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ClammyJoe
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Couldn't perform
#5339222 - 02/25/06 08:47 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Today my girlfriend and I reached a point where we were ready to finally come together in the act of love making, but unfortunately, despite the whole time being exceedingly aroused, when the time came I could not maintain an erection. Fuck I feel like a little girl. Is this even semi-normal or am I doomed to a life of shame?
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eligal
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Re: Couldn't perform [Re: ClammyJoe]
#5339738 - 02/25/06 11:08 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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leave your comments out of this forum
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Edited by trendal (02/26/06 12:26 PM)
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Penguarky Tunguin
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Re: Couldn't perform [Re: ClammyJoe]
#5339800 - 02/25/06 11:39 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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If it continues to happen, maybe then, yes. Don't worry about it. If you're girlfriend is halfway cool, she's not worried about it either. Try harder next time.
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RandalFlagg
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Re: Couldn't perform [Re: ClammyJoe]
#5339932 - 02/26/06 01:01 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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You know...my first reaction was to laugh uncontrollably at your misfortune.
Then, I thought back to a certain incident that I had. A girl that I had dated in high school contacted me some years ago. She made it clear that she wanted to get laid. I went down to her college. We took off our clothes and I could not get an erection. I was laying there feeling her breasts and kissing her and I could not get it up. It was really embarrassing. I think it all had to do with me feeling uncomfortable for some reason.
I feel your softness, brother.
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eligal
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Re: Couldn't perform [Re: ClammyJoe]
#5340130 - 02/26/06 03:16 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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not being able to get/keep an erection is normally just psychological. if you are nervous, stressed, etc. then itll attack your penis.
also an unhealthy diet can cause problems
-------------------- \m/ Spanksta \m/ "do you have the freedom to do with your nervous system what you want?" "MolokoMilkPlus said: I'll respect you if you let me give you a blow job" "tactik said: respect the can."
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The_Hobbit
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Re: Couldn't perform [Re: eligal]
#5340303 - 02/26/06 08:11 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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I suggest not whacking off. It does wonders for your peepee.
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beavis190
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Re: Couldn't perform [Re: The_Hobbit]
#5340765 - 02/26/06 11:52 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Viagra.....
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ClammyJoe
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Re: Couldn't perform [Re: beavis190]
#5341521 - 02/26/06 03:36 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Yeah, she was cool about, but I just felt like a loser the rest of the day. I really hope it was just some nervousness combined with my friend feeling it was alright to not heed the warnings and walking right in on us seconds before it took place.
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browndustin
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Re: Couldn't perform [Re: ClammyJoe]
#5345770 - 02/27/06 03:18 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Don't worry, man. Same thing happened to me a couple of nights ago. Girlfriend was really in the mood, I was too... then all of the sudden we looked down and SUPRISE SUPRISE! lol
Fuck, did it ever piss me off! I really wanted some too.. she had to go home after and that sucked. It happens from time to time. Diet, brain, etc... all contributing factors. As long as she doesn't think that she's not good enough or anything, don't let it bug you two.
Me and my gf ended up doing the dirty deed the next day.
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pshawny
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It happens to the best of us. I went to a party one time and ended hooking up with this chick. I originaly went to this party to hookup with another girl, this girl's friend. We madeout for close to an hour, me with an erection the whole time, then off to a bedroom for some hanky panky.
By this time it was sunrise, the window in the room had no blinds so the room was bright. I was in a unfamiliar place with a girl I had just met that night. I didn't even know the girls name, bad memory I guess. I tried to stick it in her, but I had a semi-erection, ya know, plus I had to pee. So I paused the action and went to the bathroom, came back and she had her pants back on. We madeout for awhile longer, my weewee came back to play, but we never ended up doing it. I blame it on nerves.
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Newbie
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Re: Couldn't perform [Re: pshawny]
#5348603 - 02/28/06 08:44 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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First thing's first.
Chics aren't dudes (thank god). Just because they don't get sex doesn't mean they're disappointed or anything. She was probably perfectly happy with the preceeding that occured before the receding (pun...sorry).
My gf and I have sex many times a day, and for hours at a time. It didn't start that way. Our first time lasted about 10-15 minutes. The second time I couldn't even get it up, and I know the feeling. It's like having a bad trip, the more you think about the issue the harder it is to get an erection. LOL not that an erection has anything to do with tripping but you know what I mean.
The more comfortable you 2 are around each other the easier it is to maintain an erection, and make sex last longer.
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