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OfflineTasty_Smurf_House
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I'm wrecking my relationship with my girlfriend.
    #3079984 - 09/01/04 11:06 PM (13 years, 2 months ago)

I may have posted this before. But I couldn't find the thread.

Anyways. I'm going out with my g/f whom I love so very much, for the fourth time. Last time we broke up was in February. Anyways, I was gonna hang out with her one day in June or something and she ended up ditching me and lying about what she did because she didn't want me to know. She won't tell me and says it's personal and I'm pretty sure someone hurt her and she won't tell me and it is driving me nuts. I keep harassing her over it because I want to know yet she doesn't want to tell me and I can't stop. It drives me nuts. This is a horrible way to start our relationship up again but I can't help it and I don't know what to do. I feel like I need to know so that I can think about it and get over it. I feel like she should be able to tell me because she's my girlfriend and I love her and I know that I would tell her anything she wanted to know.

What should I do?!  :confused:


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Re: I'm wrecking my relationship with my girlfriend. [Re: Tasty_Smurf_House]
    #3080506 - 09/02/04 01:09 AM (13 years, 2 months ago)

Trust is the number one thing in relationships, to me. There is obviously a reason she is keeping it from you. Just let her know, that no matter what happened, that it was in the past and it wont change anything.


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Re: I'm wrecking my relationship with my girlfriend. [Re: Tyger]
    #3081074 - 09/02/04 04:18 AM (13 years, 2 months ago)

but i wanna know. it bugs me. i still love her and yeah, but it always keeps coming up in my mind, what happened?


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Re: I'm wrecking my relationship with my girlfriend. [Re: Tasty_Smurf_House]
    #3081104 - 09/02/04 04:30 AM (13 years, 2 months ago)

I think she'll tell you in time.  Give her some space.  I know what you mean about wanting to know.  It could be something that she feels badly about and doesn't want to bring back to the surface for a variety of reasons.  I have several of those myself...eventually, I told my then-boyfriend-now-husband.  That's all I can suggest...she'll tell you when she's ready.  :heart:


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Re: I'm wrecking my relationship with my girlfriend. [Re: MOTH]
    #3081141 - 09/02/04 04:51 AM (13 years, 2 months ago)

maybe she did something like, fuck your good friend and does not want you to find out... EVER


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Re: I'm wrecking my relationship with my girlfriend. [Re: Tyger]
    #3081307 - 09/02/04 06:12 AM (13 years, 2 months ago)

No. It's not that. It's more like what Ellemy said. :frown: It's just so hard not to know when I know that I don't know. Ya know?


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Re: I'm wrecking my relationship with my girlfriend. [Re: Tasty_Smurf_House]
    #3081339 - 09/02/04 06:32 AM (13 years, 2 months ago)

ya I know.

It's the fact that she doesn't wanna talk about it, and that's what's bugging you....

I'm sure she will tell you sooner or later, just let it go for now.


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Re: I'm wrecking my relationship with my girlfriend. [Re: Tasty_Smurf_House]
    #3081819 - 09/02/04 10:22 AM (13 years, 2 months ago)

Ya dude women are sooooooo freakin hard to understand sometimes! Ellemy hit the nail on the head.. Good luck bro :sun:


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Re: I'm wrecking my relationship with my girlfriend. [Re: Tasty_Smurf_House]
    #3083606 - 09/02/04 06:02 PM (13 years, 2 months ago)

:sun:Yeah, I wouldnt even know where to begin after being apart 3 times. There would be trust issues and all of that.

Ever hear this saying?

"If you keep doing the things you've always done, you will keep having the things you've always had." :smirk:

It's simple but true. Let us know how it goes. Good luck!  :thumbup:


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