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The_Hobbit
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What is good sex
#4097819 - 04/26/05 12:07 AM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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What, in your opinion, makes for good sex? Have you studied the kama sutra or tantric stuff? I have no idea about those things, but I am interested in their general teachings.
I think I would be naturally good at having sex, even though I'm a virgin. I can just tell. =) But I'd like to learn more about it and get your guys' opinion on the matter.
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Liz
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Re: What is good sex [Re: The_Hobbit]
#4098599 - 04/26/05 11:38 AM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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In my opinion, sex is always better with someone that you love. It's more passionate that way. Also, timing, communication, and compatibility are all big factors.
And a vibrating, adjustable bed doesn't hurt either.
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gbhtrfv
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Re: What is good sex [Re: Liz]
#4098926 - 04/26/05 12:58 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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tantra and karezza and the like will involve spiritual trancendence and union through sex. orgasm control (not suppression) to ride the peaks and troughs to take your conciousness to another level of awareness.
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Irradiated_Feces
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Re: What is good sex [Re: The_Hobbit]
#4099288 - 04/26/05 02:19 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
hobbitcg said: What, in your opinion, makes for good sex?
Practice. Get to it.
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Le_Canard
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Re: What is good sex [Re: Liz]
#4099809 - 04/26/05 05:10 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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ifallapart said: In my opinion, sex is always better with someone that you love. It's more passionate that way. Also, timing, communication, and compatibility are all big factors.
And a vibrating, adjustable bed doesn't hurt either.
Indeed....
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JacquesCousteau
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Re: What is good sex [Re: Liz]
#4099874 - 04/26/05 05:28 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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Yup, what ifallapart said is pretty much spot on.
Hey ifp, where you from in MA? I'm in MA too...
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DNKYD
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Re: What is good sex [Re: The_Hobbit]
#4100020 - 04/26/05 05:59 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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"Sex is like pizza. When it's good, it's good. And when it's bad, it's still pretty good."
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Irradiated_Feces
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Re: What is good sex [Re: DNKYD]
#4100326 - 04/26/05 07:50 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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DNKYD said: "Sex is like pizza. When it's good, it's good. And when it's bad, it's still pretty good."
I couldn't disagree with this statement more. Lame sex is the worst, I would absolutely rather have no sex then bad/boring/lame sex. blahh
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The_Hobbit
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How can I learn how to have good sex? Are there any websites that could teach me? I'm not looking for philosophy so much as techniques.
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Re: What is good sex [Re: The_Hobbit]
#4100520 - 04/26/05 08:40 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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You can't learn on a web site.. Drop a couple tabs of acid w/someone you love, and get it on. You'll figure it out quick enuff
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Irradiated_Feces
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Re: What is good sex [Re: The_Hobbit]
#4100624 - 04/26/05 09:10 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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Yea sorry to say man, it's all about experimentation and every girl is different. What "technique" may work for one, may not work for another. Just be in touch with her and keep an open mind and you'll figure out soon enough what is good and what is not so good. Get the partner to help you along and for their own benefit they should open up and let you know. Sex the first few times may be awkward, uncomfortable, or just downright bad it's all about finding a good woman and sticking with it. Practice on some uggos if you have to.
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Irradiated_Feces
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But I would recommend learning how to eat. Invaluable. There are plenty of teks out there on the internet.
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Autonomous
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Re: What is good sex [Re: The_Hobbit]
#4100645 - 04/26/05 09:16 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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Good sex is when you have an orgasm. Great sex is when your partner looks just as beautiful after you had orgasm as she did before.
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Todcasil
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Re: What is good sex [Re: Autonomous]
#4100670 - 04/26/05 09:21 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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good sex is ego loss.
i cannot acheive ego loss without love.
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Autonomous
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Re: What is good sex [Re: Todcasil]
#4100674 - 04/26/05 09:23 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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I can.
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Todcasil
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Re: What is good sex [Re: Autonomous]
#4100681 - 04/26/05 09:24 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
Autonomous said: I can.
than youre a better human than i, i guess.
/me waves flag
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Re: What is good sex [Re: Todcasil]
#4101833 - 04/27/05 05:17 AM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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id say if you wanna learn how to fuck, fuck on meth you'll be a sex god. if you can get it up that is
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The_Hobbit
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Re: What is good sex [Re: grphish]
#4101839 - 04/27/05 05:27 AM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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I just smoked crystal meth for my first time a few days ago. I was with a girl I like and I felt like touching her the whole time. I might get a chance at being a sex god some day. =)
I wouldn't smoke shit outside of hanging out with this girl, though. She likes it, so I'll do it with her. I like it too, except for the after effects (no appetite for a while, not being able to sleep for an even longer while). I'm happy to go through after effects for her, though. =D
This is why I'm asking about sexual technique like positions, different stuff to try, and just general information that could be helpful. I think I'll be naturally skilled at having sex. It wouldn't be akward or uncomfortable for me; I can tell. Even if I went in without knowing anything, I could still do good. But I'd rather go in with a little knowledge. =)
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Todcasil
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Re: What is good sex [Re: The_Hobbit]
#4103184 - 04/27/05 03:05 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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every man goes it alone some day, adn all teh books and pep talks from uncomfortable fathers or excited friends isnt really going to help you when the dat finally comes..
no pun intended.
GL, lay off the pipe, youll thank me for it later.
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Re: What is good sex [Re: The_Hobbit]
#4103482 - 04/27/05 04:01 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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Lay off the shit. The more you use it for those reasons, the more you'll be inclined to use it for others.
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