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Helpme1
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Is this an unreasonable request?
#7911728 - 01/21/08 08:02 PM (16 years, 11 days ago) |
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this is just a quick summary of events, all i wanna know is if it is jackass of me to ask my girlfriend this....
My girlfriends friend kissed her and held hands with her
would it be unreasonable if i asked her to choose between me and him once and for all?
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Re: Is this an unreasonable request? [Re: Helpme1]
#7911731 - 01/21/08 08:03 PM (16 years, 11 days ago) |
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Helpme1
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good idea, ill just drop some acid and break up with her instead
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Re: Is this an unreasonable request? [Re: Helpme1]
#7911752 - 01/21/08 08:06 PM (16 years, 11 days ago) |
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no ask for a 3 some
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Re: Is this an unreasonable request? [Re: Helpme1]
#7911762 - 01/21/08 08:07 PM (16 years, 11 days ago) |
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Helpme1
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Re: Is this an unreasonable request? [Re: ManianFH]
#7911795 - 01/21/08 08:12 PM (16 years, 11 days ago) |
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why have a 3 some when i can have a TREEsome?
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Re: Is this an unreasonable request? [Re: Helpme1]
#7911900 - 01/21/08 08:28 PM (16 years, 11 days ago) |
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is your girlfriend's friend a girl or a guy?
if its a girl pull the threesome move. *giggity*
if its a guy tell her to choose.
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Re: Is this an unreasonable request? [Re: Helpme1]
#7911970 - 01/21/08 08:39 PM (16 years, 11 days ago) |
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what type of kiss are we talking? have they been friends for a long time? how long did all this last? were you there witnessing the event? if not, how do you know about it?
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Helpme1
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Re: Is this an unreasonable request? [Re: demiu5]
#7912037 - 01/21/08 08:48 PM (16 years, 11 days ago) |
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she told me he kissed her on the cheek they are "bestfriends" for idk how long it lasted maybe 10 minutes i wasnt there LOL and she told me about it.
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Re: Is this an unreasonable request? [Re: Helpme1]
#7912041 - 01/21/08 08:49 PM (16 years, 11 days ago) |
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If this is all there is to it, it could be unreasonable. However if there are more signs something might be up between them..
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Re: Is this an unreasonable request? [Re: Asante]
#7912055 - 01/21/08 08:51 PM (16 years, 11 days ago) |
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i think i forgot to add that she would probably be with him if i wasnt dating her.
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Re: Is this an unreasonable request? [Re: Helpme1]
#7912065 - 01/21/08 08:52 PM (16 years, 11 days ago) |
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never get yourself tied up with girls in those kind of situations...
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Re: Is this an unreasonable request? [Re: Helpme1]
#7912069 - 01/21/08 08:53 PM (16 years, 11 days ago) |
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a kiss on the cheek is not that bad, and holding hands for 10 minutes is kinda iffy, unless some serious shit is happening in her life and he is just being there for her
now, if you are positive (not just speculative) that she would be with him, i would probably step aside seeing as how in the long run you don't have a chance anyways
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Re: Is this an unreasonable request? [Re: Helpme1]
#7912071 - 01/21/08 08:53 PM (16 years, 11 days ago) |
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Quote:
i think i forgot to add that she would probably be with him if i wasnt dating her.
Yeah toss her the ultimatum then
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Re: Is this an unreasonable request? [Re: Helpme1]
#7912076 - 01/21/08 08:54 PM (16 years, 11 days ago) |
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jealousy is bad... you'll find that with an ultimatum you'll be recieving the short end of the stick, she trusted you enough to tell you about it, accept it as innocent but let her know that it bothers you
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Re: Is this an unreasonable request? [Re: Helpme1]
#7912118 - 01/21/08 09:02 PM (16 years, 11 days ago) |
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that's no good then however I was the best friend in a similar situation and she chose me over her boyfriend 7 out of 10 times. The other 3 times she pulled some shit and told her boyfriend what I said. she figured if she threw me under the bus he would understand how much that meant. He didn't get it and she came crying to me nut tryied to tell me it wasn't like that but she finally admitted it. I think the guy she is with now is good for her and he treats her well. You need to tell her it bothers you and that she needs to set some solid boundries. A friendly kiss on the cheek is harmless unless he is just a pussy sniffer trying to get her then I would forbid it.If it was on the lips it would be different. I have several chick friends and they kiss me on the cheek and vice versa. I don't do it in front of their husbands but they do, gets awkward but I am happily married and I have slept with all these girls so we are close friend. I have never cheated on anyone and never will so it isn't an issue. I was uncomfortable when my wife left her exstripper friend here after she spent the night and my wife went to work. I just don't even like being in a position where someone can make shit up.Tell her how you feel and if she doesn't respect it smash his face in. Most girls don't find disfigured guys sexxy and if his open wounds are weeping I bet he ain't gonna get near her cheek unles she is cool with puss....in that case u should run...jk
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