without thinking about it. I cant resist it. Its taking over my thoughts lately and i cant stand it.  The last few months have been worse than any point during puberty.

Anyone have any idea how i feel or whats happening to me?

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Re: Unfaithfull [Re: Anonymous #23]
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personally, i couldn't give a shit whether my partner cheated on me.
I view sex as adult play, my partner sees it as an act to be only partaken by lovers.

I have stayed faithful to her for her.
But it's reeeal hard and frankly i can't see it lasting.
I feel like i've somehow lost a birth right.

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Re: Unfaithfull [Re: Anonymous #24]
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girls cheat cause the attention seek, they want all attention for themsleves. they crave attention, n blokes crave sex. its life. if you fall in love, your fucked.

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Re: Unfaithfull [Re: Anonymous #25]
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monogomy is bullshit.  I personaly only carry on one meaningful relationship at a time, but that doesn't keep me from enjoying my sexuality.  of course I don't rub it in my partners face, but it's my choice.  I find that by sleeping with other people that you either make or beak your relationship.  it's a balance.  if you really love your partner you won't neglect them just because you are having some physical fun with someone else.

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Re: Unfaithfull [Re: Anonymous #23]
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Anonymous said:
I constantly cheat... My head is fucked. I love my girl, but she gets annoying and boring after to much interaction over a short period of time, so then i fuck other girls....

Its gotten so bad that i cant even be in a room with a girl im attracted to without fucking wanting to rip her cloths off. Its even with my girls friends. Some of you may object that i dont really love her, but i do, and feel VERY bad after i get off with another girl. My solution? for a while i was going down on chicks and blue balling myself various different ways. It made things way worse.

Anyways, here i am in my late 20's and i feel like a fucking 12 year old on the school bus that pops this raging hard on every time theres a hot chick there. Im not the best looking guy, but i can always land quality pussy without thinking about it. I cant resist it. Its taking over my thoughts lately and i cant stand it.  The last few months have been worse than any point during puberty.

Anyone have any idea how i feel or whats happening to me?


Comments?

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Re: Unfaithfull [Re: Anonymous #23]
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Anonymous said:
Anonymous said:
I constantly cheat... My head is fucked. I love my girl, but she gets annoying and boring after to much interaction over a short period of time, so then i fuck other girls....

Its gotten so bad that i cant even be in a room with a girl im attracted to without fucking wanting to rip her cloths off. Its even with my girls friends. Some of you may object that i dont really love her, but i do, and feel VERY bad after i get off with another girl. My solution? for a while i was going down on chicks and blue balling myself various different ways. It made things way worse.

Anyways, here i am in my late 20's and i feel like a fucking 12 year old on the school bus that pops this raging hard on every time theres a hot chick there. Im not the best looking guy, but i can always land quality pussy without thinking about it. I cant resist it. Its taking over my thoughts lately and i cant stand it.  The last few months have been worse than any point during puberty.

Anyone have any idea how i feel or whats happening to me?


Comments?


yeah, quit feeling bad about it. you're a man, females try to make you their bitch by making it seem as though "cheating" is a terrible thing. if you really love your g/f, you'll stay with her even if you find some other pussy that is way better.

i also might guess that your skill in picking up attractive women is much greater today then it was in High School, no? guys who take extra time to learn how to get who they want generally go through emotional phases that the jocks/cool guys went through earlier. i got little to no action in high school, my pussy conquest has just recently began, i'm 21.

regardless, enjoy all the pussy that comes your way and quit feeling bad about it.

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Re: Unfaithfull [Re: Anonymous #27]
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ive said ive cheated:

because i was drunk
because i was high
because i was bored in my other relationship
for revenge
to get what i want
to satisfy what i wasnt getting from my bf



but it all boils down to:

cheating made me feel wanted, and in control.

at least in my case.

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Re: Unfaithfull [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Usually its just about the thrill of doing something you aren't supposed to. For me anyway. I hunt for sport.

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Re: Unfaithfull [Re: Anonymous #29]
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Quote:
yeah, quit feeling bad about it. you're a man, females try to make you their bitch by making it seem as though "cheating" is a terrible thing. if you really love your g/f, you'll stay with her even if you find some other pussy that is way better.

i also might guess that your skill in picking up attractive women is much greater today then it was in High School, no? guys who take extra time to learn how to get who they want generally go through emotional phases that the jocks/cool guys went through earlier. i got little to no action in high school, my pussy conquest has just recently began, i'm 21.

regardless, enjoy all the pussy that comes your way and quit feeling bad about it.


You are completly right about the highschool, pulling ass phase, but oddly enough i had WAY hotter tail when i was under 21. Hell i havent had a 3 way since 19... im 25 now. Ive been steady dating some less attractive girls that i really connect with, um, more spiritually  i guess. 

Now I am just into shit in a way that i do care about more than sex with my girlfriend, however when shes not there i fucking loose it and want to let my dick out.

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Re: Unfaithfull [Re: Anonymous #24]
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Anonymous said:
personally, i couldn't give a shit whether my partner cheated on me.
I view sex as adult play, my partner sees it as an act to be only partaken by lovers.

I have stayed faithful to her for her.
But it's reeeal hard and frankly i can't see it lasting.
I feel like i've somehow lost a birth right.


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Re: Unfaithfull [Re: Anonymous #30]
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I see a whole bunch of guys in this thread claiming frivolous partners don't bother them (in order to justify their cheating). What strikes me as odd is the completely backwards message I get in real life, where a hefty percentage of men are possessive of their partners and prone to jealousy in situations MUCH less threatening than openly admitted polygamous sex. Strange. :ohwell:

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Re: Unfaithfull [Re: Anonymous #2]
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I posted my head is fucked:

I fight jealous impulses as i see them as juvinile and if i snaped and crossed that line like i have in the past i will either kill the guy or be facing assault charges for rearanging his face. (like in the past) All this jealosy in me yet i cheat like a motherfucker? whats it all about, i hate the fact that im a hypocrate, and consider these instincts worthless to enlightenment, yet here i am.

Ive learned to not act out on any form of jealosy. When i am confronted with an uncontrollable jealous impulse the only option is to dump the girl conginially. With out acctual witness or hard evidance of cheating it wont come down to that. The only exception is i will potentialy try to be more perceptive to what i see happining, but by no means will i investigate. I would rather not walkinto a situation where i fuck some guy up that doesnt deserve it (ie fucking my girlfriend) Its not his fault at all given we never met. Yet still i go through a two day period where he better not step into a 1000 yard radius of me.

I harbor a double standard for her and myself- is that based on gender role? Prolly.

Any advice for not being such a shit head? I would feel awful if she read this and knew it was me writing.

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Re: Unfaithfully [Re: Anonymous #23]
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Anonymous said:
I posted my head is fucked:

I fight jealous impulses as i see them as juvenile and if i snapped and crossed that line like i have in the past i will either kill the guy or be facing assault charges for rearranging his face. (like in the past) All this jealousy in me yet i cheat like a motherfucker? whats it all about, i hate the fact that I'm a hypocrite, and consider these instincts worthless to enlightenment, yet here i am.

Ive learned to not act out on any form of jealousy. When i am confronted with an uncontrollable jealous impulse the only option is to dump the girl congenially. With out actual witness or hard evidence of cheating it wont come down to that. The only exception is i will potentially try to be more perceptive to what i see happening, but by no means will i investigate. I would rather not walk into a situation where i fuck some guy up that doesn't deserve it (IE fucking my girlfriend) Its not his fault at all given we never met. Yet still i go through a two day period where he better not step into a 1000 yard radius of me.

I harbor a double standard for her and myself- is that based on gender role? Polly.

Any advice for not being such a shit head? I would feel awful if she read this and knew it was me writing.


i replied earlier with the whole 'dint feel bad about it' opinion. I'm not that jealous of a guy, though i would be pissed if i walked in on a g/f cheating, b/c i think it shows a tremendous lack of respect to cheat on your partner in the same bed you have sex in. at least try to get away with it harder than that.

the bottom line is, as a male, you should not hate on another male who is fucking your girl, unless he is your trusted friend and he worked to fuck her. see, if your girl gets fucked up and seduces some other guy, she is a ho. the guy fucking her is simply a man, who may or may not know that she has a boyfriend. if an attractive female comes on to a man, it is his nature to have sex with her, as you probably realize. you cannot blame him for giving in to your girls advances, but you can blame her for seducing him, if its a monogamous relationship.

also, if you suspect that she is cheating on you with one of your friends, you better goddamn know that they are fucking, b/c if you hate on said friend under paranoid suspicion alone, you are officially a bitch-nigga, and you lose any and all man-code privileges (snooping through her text messages and misinterpreting them does not constitute proof). however, if you find out he did orchestrate a situation to sleep with your girl, you have the right to beat his ass.

in closing, as bad as it sucks to know that your girl is fucking another guy, you should only get violent against that guy if he manipulated the situation to take advantage of her, knowing that you were her man. anything else makes you a bitch-nigga, and her a ho. as for hypocrisy and double standards, you can either quit cheating, or admit that that isnt realistic and accept the rules above. these are the only two options that i can live with as a man, and the not cheating thing will likely only become a reality farther down the line for me.

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Re: Unfaithfully [Re: Anonymous #27]
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So, as a man, are you only allowed to cheat if a 'ho' seduces you and initiates sex? If you're allowed to run around banging chicks like there's no tomorrow, she should be allowed to fuck whoever the Hell she wants as well. Double standards are not cool, especially not when you're using your obvious strength advantage in your favor to play the judge in the relationship. :thumbdown:

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Re: Unfaithfully [Re: Anonymous #2]
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Anonymous said:
So, as a man, are you only allowed to cheat if a 'ho' seduces you and initiates sex? If you're allowed to run around banging chicks like there's no tomorrow, she should be allowed to fuck whoever the Hell she wants as well. Double standards are not cool, especially not when you're using your obvious strength advantage in your favor to play the judge in the relationship. :thumbdown:


in a perfect world, neither would cheat on each other if they agreed to a monogamous relationship. this isnt a perfect world, men will cheat when properly seduced, and so will women. im just saying that as a man, you cannot blame another man for fucking your girl as long as he didn't know you, as it is our nature to want to sleep with attractive women, and a lot of us actively try to do so. i dont think a female is a whore for cheating if some guy with an incredible amount of game talks her into it. i think shes just following her instincts. same with men, if a hot girl comes on to you really hard, i dont think less of you for sleeping with her.

if you put a steak in front of a dog, you cannot get mad at the dog for eating your steak. a well trained dog might not eat it, but most of them would.

but, if a girl goes out every time you turn your back and tries to get other guys to fuck her, while in a supposedly monogamous relationship, she is a ho. if a guy goes out and tries to fuck every fine girl he sees behind his womans back, he is also a man-whore. given our nature, though, i do not think its a terrible thing if you cheat on each other as long as you were not going out with the intention to do it, as these things are bound to happen. if you dont think thats OK, you can always break up with the girl, but i think its normal.

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Re: Unfaithfully [Re: Anonymous #27]
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Yeah, I think the important thing here is that both partners set the parameters of their relationship before they have sex so they know when someone has gone 'out of bounds'. If you're both operating under separate pretenses, the relationship is bound to fail and shit is definitely going to hit the fan.

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