I've been w/ my girl for about 6 years now. I love her very much and have financially supported her while she worked towards her Bachelor's and Masters. We aren't married, so there is nothing keeping us together except each other's desire to remain in a committed relationship. Having said that, I think of other women as much as any other guy (I assume). We have a solid sexual relationship, but I still fantasize about the different women who have caught my eye...it's human nature.
Humans aren't monogamous by nature...it's something that started happening once the idea of property and ownership began to take hold on prehistoric groups. The thing is though, we need to observe respect towards a partner who we are in a committed relationship with...if you do choose to act physical outside the relationship, just make sure it is after your desire is made clear to your significant other. I've come close to doing this myself, but a cheap thrill will never amount to what my gf and I have shared, even though I sometimes want to believe otherwise. Best wishes .
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