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girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs
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First of all, Im not a junkie on herion or anything. The only drug i have ever done is Salvia, i havent even smoked weed.

Anyways i after my salvia experiences i wanted something more. Something that lasted longer and had visuals and what not, not just something that mindfucked you for 5 minutes. So i started reading up on Shrooms LSD and Mescaline.(Disclaimer: i am not looking to shrooms to get fucked up i want to have a psychadelic expierances along with the insight that can come with it) Anyways i started talking to a friend of mine at work who has done above mentioned drugs. Now he is going to be able to get me some shrooms. So i told my girlfriend of 3 years of this interest and she pretty much told me it was either i chose her and never satisfied my curiosity, or tried these things but lost her. So i chose the second option and she broke up with me.(BTW we are 18) Now please dont excuse this for high school drama and that shit thats not the kind of responses im looking for.

My question to you is, does this make me a bad person? I feel like shes not letting me be who i want to be, but am i wrong in thinking that?

Any answers would be wonderful, thank you.


added and update here http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/7063039#Post7063039

most recent update 7-7-07
http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/7144283#Post7144283


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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Well... my ex had VERY strong feelings about my drug use, and my God it was hard to hide from her. Which I shouldn't have had to do, mind you... she should have been able to accept me for me.

Turns out she's a stripper now, so YAY MORALS.

You're not a bad person. you're your OWN person, doing your own thing. If she can't handle that you're different to the usual "lols let's get drunk and smasha tv" jock idiot, that you like to advance yourself and find out more about who you really are... forget her.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: Butta]
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Turns out she's a stripper now, so YAY MORALS.


lol

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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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heartofalion said:
My question to you is, does this make me a bad person? I feel like shes not letting me be who i want to be, but am i wrong in thinking that?

Any answers would be wonderful, thank you.


I've been down this road before. Some people just don't want to understand. I say fuck them! I refuse to dramatically change my lifestyle for anyone if they don't like me for who I am. You're not wrong in your thinking, and you are not a bad person for enjoying your mind.:cool:


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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women... fuck 'em.

if she doesnt want to accept you for who you are and who you are to become, she's
not for you, part of human nature is curiosity... it's growing experience, just
make sure you're informed about what you're doing and dont get to carried away in
the future.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: Prisoner#1]
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Prisoner#1 said:
just make sure you're informed about what you're doing and dont get to carried away in the future.


Quoted for importance. Can't stress it enough, in fact.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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i am not looking to shrooms to get fucked up i want to have a psychadelic expierance


there's nothing wrong with taking mushrooms just for fun. hell, i smoke salvia just for fun. it doesn't always have to be a deep spiritual trip.

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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: Prisoner#1]
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Prisoner#1 said:
women... fuck 'em.

if she doesnt want to accept you for who you are and who you are to become, she's
not for you, part of human nature is curiosity... it's growing experience, just
make sure you're informed about what you're doing and dont get to carried away in
the future.


Yea bro im not going to be stupid about it, i have been lurkin here for a while, 420chan, and reading as many reports on erowid that i can.

Thanks you guys, you're really upping my confidence in my decision.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: maggotz]
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maggotz said:
there's nothing wrong with taking mushrooms just for fun.


it's all recreational regardless of how you want to define it


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: Prisoner#1]
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I've been there before.Thats just how life goes I guess.Someday you'll meet someone who'll accept you for who you are.Just keep being you and do whatcha do. :mushroom2:

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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: Prisoner#1]
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i've had hippies tell me that mushrooms are not to be taken just for fun. fuckers really think of themselves as shamans. :lol:

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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: maggotz]
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YA i took datura once for a fun time and oh boy it was loads of fun, excellent for quiting smoking!


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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heartofalion said:
My question to you is, does this make me a bad person?


Of course not!  You made the right decision.  You could have lied to her and snuck around on her, but you didn't.  You could have caved under pressure from her and suppressed your own interests in order to 'keep the peace,' but you didn't.  You should be proud.

I don't know either of you, but if she can't accept you without rejecting parts of you, she is not the girl for you.

You sound like your approach to drug use is sensible; I think you'll be just fine.

:shineon:


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~ R.W. Emerson, "Self-Reliance"

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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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Drug culture > her

Trust me.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: AJ4U]
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you should have made tea out of the whole plant. i guarantee you would never have a cigarette after that.

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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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heartofalion said:
Yea bro im not going to be stupid about it


good to know, the drugs you've taken an interest in are pretty safe, you can do
some foolish things on them but they wont do any significant harm, a fatal
overdose doesnt happen, maintain a fear of drugs that it can occur on.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: maggotz]
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ya i also dont see right after that, do you realise i tried to claw my eyes out and had to wear a patch like a pirate for a year, they didnt think id be able to see again but now alls i see is scratch marks in my vision which makes for a trippy effect when tripping. I also ran through a glass door and fell down a flight of stairs


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: AJ4U]
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AJ4U said:
ya i also dont see right after that, do you realise i tried to claw my eyes out and had to wear a patch like a pirate for a year, they didnt think id be able to see again but now alls i see is scratch marks in my vision which makes for a trippy effect when tripping. I also ran through a glass door and fell down a flight of stairs


Wow that sounds fun.


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~ R.W. Emerson, "Self-Reliance"

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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: Prisoner#1]
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Prisoner#1 said:
heartofalion said:
Yea bro im not going to be stupid about it


good to know, the drugs you've taken an interest in are pretty safe, you can do
some foolish things on them but they wont do any significant harm, a fatal
overdose doesnt happen, maintain a fear of drugs that it can occur on.


Yea i have no desire to anything more than what i listed cept DMT, that about extends my interest in drugs.

Anyways, Im now glad i made the decision i made. Thank you shroomery. We started talking again (we do this on and off thing alot) and she said shes gunna start researching it. But like when i told her i planned on trying them soon (she assumed when i went to college this was going to be happening and i didnt tell her about the guy at work cuz i didnt want suprise visits when im tripping) she flipped out on my again. I dunno its frustrating.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: WhiskeyClone]
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How you act towards yourself and such (using drugs etc) doesn't make you a bad person at all.  This is your life and you can live it as you see suit.  The only thing that would make you a bad person is if you're acting towards another person in irrational and cruel ways.  I think you're probably an upstanding citizen from the sounds of it, who's curious and open-minded, but unfortunately the person you're in a relationship (or that you were in a relationship with) obviously isnt' as open-minded. :O

Plus, if someone dumps you out of drug use like salvia, they aren't worth sticking around anyway.  Sounds like someone who'd be pushy and want you to live her way.  You're better off. :smile:


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: AJ4U]
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AJ4U said:
ya i also dont see right after that, do you realise i tried to claw my eyes out and had to wear a patch like a pirate for a year, they didnt think id be able to see again but now alls i see is scratch marks in my vision which makes for a trippy effect when tripping. I also ran through a glass door and fell down a flight of stairs


My apologies for derailing the thread, but gosh I laughed at that.

In reference to the ACTUAL thread, nothing can be said here that hasn't been said already. You've all done well to answer the man's question.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: Butta]
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Yes you have thanks so much you guys!:mushroom2:


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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Well dude she probably felt it was time to break up and used this as a legitimate reason. Also the way you worded the whole salvia thing in the first post makes me think you aren't taking enough? You said u wanted something with visuals????


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: DeathCompany]
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Lol Oh i get plenty from salvia but i want something that doesnt transport me to a totally different place like salvia does.

And i would think that but now she wants to get back together but i dont cuz i think when i do shrooms she just gunna flip shit on me and i dont that looming over my head.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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dude, u cant let a girl tell u what to do.

if u start a relationship as a pussy they will take advantage of you.

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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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heartofalion said:
Lol Oh i get plenty from salvia but i want something that doesnt transport me to a totally different place like salvia does.

And i would think that but now she wants to get back together but i dont cuz i think when i do shrooms she just gunna flip shit on me and i dont that looming over my head.


Haha i was going to say something about her wanting to get back together in the near future. Shes just creating drama in the process of testing you in hopes of getting you not to try drugs. I can tell your thinking straight, i wouldn't get back together for that very reason. There are plenty more drug friendly people out there for you to meet. Ask her why she doesn't like the idea. Chances are she thinks they are dangerous because of all the bullshit rumors shes heard and then prove her wrong.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: DeathCompany]
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Im trying to prove her wrong but shes to bull headed to listen. She keeps telling me im kinda fuck up my life bla bla bla bla bla. And i use you guys and erowid to back myself up.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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What kind of things is she saying, How will doing shrooms fuck your life up?!?! Id love to hear her argument


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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heartofalion said:
Im trying to prove her wrong but shes to bull headed to listen. She keeps telling me im kinda fuck up my life bla bla bla bla bla. And i use you guys and erowid to back myself up.


Don't bother man. You don't need to justify anything to her; that's why you broke up, remember?

You're more likely to convince a stone to be a Christian.


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~ R.W. Emerson, "Self-Reliance"

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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: DeathCompany]
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DeathCompany said:
Chances are she thinks they are dangerous because of all the bullshit rumors shes heard and then prove her wrong.


Dear God, ain't that the truth. If she tries to tell you that taking e is like taking ice cream scoops out of your brain, just run the hell away.
My ex is mental. She was talking about going to Europe and she couldn't wait to get cheaper pills in London, rah rah rah... I was saying "I'd love to go to Amsterdam, shrooms and weed, legal!" and she spat it. "AS IF YOU WOULD DO MUSHROOMS, I WOULD NEVER TAKE MUSHROOMS".

"Why?" was my reply... her answer? She didn't have one. Because she' a brainwashed idiot. I could've sat there and given her statistics and a run down of the physical/mental effects of both drugs, fuck, I could've drawn her a flowchart if I wanted to. Only thing is, you've got to realise that some people, straight off the bat, are never going to want to know any different. They're ignorant fools.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: WhiskeyClone]
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even stones are smarter than that. :lol:

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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: Butta]
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"Why?" was my reply... her answer? She didn't have one. Because she' a brainwashed idiot.



Haha amen. They never have actual facts, the closest thing they got are what they heard from a friend of a friend (someone who probably doesn't even exis) or their own imagination which for some crazy ass reason the completely believe


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: maggotz]
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maggotz said:
even stones are smarter than that. :lol:



haahahah


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: DeathCompany]
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Sounds like you didn't enjoy being with her anyway after you found out how close-minded she was.  I'd say take this break to explore, and relax.  You're on the right path (a path of personal decisions made by you, not someone else). :smile:


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: Maverick]
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Most people have been brainwashed by the shit we see in the news area everyday. Basically, shrooms are in the same 'class' as H...riiight.
You can't really blame someone for not being properly informed as the media goes to great lengths to make sure everyone is misinformed. Just the world we live in.

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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: DeathCompany]
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DeathCompany said:
What kind of things is she saying, How will doing shrooms fuck your life up?!?! Id love to hear her argument

\\She tells me im going to get addicted. I tell her there is no physical addiction and there is a very low chance of psychological addiction and i dont have an addictive personallity.
She says im wasting my money, yet she has the inability to save money whereas i have saved up and bought a new computer a very nice laptop and still have a decent chunk of change saved in the bank.
And she sticks by that fact that its going to take over my life or something like that. The whole its illegal and ur going to get caught.

And she uses well if it so okay why dont you talk to my parents about it and i tell her its because they are as ignorant if not more than she is.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: AJ4U]
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lmao


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: TurntableJunky]
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lol you should dose her ass stupid cunt


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: AJ4U]
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AJ4U said:
lol you should dose her ass stupid cunt


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: AJ4U]
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AJ4U said:
lol you should dose her ass stupid cunt


Lol i dont hate her i know shes doing it cuz she cares and she thinks its gunna fuck me up but i just want her to see that its not


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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You like sugar with your coffee right honey? :evil:


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: AJ4U]
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its not gonna work man, women cant be reasoned with.

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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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ahah well so far i picture her as my mom


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: DeathCompany]
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Eh by the sounds of it, it's over and done. Don't go back or it'll fail. You disagree with her lifestyle and understandings and she does the same, and you probably won't find any crossroads to relate.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: Maverick]
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:yesnod:


she sounds like an over achiever


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: DeathCompany]
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DeathCompany said:
:yesnod:


she sounds like an over achiever


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

god if only you knew her, it would be quite the opposite


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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haha thats just how i pictured her.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: DeathCompany]
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lol when I saw this thread first thing came to my mind was my homeboy's relationship.



She hijacked his car after he got out the car, and while peeling out away in his car she yelled out "you f*cking drug adict. Nothing but a f*cking drug adict* . "you junkie!! all you know is drugs" . Look everyone he's a f*cking drug addict!!!"

Lol I asked him why she said that, and he's like man it's just from me smoking weed.


I can attest to that, all he does is smoke weed, that's all. He usually smokes when she stresses him out. Anyway she goes psycho, she made him seem like a crack head or something by the way she yelled that out. I felt bad for him.



Anyway ... F*ck her... she doesn't except you then thats her problem not yours.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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Dont tell her that your going to do them.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: TurntableJunky]
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Aside from what others have said... if you don't take mushrooms because of her pressure you are missing out on something VERY badass on levels you don't even know exist, hell after you dose them it might be clear as day to you that shes not the one for you lol.... GO FOR IT! Also if she knows for whatever reason and insists on being there while you do it for whatever reason, you shouldn't do them with her anywhere near because she will probably just fuck your trip up. My ex told me if I ever did acid to never talk to her again, well I'm glad I did what I did.. now when she calls occasionally I have absolutely no interest in her and its made obvious. We were together for 3 years btw, and it sounds like she has a lot in common with your gf.. Listening to lame ass demanding bullshit from the ignorant = :thumbdown::thumbdown:

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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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Get rid of this girl and find a tripper chick.

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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: nookjohn]
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nookjohn said:
Get rid of this girl and find a tripper chick.


Best Goddamn advice I've seen in years!!!

:thumbup:

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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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haha. how gay. sorry.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: Merkin]
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before we got together she smoked weed. And shes smoked salvia with me a couple of times. Thats what i dont understand.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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heartofalion said:
before we got together she smoked weed. And shes smoked salvia with me a couple of times. Thats what i dont understand.


haha, thats strange, maybe ask her why her opinions on substance use have changed?

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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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damn...smokes weed and is worried about addiction with mushrooms?

she is just trying to hold you back

you will find your way in college...


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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Yeah man, don't let her change you for who you are. She should not be the 'control freak' or mother you around if what you are doing is extremely harmless! A cool girlfriend would be your salvia sitter :smile:


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: Iron_Hymen]
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Ok well update.

She got a BF i dealt with it pretty well didnt depress me or anything i was doing good ya know. Well then she was about to get kicked out her house so we arranged for her to stay with me for a lil while until shit got worked out. Throughout this we started talking again and what not and she pulled the i still have feelings again shit bla bla bla. Well her parents ended up letting her stay and she was back with her BF, well this killed me. I got depressed had trouble eating and sleeping and when i did sleep the dreams were horrible.

Then i decided fuck it im done so i drive over to her house sit her down and calmly ask her to help me get over her. I asked her not to call me and if i called her not to answer and so on and so forth. I drove away crying (only time i cried throughout this ordeal) and got home and started to feel slightly better and i knew overtime i would get better. Well like an hour later she calls me and says she has to tell me something, so i wait and she tells me this guy is gay and she was just using him to try and get over me. so i was all like wtf and now my plans for getting over her were shot.

So the past day or so we have been talking on and off and hanging out a little bit, and shes been kind of bitchy to me on and off. Then tonight she says whats the point of talking because she knows we arent getting back together because she doesnt want to be with someone with an interest in drugs. So we agree with the whole not talking thing but i just dont feel like its a clean ending. I feel like shes treating me like im a giant pain in her ass and i dont know its hard to explain. How do i get over her? I just dont want to have feelings for her anymore because they hurt to much. The way she ended our last coversation she made it sound like i was just a passing thing. But she supposedly loved me ya know. I dont know. This girl has been my best friend for the past 3 years. I have no one else i can talk to like i can talk to her. I have other friends but none who i can have serious coversations with. Its killing me because when im not at work i just sit at home and sulk because i have nothing to do. I dont know i just want this to be done.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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edit...

Edited by trendal (06/19/07 09:45 PM)

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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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Next time she eats dinner with you feed her some mushroom pizza :yesnod:  See if she changes her outlook


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: trent]
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edit...


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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edit...

Edited by trendal (06/19/07 09:46 PM)

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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: trent]
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her boyfriend is gay and we had been together 3 years and 5 days after we break up she has a new bf how the fuck am i suppose to feel


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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like i miss her saying stuff like this

this is from an email from about two months ago

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I really wish I could change things... like us. and I cant help but to push it. but. I just miss you, being in your arms, kisses, 2 second hugs, just anything. ya know!?! I like that 'right feeling' when being with you. I want everything to be alright.... I even openly admitted to Brad and Jarett that you turned me down. ha. Even though its was because I annoyed you, I still put it that way.... not to make you sound like the bad guy. They just asked if we were together or not. I said no, I pushed it and you said no. and they laughed. and I didnt whine or bitch about it. I thought it was pretty funny myself. I really am fine with this whole U of I thing. but. I guess you'll never know how I feel until you return. I take it you wont call me or anything. And. I dont know if you will think of telling me what happened as 'reporting' to me. but. I would like to know. not to keep tabs on you. but. I dont know. Just to see if we are moving on or what not.
welllllllllllllll.... I hope you write back, or call me, or something. I really really wanna talk to you. I miss being able to call and you always picking up and us just talking. no matter if we are angry and what not. my effing ear hurt so bad, and you didnt pick up, or call me back. i needed some serious help. I was crying (from the pain) and I just didnt know what to do. but. I layed down with ice on my ear to hopefully numb it and after it was practically frozen and hurting from the cold and not touching it.... I yanked it out. which was hard cause it was a zig zagged ear piece. Ill show you later.
bye michael.
please call or email or something. anything. i want everything to be ok.



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edit...

Edited by trendal (06/19/07 09:46 PM)

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haha who says "effing" let alone spells it out.

Anyways you should get a new girflriend:foreheadslap:You'll completely forget about the old one. See they are only special when your with them. Fill the gap.:whatever:


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DeathCompany said:
haha who says "effing" let alone spells it out.

Anyways you should get a new girflriend:foreheadslap:You'll completely forget about the old one. See they are only special when your with them. Fill the gap.:whatever:


yea shes wierd but thats why i love her.

I do not want another GF AT ALL. I dont want this shit ever again. If anything a fuck buddy but my confidence isnt high enough to have sex with someone else.


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heartofalion said:
If anything a fuck buddy but my confidence isnt high enough to have sex with someone else.



Then get drunk first.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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heartofalion said:
like i miss her saying stuff like this

this is from an email from about two months ago

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I really wish I could change things... like us. and I cant help but to push it. but. I just miss you, being in your arms, kisses, 2 second hugs, just anything. ya know!?! I like that 'right feeling' when being with you. I want everything to be alright.... I even openly admitted to Brad and Jarett that you turned me down. ha. Even though its was because I annoyed you, I still put it that way.... not to make you sound like the bad guy. They just asked if we were together or not. I said no, I pushed it and you said no. and they laughed. and I didnt whine or bitch about it. I thought it was pretty funny myself. I really am fine with this whole U of I thing. but. I guess you'll never know how I feel until you return. I take it you wont call me or anything. And. I dont know if you will think of telling me what happened as 'reporting' to me. but. I would like to know. not to keep tabs on you. but. I dont know. Just to see if we are moving on or what not.
welllllllllllllll.... I hope you write back, or call me, or something. I really really wanna talk to you. I miss being able to call and you always picking up and us just talking. no matter if we are angry and what not. my effing ear hurt so bad, and you didnt pick up, or call me back. i needed some serious help. I was crying (from the pain) and I just didnt know what to do. but. I layed down with ice on my ear to hopefully numb it and after it was practically frozen and hurting from the cold and not touching it.... I yanked it out. which was hard cause it was a zig zagged ear piece. Ill show you later.
bye michael.
please call or email or something. anything. i want everything to be ok.





Ack.. don't read that shit... it's masochism.

You start getting over her the moment she's no longer making appearances in your life. Other than that, time and distractions are all that will help. From what I've read she's just bad news.

Maybe she used to be your best friend, but she isn't anymore. Start accepting that. My ex was my best friend too... but it had to come to an end. Yes it was hard, but trying to keep in contact with her was much harder than just parting ways. We haven't spoken in months; that's just the way it has to be.

I had the same feelings you had. In fact I broke up with her a few times and took her back because I let that feeling of sadness and loss overwhelm me. I was too chicken to do the right thing and I just made it worse for both of us.

You can't make things better except by moving on.


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heartofalion said:
I do not want another GF AT ALL. I dont want this shit ever again.



Sounds familiar. That's true right now maybe. But feelings change, and they will.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: WhiskeyClone]
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thank you....it just helps to read that others have gone thru this too and its possible to get out


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Most people have probably gone through something like that. When it happens, it's all you can think about, but before long it will shrink into the past.

As long as you stop talking to her and reading her emails...


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it so easy to say but so hard to do


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Yup.

Nothing worth doing is easy.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: WhiskeyClone]
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change her number to DO NOT PICKUP/CALL or completely delete it out of your phone and don't pick up numbers that don't come up with a user ID/caller ID

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heartofalion said:
First of all, Im not a junkie on herion or anything. The only drug i have ever done is Salvia, i havent even smoked weed.

Anyways i after my salvia experiences i wanted something more. Something that lasted longer and had visuals and what not, not just something that mindfucked you for 5 minutes. So i started reading up on Shrooms LSD and Mescaline.(Disclaimer: i am not looking to shrooms to get fucked up i want to have a psychadelic expierances along with the insight that can come with it) Anyways i started talking to a friend of mine at work who has done above mentioned drugs. Now he is going to be able to get me some shrooms. So i told my girlfriend of 3 years of this interest and she pretty much told me it was either i chose her and never satisfied my curiosity, or tried these things but lost her. So i chose the second option and she broke up with me.(BTW we are 18) Now please dont excuse this for high school drama and that shit thats not the kind of responses im looking for.

My question to you is, does this make me a bad person? I feel like shes not letting me be who i want to be, but am i wrong in thinking that?

Any answers would be wonderful, thank you.


added and update here http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/7063039#Post7063039


look man if she cant accept you for who you are then you are better off, because it wasnt going to last if she cant handle you doing that. love is about going through the worst of times along with the best of times and accepting each others problems/habits/ or bad things you do.

Edited by highdroponics (06/18/07 09:25 PM)

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I didn't read anything past the initial post, but..

if she's unwilling to accept the idea that you want to try drugs, how do you think she'll handle other difficult decisions down the road?

if you've tried to have a rational conversation about it with her, and you still want to try the shrooms, then do your best to forget about her.

Edited by justin_thyme (06/18/07 09:39 PM)

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Liquidkick said:
change her number to DO NOT PICKUP/CALL or completely delete it out of your phone and don't pick up numbers that don't come up with a user ID/caller ID


Thanks that was actually a really good idea i did that and set her ringer to silent so i wont even know when she calls


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Post deleted by AlCapwn

Reason for deletion: Didn't read page two. :S



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AlCapwn said:
Good luck on opening her mind, if that's what you're trying to do.


best way I have found to open up peoples minds is with a hammer.

(meaning its impossible to "open" up someones mind)

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AlCapwn said:
Good luck on opening her mind, if that's what you're trying to do.


Not anymore, i did try and realized it was pointless, so hence we are no longer together or even talking which sux, but there isnt much i can do. The only thing i could do is call her and swear never to touch drugs but im too curious to do that.


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Yeah, sorry about that, I only read the first page and posted.


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AlCapwn said:
Yeah, sorry about that, I only read the first page and posted.


no problem i do the same thing on alot of threads, i do appreciate your input and thoughts. It all helps with the process of moving on :grin:


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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its funny how i see very day how people get involved in the exact same situations i was in my relationship. growing together is a process that takes a lot of YOU. i found myself in a similar. may be even the same situation. and im telling you this in the girl point of view. to me she seems really insecure. a lot of times i will be that way back when i used to be silly. she might think you will fall into a point where youll like all that stuff more than you like her. that youll spend your time experimenting and put more interest into somehting else than her. its all about insecurity. sometimes things have to break apart to let the light shine through. good luck on this life journey.

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Well as an update, we got back together but i have promised to never touch psychedelics or any drugs of that matter besides salvia and alcohol. Hopefully someday ill get her to share my views on hallucinogens. Until then tho ill be happy with what i have.

I know i caved but i honestly would rather be with her then experiment and i realize this now. Thanks for all ur guy's advice.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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i briefly started dating a guy when i was an IV drug addict.
i dumped him before it got too serious, because i could tell he was really getting into me, and well my body and addiction was getting in such fucked up shape i honestly didnt know if i was going to die or not last year.
i hid most of my usage from him, but he was such a sweet and nice guy, the type "that would do anything" for the one he loves, i could never break his heart.
he didn't understand when i said it was for his good that i was breaking up with him, but i stressed that i had some issues that i needed to figure out.

with that said, if drugs revolve around your life, or are an important factor in what makes YOU you, it will never work with somebody who is anti-drugs.

personally id take drugs over sex or a relationship but thats just me. :mushroom2:


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: Crystal G]
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yea i thought my curiosity would out play my love and it just didnt. I mean shrooms and LSD sound amazing, but i dont think they can compensate for the feeling i get when im with her.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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sounds like she's just worried about you, like someone else said, its not her fault she has strong opinions not based on fact, poeple have been telling her bad shit about mushrooms her whole life probably.

if you guys are still together i'd say keep talking with her about it occassionally. also, there is no rush to do them, taking them a year from now isn't going to be much differnt than taking them a day from now.

tripping with the people you love is the best kind of trip. i say tell her you're going to wait a year and from you'd like her to do them with you, and she has plenty of time to read up on it.

find the erowid experiance reports where lovers took mushrooms together, i'm sure there are many glowing ones.

edit: i did the same thing your girlfriend did... i was very anti drug until cough syrup opened my eyes (wtf? if you drink cough syrup you'll leave your body and talk to aliens? that can't be true.)


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Just watch... this won't be the last time she'll give you a ridiculous ultimatum

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From: DRTMaverick:
Plus, if someone dumps you out of drug use like salvia, they aren't worth sticking around anyway. Sounds like someone who'd be pushy and want you to live her way. You're better off. :smile:


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: Crystal G]
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I went to drug conceling with someone from here in Utah( in my classes I didnt know him until i went to classes..as an example) and he was a 15 year meth addict, and the last years he shot up meth, he had to get into a rehab clinic or he would have died, he was into serios drug rehab for 5 years befor he got into just basic drug diversion classes like I was, court ordered shit, I just had numerous charges incuding selling a stolen compter, lying to a cop and 2 time weed possession and selling alcohol to a minor.

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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: truekimbo2]
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lol your a trip man his girl friend isn't gonna trip with him man hes lucky if she doesn't dump him after he asks her such a question.


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"The time has come the walrus said, little oysters  hide their heads, my Twain of thought is loosely bound I guess its time to Mark this down, Be good and you will be lonesome
Be lonesome and you will be free
Live a lie and you will live to regret it
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QuantumMeltdown said:
lol your a trip man his girl friend isn't gonna trip with him man hes lucky if she doesn't dump him after he asks her such a question.


she wouldnt break up w/ me if i asked. In the beginning i told her of my interest and she said i had to choose her or my curiousity.

But i am going to try the erowid report idea thanks.


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Re: girlfriend dumped me cuz of drugs [Re: heartofalion]
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ya i also dont see right after that, do you realise i tried to claw my eyes out and had to wear a patch like a pirate for a year, they didnt think id be able to see again but now alls i see is scratch marks in my vision which makes for a trippy effect when tripping. I also ran through a glass door and fell down a flight of stairs

Wholey Cr4p ! -> Where you suffering from paranoid delusions (freakish nightmare trip) or did you see the glass door as a wormhole to another dimension ?


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morels>morals  :wink:


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