CHeifM4sterDiezL said:

i always thought my moms cousin was gay but he has a really ugly wife and two kids. i just think theres all types of people in the world and its a good point aren't always going to fit into some type of cookie-cutter social categories. when there's like a billiondy people in the world surely something like this happens a bunch. people are very complex and the brain and psyche are dynamic and constantly changing throughout life. i thought people here would be more open and accepting to this

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Bold part is a sign of them being gay in my opinion.
In my experience, if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it's a duck, period. They may not act on it but extremely effeminate men are gay or have the desire, or sneak it somewhere, that is just my (one person) experience in my 53 years here and 26 years of being out and going to bars, parties, etc...I have also met extremely manly men that are married and claim that "my wife knows and we have an agreement for the sake of the kids" and other such excuses. I still get turned on by older chubby pretty women. Haven't been with one since 1998 though and am very happily married to a man now. Never married a woman or had kids with one (that I know of). (my sig looks like my partner)

specialpeopleclub said:

I'd give a limb to know.
Its reply lame being of a proclivity that can't have a kid and also is a sin according to cutting edge spiritual research (bible)

You know the first space ship was made of bibles?

Its mostly wanting kids and wondering why there is a proclivity for men to suck dick and eat butts. Like, what good does any of that do?
No child has ever me from butts, except butt children

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xbloodwhipx said:

st1llnox said:

Just curious if anyone has any stories to share, particularly regarding gay men that started dating women and stuck to it or even got married and had kids.

What was the story?

Were they lqtently bi, or did their attraction change, or did they just decide they didn't want to be on that team anymore? What was their motivation? How did they handle the transition (ie did girls think it was odd they'd dated men for the years before meeting them?)

Please share and thanks in advance. I don't have any to contribute myself but I watched the movie "I Am Michael" and it has me wondering what normal ex gays are like.

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all gay people are secretely straight and being gay is a choice

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st1llnox said:

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I simply believe that underlying straightness and gayness lies the neuronal ability to "flip the switch".

Not easy, near impossible, but not, completely, I think.

I just believe that nurture can override nature in this regard.

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started calling myself bi because a week or two of the year I'll be attracted to women. 98% of the time I'm 90-100% gay but it turns out this is called "bi-cycling" and having your orientation wander around is actually rather common. I've only been able to be straight on demand once but that was whilst on peyote.

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U should map those weeks during the year. Might be related to time or the changing of the seasons

st1llnox said:

Lol I'd say 40-50% of people would comfortably fit in the bi category, believe me.

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tyrannicalrex said:

I am like that to an extent. I can have sex with women but I connect more with men mentally, so the sex is better, lol. I have always found older bear men more attractive. since 13-15yo.

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Asante said:

CHeifM4sterDiezL said:

society isnt against homosexuality its 2018 dewd

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Are you kidding? Plenty of households are a century behind, easily especuially the 40% christian fundamentalists.

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Not much has changed.

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CHeifM4sterDiezL said:

im not listening to either of those horrible songs.

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specialpeopleclub said:

You don't gain anything out of being gay, and they expect you to be into the lgbtq thing, like everyone is part of the same!e group.

And off topic, but not adopting is wrong? You are literally taking some probably teenage fuckup's burden on yourself.
People treat having their own kid as like, selfish.

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You don't gain anything out of being gay

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Hetero detected.

st1llnox said:

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Not much has changed.

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Everything has changed... there's like a bazillion people out at my high school now and nobody cares. People have threatened to not be friends with mutual frienda if they had a problem with when I was dating a chinese guy. There are same sex couples on primetime TV shows. 

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