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OfflineJeeLiX
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Girlfriend problems!
    #4309397 - 06/18/05 12:15 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

My girlfriend who I love with all of my heart and want to spend the rest of my life with recently broke up with me. She says she still loves me and just does not want a relationship right now.She was always saying how I was the man she loves and her best friend.
Anyways her mom recently decided she wanted to divorce her dad because she has suspected him cheating on her for a LONG LONG TIME . So 5 days before our one year she breaks up with me, because she says she needs space. But this is partly due to her so called "best friend". She is scaring her because now all of the sudden she says she doesnt want a relationship right now, she wants to date other people.She wants to go out and be able to have fun.When we first started dating she was all about commitment.And when we do go out we have a blast together.She has admited to me that it was because of all the things her friends tell her. She says she still loves me, but needs space, and one day she will come back. I really havent been trying as hard as I should to give her the space she wants.She means soo much more to me than I thought anyone ever could.It is SOO HARD. Tonight I feel like crap because she said she was going to go shopping at the mall with the girl that talked her into breaking up with me (her best friend) when the mall closes in 20 minutes...So now I think she is out partying with her friends somewhere and I am soo worried about her and about us. I cant sleep I cant eat I cant do anything. Should I just stop calling her altogether?? I feel so alone, I dropped all of my friends because they are all out doing drugs, so I have no one..


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Re: Please help me [Re: JeeLiX]
    #4309416 - 06/18/05 12:19 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

Yeah, women are sluts. I've heard it before, and it sucks. She just meant (in my situation) "I want to sleep with as many people as I can."


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Re: Please help me [Re: JeeLiX]
    #4309420 - 06/18/05 12:20 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

Go out with your friends & do some drugs with them.


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Re: Please help me [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
    #4309422 - 06/18/05 12:20 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

yea, listen to hella.


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Re: Please help me [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
    #4309429 - 06/18/05 12:22 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

Ya, my girlfriend isnt like that though dude, she wont sleep with anyone without telling me she has. She just wants to be able to go out and date other people I GUESS. But I miss her so much....


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Re: Please help me [Re: JeeLiX]
    #4309433 - 06/18/05 12:22 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

Just never talk to her again, it'll cause you less pain in the end.


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Re: Please help me [Re: DeadHeadNotLed]
    #4309440 - 06/18/05 12:24 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

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DeadHeadNotLed said:
Go out with your friends & do some drugs with them.




:thumbup:

This man has a good suggestion. I recommend forgetting about her, and in the meantime, smoke some pot and drink some rum.


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Re: Please help me [Re: Ravus]
    #4309448 - 06/18/05 12:26 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

*and screw some hookers


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Re: Please help me [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
    #4309459 - 06/18/05 12:28 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

No, I dont want to go back down that road....


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Re: Please help me [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
    #4309472 - 06/18/05 12:31 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

yea dude, i broke up with mine, similar situation, wasn't my choice.

Keep your self occupied, don't cry out for help, hold it in, crying out for help like you have done tends to make you think more about it and can make you dependent on people.


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Re: Please help me [Re: JeeLiX]
    #4309474 - 06/18/05 12:32 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

drugs > GF

Think what situation you would be in now if you had just stuck with your friends and drugs instead of your GF. You would be out having a great time, instead of all heartbroken, alone, and sad.


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Re: Please help me [Re: JeeLiX]
    #4309477 - 06/18/05 12:32 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

men just need mutiple women...all the time..it is in our nature, I am a nice guy..the kind of guy that is commited forever, but I got tired of the same woman after a while..we got tired of each other and wanted to move on..I bet some of my ex girls still wish they were back with me in a way..because the way I treated them..like a complete gentleman...damn I am glad I never got married I would have filed for divorce twice and would have been paying child support for atleast 2 kids by now....I love methods of birth control..or I would be even more fucked then I am now...


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Re: Please help me [Re: Druggie04]
    #4309494 - 06/18/05 12:36 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

Man if I had stuck with my friends I would be DEAD RIGHT NOW.


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Re: Please help me [Re: JeeLiX]
    #4309496 - 06/18/05 12:36 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

if your under 25 you need to date as many women as possible.


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Re: Please help me [Re: joe666]
    #4309517 - 06/18/05 12:40 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

I dont see why? This one was special man, I knew that if I broke up with her I would regret it for the rest of my life. Shes the kind of girl that you only come across once in life, if your lucky. I'm not the kind of guy thats insecure and tries to make himself feel better by having sex with as many women as he can. I prefer to have some kind of emotional attatchment before we have sex.


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Re: Please help me [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
    #4309542 - 06/18/05 12:50 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

hey man,  breakups are painful for a while, but you'll get over it in time.  I know exactly how you feel, its like you have no reason to live. feels like everything you had is now gone. you feel empty and alone..   
 
but its temporary.  when my last girlfriend broke up with me, I was feeling depressed and hopeless and sorry for myself  for like 3 months.  maybe longer, but it felt like FOREVER!!   

I got over it when I realized that the only thing I missed was having someone.  I realized she was not a person I could spend the rest of my life with, I was just phased by the drastic change in my life, and i wanted things back how they were..

Time is the only medicine, and it healed me up good.  so good that I can see my ex and talk to her and be friends. I'm actually happy about the good times we had together, instead of being sad that they're gone.  hell im not even attracted to her at all anymore.


  BUT LISTEN!!  if you are really really serious  that you want to spend the rest of your life with this woman.. then dont get all clingy and call her and cry to her or anything like that..  Dont let her see you're jealous when she dates another guy.  DO NOT BEG HER TO COME BACK TO YOU!     

  when a guy does that, the girl hates it.  she loses ALL attraction to the guy.  she loses all respect for him, replacing it with pity

dont be a girl about it.  girls want to date men, not men that act like girls (i.e. clingy, jealous, overly emotional)

  if you let her know that you have no life without her, all that does is scare her because it puts a tremendous amount of pressure on her.
she probably wants a dependable, stable man who doesnt fall apart emotionally as soon as she says she needs some space.

I dont know this girl personally, of course.  im saying this from personal experience with other women.

  my advice is this.. continue to talk to her but NOT A LOT.  and when you do talk to her, act like you're totally fine.  hell, even go out with another girl, it'll show her that you're not a fragile dependant girly man.
 
  It is painful, I know. but it goes away eventually  :thumbup:


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Re: Please help me [Re: JeeLiX]
    #4309546 - 06/18/05 12:52 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

JeeLiX said:
I dont see why? This one was special man, I knew that if I broke up with her I would regret it for the rest of my life. Shes the kind of girl that you only come across once in life, if your lucky. I'm not the kind of guy thats insecure and tries to make himself feel better by having sex with as many women as he can. I prefer to have some kind of emotional attatchment before we have sex.




i hear ya on that... but at the moment theres nothing really for you to do. its best to just foget about her for a while, and if she comes back, then she will be yours for the keepin, but, if she never comes back, will you be able to handle it? for the moment, just be happy yo uhad the chance to meet someone like her, caus as you said, alot of guys never do.
ps, if u dont want drugs dont take em. (sounds like u got a bad past with them...)


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Re: Please help me [Re: JeeLiX]
    #4309553 - 06/18/05 12:54 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

if you're young you really need to experience life
before you make that big commitment

I know you feel she was/is the one
I felt like that a few times

I'm just really glad I didn't wind up with those girls

you need to find out about yourself,the world,and just life in general
before you strap yourself down
take the time now,you won't get it later in life


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Re: Please help me [Re: BoneMan]
    #4309558 - 06/18/05 12:56 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

BoneMan said:
BUT LISTEN!!  if you are really really serious  that you want to spend the rest of your life with this woman.. then dont get all clingy and call her and cry to her or anything like that..  Dont let her see you're jealous when she dates another guy.  DO NOT BEG HER TO COME BACK TO YOU!     

  when a guy does that, the girl hates it.  she loses ALL attraction to the guy.  she loses all respect for him, replacing it with pity

dont be a girl about it.  girls want to date men, not men that act like girls (i.e. clingy, jealous, overly emotional)

  if you let her know that you have no life without her, all that does is scare her because it puts a tremendous amount of pressure on her.
she probably wants a dependable, stable man who doesnt fall apart emotionally as soon as she says she needs some space.

I dont know this girl personally, of course.  im saying this from personal experience with other women.

  my advice is this.. continue to talk to her but NOT A LOT.  and when you do talk to her, act like you're totally fine.  hell, even go out with another girl, it'll show her that you're not a fragile dependant girly man.
 
  It is painful, I know. but it goes away eventually  :thumbup:




good way of puttin it  :thumbup:


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Re: Please help me [Re: BoneMan]
    #4309586 - 06/18/05 01:03 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

OK thanks guys, she has already seen me cry about it, but she wont anymore. When she starts dating other people I'll act like its no big deal, and say things like I hope you have fun. I'll go out with the girls from work to stay occupied. She has her away message up right now, but I wont message her. I have not begged her to come back to me though, I know that that is pathetic, and something I would never do.


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