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circularvortex
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Clingy Friends
#10206035 - 04/21/09 09:24 AM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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So I've had clingy girlfriends before, but never a male friend like this. The guy is going to college and is on the GI Bill/disability pay, and his school is paid for, so he doesn't work.
That's cool for him and all, but I'm going to school full time and I work practically full time (30ish hours/week), so needless to say I keep busy. This guy doesn't seem to understand that I don't have time to dick around all the time whenever he's bored, and he's always trying to make plans with me ahead of time when I don't have to work or be at school. It's too much, I'm feeling suffocated like I have with clingy girlfriends before. It's like he doesn't get that not everybody has a free ride and can spend all their time goofing off.
The guy needs to get a job or a hobby or something, I'm sick of entertaining his ass.
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Cowgold
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He's reaching out, dude.
...trying to coax you into killing him.
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Ferris
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Grow some balls and be straight with him. You're treating him like a chick
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burma
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tell him like it is
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circularvortex
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Re: Clingy Friends [Re: burma]
#10206272 - 04/21/09 10:30 AM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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Yeah, I know, I don't wanna be a dick about it though, cause he is a friend ya know?
I've tried to be subtle about it and just been like, "I dunno man, I'm really busy right now, don't have time, etc"
I'm treating him like a chick cause he's fooking acting like one.
At least when I had a clingy girlfriend I got some pussy out of the deal.
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Newbie
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We have a clingy friend in our circle too, not sure if you read THIS when it was active or not.
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Re: Clingy Friends [Re: Newbie]
#10206536 - 04/21/09 11:21 AM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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Ya, I recall reading that.
The thing is this guy isn't being a mooch or anything, he always has his own pot and he's usually pretty free with his money, it's just he wants to hang out like every day and it gets old hanging out with the same person day after day after day.
He's a good friend, but I'm kind of a solitary person sometimes. I need time to recharge my batteries, ya know?
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Re: Clingy Friends [Re: Newbie]
#10206580 - 04/21/09 11:27 AM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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Newbie said: We have a clingy friend in our circle too, not sure if you read THIS when it was active or not.
What's the update on that newb? Is douche still around?
and yeah circular, you just have to let the guy know that you don't have time to hang out with him. Give him the old I'll call you, don't call me routine.
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Re: Clingy Friends [Re: tpihkal]
#10206591 - 04/21/09 11:29 AM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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He's still around and quit the mooching, but he's still very possessive with friends. Still a weird dude, and still annoying to be around.
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