but I cannot deny my body's reaction.
Indeed, I as well understand that aside from social-cultural-political conditionings and memetics, any real aversion to the deformed and similarly unfortunate is instinctually encoded in our limbic brain. We are naturally attracted to symmetry, and those with symmetrical faces and so on.
I remember once when watching a documentary on this sort of subject on television that Denzel Washington was voted the most handsome male actor, because of his facial symmetry and such. Anyway, the attraction towards those who are more beautiful is instinctually embedded in our brain due to evolution for the same reason that women are innately attracted to men who either have wealth, or tall, muscular bodies, or all of the above. All of these represent the factor of security and protection to the woman - for herself and her children or future children. Likewise, men are attracted to shapely women with attractive features, which innately assure men that their offspring would be endowed with such good genetics, hence increasing the chances of the child's survival and so forth. As far as ethics and morals go when dealing with people who're born deformed... It can indeed be a tricky situation at times. At this day and age in this first-world society, the rule of "survival of the fittest" isn't quite as strong as it used to be, obviously - at least, not in the old conventional sense. Any quick glance at the percentage of the population in the US alone that is plagued with the epidemic of obesity will dictate this. Has there ever been such an epidemic in history before? Extremely unlikely, since the causes behind the widespread obesity today are related to issues that was non-existent not so long ago.
Anyway, when it comes to the morbidly deformed, such as the kind that Swami spoke of, I can also put aside the feeling generated from the aforementioned instinctual-drive, and think "outside the box", of course. And still, it doesn't get much brighter for the person in question, IMO. The person who is morbidly deformed is bound to spend most of his life in a polite, yet secretly ashamed exile by society. Take a look at what was perhaps the most famous case of deformities in history, The Elephant Man. Do you think this man was happy with himself? It's pretty obvious that this person could tell that he was obviously not genuinely accepted, as his personal freedom was greatly limited by the ridicules of the 'outsiders'. If he stepped foot outside, he'd receive reactions and responses from others ranging from the mild to the extreme and sometimes even the unspeakable. And even when he was in the security of his confines, he would constantly be subject to cold flock of scientists, and we can only imagine how genuinely "close" or "friendly" they were. The Elephant Man was fortunate enough to have at least one individual - if that - that gave him sincere companionship.
Again, the point is that modern society pushing the life of the extremely deformed, for the sake of political correctness and "higher than thou" morals that stem from ignorant shame of our "beastly animal sides", may in fact, be sentencing a human's life to Hell with no chance of parole. Other species would've gone easy on the poor soul and let Death take it back.
And then there are those who fall just short of being the morbidly deformed. These are the ones that will easily be kept into survival under the safe haven of this particular society's morals and cultural ethics. Yet, they too, have no easy road ahead of them. If they're really unlucky, they'll be forced to go through the hell of public schools loaded with childish evil. Names, taunting, picking, bullying, you name it. "Oh but my son isn't like that. He's such a good boy - he's always bringing me flowers. A bully? Never!" Meanwhile that son of yours is ripping the tulips off the deformed child?s mother's lawn after he just shoved him on the sidewalk for "looking at me funny", so he can give them to you, and be showered with blind affection... An subconscious method of alleviating guilt, cleverly, deviously orchestrated by the little munchkin.
So... my final verdict on the ethical and moral issue of how to deal with these unfortunate people [unfortunate because of the place they're entering, not because of their condition itself]. In this advanced world and society of ours... Where we spend millions of dollars into building prisons, beefing up our uh, anti-missile defense system and shady wars across the planet... I cannot think of a real excuse for us to not establish multiple havens for the severely deformed/disabled across the nation. We've already done this with for the blind and deaf and likewise handicapped. There have been massive campuses, many acres huge, surrounded by vintage iron fences that look like something out of a renaissance festival, with several dorms and buildings for education and the healthy sustaining of these people's lives, with several playgrounds and so on, for the handicapped folks. These people get to live in their own society, free [more or less] from the type of shame that the Elephant Man had to endure, thanks to the modern wonders of our society.
But, in retrospect, I suppose the issue of such extreme deformity isn't all too common either, so that would mean only one or perhaps two facilities would need to be established - if that.
The only exception I have to the above suggestion of how to manage the problems of these folks, is those who are deformed in such a way that they are enduring physical [and psychological] pain as a result. In that case, it's obvious that forcing them to live in such a way is a cruelty in itself.
-gunshot-
"But why, daddy? Why!?"
"Shh... You'll understand when you grow older."
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