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Anonymous #1
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How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?"
#9472244 - 12/21/08 11:26 AM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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And are you dating, going steady, engaged, married, or what?
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Anonymous #2
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9472267 - 12/21/08 11:32 AM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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together/dating/goinsteady
we have sex at least 7 times per week.
there are some days where i will hit it 4 times
but then i cant do it the next day cus of sorenesss
booooo
btw why is this anon?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #2]
#9472319 - 12/21/08 11:41 AM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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Because I thought the responses would be more honest. I don't need to see the names of the responders, just the facts.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9472381 - 12/21/08 11:54 AM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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Not enough.
I think that the longer you've been with your girl, the less action you get. I get laid maybe once a week, and its been over a year and a half. Initially it owuld be 2-3 times a day.
Everything cools off eventually.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #3]
#9472402 - 12/21/08 11:58 AM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #3 said: Not enough.
I think that the longer you've been with your girl, the less action you get. I get laid maybe once a week, and its been over a year and a half. Initially it owuld be 2-3 times a day.
Everything cools off eventually.
Are you satisfied with how things are?
Isn't it possible to be with someone for a very long time and still desire one another in a sexual capacity quite frequently?
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Anonymous #4
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9472425 - 12/21/08 12:03 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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after 15 yrs be lucky if time or energy 2-3 times a month
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Anonymous #2
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #3]
#9472452 - 12/21/08 12:08 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #3 said: Not enough.
I think that the longer you've been with your girl, the less action you get. I get laid maybe once a week, and its been over a year and a half. Initially it owuld be 2-3 times a day.
Everything cools off eventually.
brah im going on a year and a half with my chick and we still do the damn thang... often.!!!!!!!
if ses on the pill get her off that shit, it makes girls less horny.
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Anonymous #5
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #2]
#9472897 - 12/21/08 01:45 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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maybe 1-2 times a week or less or more.
sex isnt a big issue for me honestly. i am more of a morning person, and she aswell as most my ex's have been heavy sleepers and lazy in the AM. I wake up ready to fuck.
no worries tho, it comes and goes.
drugs, legal and illegal will effect sex though. just know that, especially mood drugs.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9472943 - 12/21/08 01:53 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said: Are you satisfied with how things are?
Isn't it possible to be with someone for a very long time and still desire one another in a sexual capacity quite frequently?
I'd like to have sex more often, but that doesn't mean I'm unsatisfied.
It sounds cliche' but in a long term relationship there are things a lot more important than sex.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9473018 - 12/21/08 02:06 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said: And are you dating, going steady, engaged, married, or what?
During the first 11 years of our marriage, my wife and I had sex approximately 7,000 times. I figured it out by the averages per day at the time. We are much older now and I still want her just as much. But sometimes the body cannot do what the mind wants.
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Anonymous #7
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #6]
#9473126 - 12/21/08 02:30 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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i used to fuck my girlfriend multiple times daily to 5-6 times a week
not bad i guess. i like to have a lot though.
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Anonymous #8
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #7]
#9473227 - 12/21/08 02:51 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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i live with my gf and we have sex everyday at least once, on weekends about 3 when we are drunk like 10
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Anonymous #9
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9473543 - 12/21/08 03:58 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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In my first sexual relationship as a teenager, sexual activity was a very usual occurrence, happening nearly every time we spent time together (and often more than once). As it were, our lack of maturity in conjunction with the completely novel experience of sexual intercourse resulted in sex being one of, if not the primary motivation for the relationship; and therefore was almost expected upon every encounter.
I am now 26, and in my last long-term relationship where I lived with a partner who was taking an oral contraceptive, we were averaging perhaps 4 - 6 sessions of intercourse each week over a period of two years. If you include oral sexual activities, bump that up to 7 - 10.
In my current relationship (just started six weeks ago), with a partner whom I do not yet live with and since becoming sexually active together, we engage in sexual activities about every three out of every four times we see each other. At present, she is not on an oral contraceptive, and neither of us enjoy using condoms - so most of this sexual activity is oral although we have had intercourse in conjunction with a vaginal suppository contraceptive on a few occasions.
It is very difficult to give an accurate representation of sexual frequency however, as mood, stress, proximity and other obligations can cause the actual frequency to vary a lot from any given time period to another. The data from my current relationship should not be used for extrapolation, given that we have only become sexually active together very recently, along with the fact that we live some 35 minutes apart from each other.
For my own part, I believe that sex is a vital form of expression between two loving partners who are engaged in a committed relationship. In my experience, it strengthens personal bonds and acts as a wonderful outlet for stress, nurturing mental health and well being. I could not imagine being in a committed relationship with someone who would not have sex with me with some regularity, though I certainly do not use sex as the primary motivation which drives my relationships. In my tradition, sex is something that manifests out of a deep rooted respect and admiration toward my partner.
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Anonymous #10
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9473964 - 12/21/08 05:29 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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Familiarity actually decreases sexual attraction. People are attracted to new and exciting people, the longer your with someone the less sexually attracted you will generally become. This isn't completely bad because normally the relationship goes to a deeper level.
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Anonymous #11
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #10]
#9474017 - 12/21/08 05:37 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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5 times per decade.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #9]
#9474261 - 12/21/08 06:27 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #9 said: In my current relationship (just started six weeks ago), with a partner whom I do not yet live with and since becoming sexually active together, we engage in sexual activities about every three out of every four times we see each other.
Best news I have heard in a while. I was wondering about you and your intrigue today. I had meant to do a search on your posts and check your journal, but I never got around to it. This relieves some of the holiday stress for me. I worry about the people I care about. I'll be sending you a pm soon.
You made my night.
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Anonymous #12
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9474360 - 12/21/08 06:52 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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never.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #10]
#9474720 - 12/21/08 07:50 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #10 said: Familiarity actually decreases sexual attraction. People are attracted to new and exciting people, the longer your with someone the less sexually attracted you will generally become. This isn't completely bad because normally the relationship goes to a deeper level.
I think when the sex starts to fade and the relationship goes to a "deeper level" you discover how you truly feel about a person.
That's what happened to me. We broke up!
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Anonymous #13
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9475401 - 12/21/08 09:56 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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together for a couple of years
sex at the end of any good day/night. typically lasts 2-3 hours at a time.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #13]
#9475536 - 12/21/08 10:24 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #13 said: together for a couple of years
sex at the end of any good day/night. typically lasts 2-3 hours at a time.
That sounds awesome, how many years dude?
Idon't buy it that sex is supposed to fade when you've been in a relationship for so long. Seems unnatural.
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Anonymous #13
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9475616 - 12/21/08 10:43 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Quote: --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Anonymous #13 said: together for a couple of years
sex at the end of any good day/night. typically lasts 2-3 hours at a time.
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That sounds awesome, how many years dude?
Idon't buy it that sex is supposed to fade when you've been in a relationship for so long. Seems unnatural
sex doesnt fade. it's still just as passionate. sometimes it's less frequent because you get that gratification from the growing intimacy between you rather than passion.
for example - you and you lover solve a problem together, weather it's financial, personal, health, survival, or just paying for eggs and milk. you might be impressed with how he/she performs in a real life situation. and for the first time you see her/him as someone you want to coninue to solve problems with because it really is better than solving them alone.
at the end of a day like that, youre physiclly (financially?) drained but rich in that you dont feel alone in the world. I've had many relationships that i didnt feel alone, but the first time my girl made me feel safe, i was content to look at her and amazed i was important to this strange creature.
romantic babble aside, we still fuck like rabits. sometimes you dont want sex as often or feel you need to "get laid" it's there and willing anytime you want it. Sometimes you want to delay gratifaction as long as possible so it's more of a realease and because it's fun to maintain some sexual tension for a couple weeks, then have amazing sex.
the sex gets better and better. and kinkier. holy shit it gets kinkier lol
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Anonymous #14
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #2]
#9476259 - 12/22/08 01:44 AM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #2 said: together/dating/goinsteady
we have sex at least 7 times per week.
there are some days where i will hit it 4 times
but then i cant do it the next day cus of sorenesss
booooo
btw why is this anon?
How long have you been together?
Don't you get bored after a while?
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Anonymous #15
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9476970 - 12/22/08 08:04 AM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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I"m enganged.
We've been together for 1 year and we fuck every single day, most of the time 2-3 times a day. And we FUCK too, not make love. It's like porno sex. She can suck a fucking cock too!!!
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Anonymous #16
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #15]
#9477090 - 12/22/08 09:01 AM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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Anonymous #15 said: She can suck a fucking cock too!!!
How does she suck a cock while it is fucking?
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Anonymous #2
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #14]
#9477151 - 12/22/08 09:14 AM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #14 said:
Quote:
Anonymous #2 said: together/dating/goinsteady
we have sex at least 7 times per week.
there are some days where i will hit it 4 times
but then i cant do it the next day cus of sorenesss
booooo
btw why is this anon?
How long have you been together?
Don't you get bored after a while?
we have been together for almost one and a half years.
i dont get bored im in love she knows what i like and i know what she does
i never get bored of making her have an orgasm.
its like a pleasure seizure and it makes the vajay squeeze my cock so hard that i have to come back for more!!
plush she lets me jizz all over her and swallows my cum
its awesome
if i get bored i wll dump till then
:sexytime:
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Anonymous #17
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #2]
#9477487 - 12/22/08 10:20 AM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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anal reverse cowgirl
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Anonymous #18
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9477509 - 12/22/08 10:29 AM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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Been with my gf for like, 3 years.
Sex whenever, up to like 8 times a day.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #18]
#9480290 - 12/22/08 08:53 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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Liar
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Anonymous #6
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #13]
#9480296 - 12/22/08 08:54 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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Anonymous #13 said: and kinkier.
Talk about, kinkier.
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Anonymous #19
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9483185 - 12/23/08 12:54 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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I live with my girlfriend and we've been together for just over a year. We like to fuck at least once a day, on a good day 2 or 3.
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Anonymous #20
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #19]
#9483241 - 12/23/08 01:06 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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lol, i think almost everyone in this thread is a liar. been with my girl for almost 4 years. sex once a month and every third month we'll do it 2 or 3 days in a row. mainly because she is cold though.
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Anonymous #21
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Re: How often do you and your romantic partner "do it?" [Re: Anonymous #13]
#9483861 - 12/23/08 03:35 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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bullshit!
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