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Toddo
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Re: No sex [Re: eligal]
#5807963 - 06/30/06 10:51 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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bobjones
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its been a year for me, and i've never really been bothered by it. as i found much more fufilling ways to spend my time and energy.
just try not to concentrate on it. obsessing about it is only going to make it that much worse....shrug...
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Penguarky Tunguin
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Re: No sex [Re: DoctorJ]
#5808328 - 07/01/06 12:29 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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RandalFlagg said:
I haven't gotten laid in two months.
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!
2 months? You fuckin wussbag! I could do 2 months standing on my head whilst singing "I'm a Little Teapot"
Perhaps some day you will cast aside the shackles of the material world to become more than just a biological machine who wants what the chemicals in his brain tell him to want.
it's called willpower, dude. Perhaps you should accquire some.
2 months
bwhahahahahaha
sorry, its just that... 2 months!
J is right. 2 months is nothing. Stop bitching man. I thought you were done posting anyway....
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RandalFlagg
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Re: No sex [Re: MOTH]
#5808517 - 07/01/06 01:15 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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EllemyshShade said: Then why not find a friend who is only interested in sex. They're out there, I'm sure of it.
Friends with benefits? Hell yeah. If that fell into my lap (no pun intended) I'd go for it probably.
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RandalFlagg
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Randalflagg said: "I've been in a super anti-social mood for the past couple of months. I do not feel like putting forth the effort that is required with a relationship at the present moment."
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Dreamer said: well thats no good. The anti-social tendency's only get worse if you give up like that. I know from personal experience.
Yeah, I know. I go through phases like this. I've been kind of bummed lately so it is hard to get my social skills going.
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RandalFlagg
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Re: No sex [Re: DoctorJ]
#5808554 - 07/01/06 01:24 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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DoctorJ said:
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RandalFlagg said: I haven't gotten laid in two months.
2 months? You fuckin wussbag! I could do 2 months standing on my head whilst singing "I'm a Little Teapot"
Perhaps some day you will cast aside the shackles of the material world to become more than just a biological machine who wants what the chemicals in his brain tell him to want.
I can't help it.
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RandalFlagg
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Penguarky Tunguin said: 2 months is nothing. Stop bitching man. I thought you were done posting anyway....
I have no idea what you're talking about.
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Penguarky Tunguin
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Cheer up man... I need to do the same thing. Was at a friends house who just so happens to live about 20 steps away from the ex.... Could easily have knocked on her door, but decided against it.....
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RandalFlagg
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Oh God, I'm so horny.
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Penguarky Tunguin
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Want me to send you a pic of myself?
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RandalFlagg
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Woah pal. I don't swing that way.
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Hey man, you're all alone right? Who's to know, other than me of course.
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Torrid
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Stop posting in this thread about it... it's only going to make you think about it more. You've admitted that you are not likely to have sex in the near future, so why worry? If you're not willing to do anything about solving your problem, forget about your problem entirely.
Remember that you have complete control over what you think... your mind has the power to ignore physical impulses, regardless of their overwhelming strength.
I'd recommend meditation over masturbation. Masturbation may temporarily curb the physical drive, but surely it isn't helping you think about sex any less.
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RandalFlagg
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Re: No sex [Re: Torrid]
#5808652 - 07/01/06 01:45 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Torrid said: Stop posting in this thread about it... it's only going to make you think about it more. You've admitted that you are not likely to have sex in the near future, so why worry?
Remember that you have complete control over what you think... your mind has the power to ignore physical impulses, regardless of their overwhelming strength.
Masturbation may temporarily curb the physical drive, but surely it isn't helping you think about sex any less. I'd recommend meditation over masturbation.
ohm....need sex.....ohm.....need sex....ohm....
Just kidding. Thanks for the advice.
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MOTH
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RandalFlagg said:
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Randalflagg said: "I've been in a super anti-social mood for the past couple of months. I do not feel like putting forth the effort that is required with a relationship at the present moment."
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Dreamer said: well thats no good. The anti-social tendency's only get worse if you give up like that. I know from personal experience.
Yeah, I know. I go through phases like this. I've been kind of bummed lately so it is hard to get my social skills going.
Where is feeling bummed coming from?
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Re: No sex [Re: MOTH]
#5809303 - 07/01/06 10:16 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Probably 'cause of the decrease in poon intake....
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Yoschie99
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vicious cycle...
increased exercise and other forms of 'release' will help.. you like to fish and be outside, right? spend more time outdoors.. go for short hikes in the evening a few hours before bed.. while you're out, your mind shouldn't be on booty as there are no obvious signs in nature (save for that occasional used lifestyles).. and, you'll be too tired to lay in bed thinking about the ass you aren't getting when it's time to call it a day.
in the mornings.. the gym, maybe? jog? bike? i dunno what your schedule is like, what you do, etc.. (you passed out at NE before we had any sort of conversation )..
or.. you could go the artsy route and paint or sculpt or something..
just find more things to occupy your time that provide some form of release that while maybe not comparable to busting a nut, will keep your mind off that piece of missing pie.
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Veritas
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Your active sex drive is fueled by testosterone. As you are in your twenties, your testosterone levels are still fairly high, though lower than they were during adolescence.
The main reason you go into what I like to call the "camel phase" (as in walking across miles of desert without an opportunity to quench your thirst) after six months is that the lack of activity causes your testosterone levels to drop.
If you would like to induce the "camel phase" a little earlier, you can lower your testosterone levels by refraining from fantasy and masturbation, eating a primarily vegetarian diet, avoiding vigorous exercise and weight training, and only playing games you are likely to lose.
(Sexual activity/fantasy, meat, exercise & winning competitions all raise testosterone levels.)
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Re: No sex [Re: Veritas]
#5809500 - 07/01/06 11:41 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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RandalFlagg
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Re: No sex [Re: MOTH]
#5809539 - 07/01/06 11:56 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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EllemyshShade said:
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RandalFlagg said: I've been kind of bummed lately so it is hard to get my social skills going.
Where is feeling bummed coming from?
I don't really want to go into it.
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