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Delyrium
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I think I'm in love
#3332782 - 11/08/04 10:02 AM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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Alright so I have been in love before. Only once. I've said it before - back in Jr. High when every boy I saw was my soul mate and we'd be married.
But the truth is - I've felt real love only once. It was great and incredible. I lost it.
I've been seeing this guy for 2 months now, and we've been together just about every day. He's incredible. So caring and giving. Everyone I know likes him and everyone he knows likes me. It's crazy - I found the guy that I have always wanted. The guy that when I would dream up one - he'd be it.
My problem is - I think I'm in love with him. Should I even say anything to him about this? Would he freak out? How would I even go about telling him this - or is it better to keep quiet.
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danlennon3
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Re: I think I'm in love [Re: Delyrium]
#3332816 - 11/08/04 10:20 AM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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tell him the truth. explain how you are having better feelings for him. most likely he will say he loves you too. the best way to keep a good relationship with someone is to be honest with them
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JettaJay
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Re: I think I'm in love [Re: Delyrium]
#3333546 - 11/08/04 02:33 PM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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My girlfriend said she loved me after only 1.5 months and I said it back and meant it too. So tell him !!!!
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AbstractHarmonix
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Re: I think I'm in love [Re: Delyrium]
#3333547 - 11/08/04 02:34 PM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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whats is your sign? whats his?
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Corporal Kielbasa
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Glad your happy. I dont know though if ya want to say it just say it. No one could tell you if it would freak him out better than him. If it seems like he is in love then why not.
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wo_serotonin
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I would have to agree, coming out and confessing your love might be overwhelming to some people. Your gonna have to make a judgment call on whether or not he would be overwhelmed. Also maybe consider waiting a little bit, what could it hurt to get to know him a little better.
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CherryBom
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Re: I think I'm in love [Re: Delyrium]
#3337635 - 11/09/04 02:30 PM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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Do what you think is right. You will know exactly when is the right time to tell him. Hell, he might even tell you first!
I was with my boy officially for like a month and he told me he loved me. Then we moved in together and now we're engaged and we've only been together for year.
You will know! Good luck and have fun with your boy!
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Todcasil
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Re: I think I'm in love [Re: CherryBom]
#3337953 - 11/09/04 03:46 PM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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honesty... the more you brood, the more he will know somethings on your mind...
if he loves you as well (which is ideal) than no freaking out... if he does freak out, maybe it wasnt meant to be... but if he is as good as you are saying he is, he will be honest with you, and thats what you both need.
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Society
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Re: I think I'm in love [Re: Todcasil]
#3338129 - 11/09/04 04:25 PM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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And if you can't directly say "I love you", then talk about it indirectly or indirectly show it by doing something significant.
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Todcasil
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Re: I think I'm in love [Re: Society]
#3340631 - 11/10/04 08:39 AM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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many people need to hear the word love (it is an assurance, and a comfort) as opposed to having someone do something significant... i am one of those types, and believe me if you love him, let him know... you will find out soon if he need to hear it more often... just dont be afraid to love, and let someone know they are loved.
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MorbidHamster
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Re: I think I'm in love [Re: Todcasil]
#3342275 - 11/10/04 03:02 PM (19 years, 4 months ago) |
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One thing that stands out to me is where you say you "think" you're in love in the title, if you really are in love wouldn't you just say you are in love? Maybe think about it some more and see if it really is love. Anyway, if you tell him ou are in love and he doesn't feel the same way maybe he will think you are moving to fast and back off i don't know, it could be the opposite. All depends on what kind of person he is and if he has the same feelings it's a 50/50 chance. If you genuinely do love him then tell him and see what kind of response you get. It's best to get it out in the open. Peace
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Herbus
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Quote:
AbstractHarmonix said: whats is your sign? whats his?
YES! The alignment of Jupiter relative to Saturn can surely determine whether or not she loves him and vice versa.
Soooooooo silly.
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eligal
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Re: I think I'm in love [Re: Herbus]
#5397742 - 03/14/06 03:21 AM (18 years, 19 days ago) |
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Quote:
Herbus said:
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AbstractHarmonix said: whats is your sign? whats his?
YES! The alignment of Jupiter relative to Saturn can surely determine whether or not she loves him and vice versa.
Soooooooo silly.
hey man. hey.
it works ok!
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eligal
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Quote:
wo_serotonin said: I would have to agree, coming out and confessing your love might be overwhelming to some people. Your gonna have to make a judgment call on whether or not he would be overwhelmed. Also maybe consider waiting a little bit, what could it hurt to get to know him a little better.
i agree with this man here. although you can push it a little by being some-what romantic (you know). but if you do tell him, you dont have to go all out and tell him you "love" him, instead just tell him you "really like" him.
but im wonderin why do you feel you should tell him? why are you even considering it? just enjoy your time with him and let it takeyou where ever it does. love doesnt always have to be expressed in words.
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CaRnAgECaNdY
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Re: I think I'm in love [Re: eligal]
#5397781 - 03/14/06 04:05 AM (18 years, 19 days ago) |
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Does she even post here anymore? This thread is like 2 years old!
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Pirate_Patrick
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I wonder what posseses people to look at threads that are two years old.
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goobler
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Re: I think I'm in love [Re: Delyrium]
#5398036 - 03/14/06 07:34 AM (18 years, 19 days ago) |
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true love is rare...you know it when you feel it...
tell him
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eligal
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Pirate_Patrick said: I wonder what posseses people to look at threads that are two years old.
really wtf... i thoguht posts got deleted after a while too
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