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What to do...
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I met this girl on POF, she's into me, I'm not. I don't see anything romantic happening here but I want to get laid.

Going on 3rd date this afternoon.

Should I:

A: Tell her the truth, propose that I'm open for friends with benefit and risk getting a no

B: Just walk away

C: Keep pretending in order to get laid.
What to do
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14 44%
B
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6 19%
C
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8 25%
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Votes accepted from 11/25/17 09:16 AM until the end of time


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Re: What to do... [Re: Patlal]
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Fuck her then chuck her. Like the rappers do.


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Something there is mysteriously formed,
Existing before Heaven and Earth,
Silent, still, standing alone, unchanging,
All-pervading, unfailing,
I do not know its name; I call it tao.
If forced to give it a name, I call it
Great (ta). Being great, it flows out;
Flowing out means far-reaching;
Being far-reaching, it is said to return.

It's just a shot away..

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Re: What to do... [Re: Bill_Oreilly]
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I say tell her the truth. You never know what can come of it. Maybe down the road it does get romantic. That is kind of how things went with my now wife. Most women like honesty. Being honest has a better chance of keeping her around as a fuck buddy.


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Re: What to do... [Re: TheMadHatter420] * 1
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Be honest maybe she just wants to get laid too. You never know.


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Re: What to do... [Re: Bill_Oreilly]
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I wouldn't even take her on a date if I wasn't into her. Why would you want to bang her if you aren't into her? Its been a long time since I've been single so I guess I'm the wrong person to ask.


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Re: What to do... [Re: searching]
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DSHSB

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Re: What to do... [Re: Kyshroomer19xx] * 1
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Kyshroomer19xx said:
Be honest maybe she just wants to get laid too. You never know.


I didn't even think of that lol.


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Re: What to do... [Re: Patlal]
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How do you know you're not into her if you haven't even met her.


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NotSheekle said
“if I believed she was 16 I would become unattracted to her”

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Re: What to do... [Re: koods]
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koods said:
How do you know you're not into her if you haven't even met her.


Read the op. :archiebunker:

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Re: What to do... [Re: Crazy_Horse] * 4
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That's a lot to ask


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NotSheekle said
“if I believed she was 16 I would become unattracted to her”

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Re: What to do... [Re: koods]
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No one reads OP but the 1st couple ppl to comment, lol.


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Re: What to do... [Re: Patlal]
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Im pulling a stal on this one.


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Re: What to do... [Re: Patlal] * 1
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Why can't you just walk away? What is the problem here? What is stopping you? What are you? Coward? If I dont like a girl, I am just going to immediately get in her face and start screaming, "FUCK YOU BITCH!" aint no way in hell I would waste time with it or be too afraid to tell her.

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Re: What to do... [Re: Patlal]
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It would be pretty shitty to lead someone on knowing they want more just so you could get laid. I mean people do it all the time, it's not something that should get you shunned or whatever but it's still a pretty dicky thing to do.

I'd be upfront about it, and ready to remind her I'm not looking for anything serious if it seems like she's still assuming something more is going to come of the date.


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I don’t want to get back up but I have to so it might as well be today.
Nothing appeals to me no one feels like me, I’m too busy being calm to disappear.
I’m in no shape to be alone contrary to the shit that you might hear.


You can't wake up, this is not a dream. You're part of a machine, you are not a human being
With your face all made up, living on a screen. Low on self esteem, so you run on gasoline

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Re: What to do... [Re: Patlal]
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Patlal said:
Kyshroomer19xx said:
Be honest maybe she just wants to get laid too. You never know.


I didn't even think of that lol.


Before me an my wife got married we had split up for like a few weeks and I was dying to get some but I resisted the urge to call her and she called the next day like I am horny and I am on my way. That's one of the reasons I married her she could have just went an fucked some other guy but she didn't.


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Re: What to do... [Re: Kyshroomer19xx]
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Why marry a woman right after if she just split up with you? I would be way too scared she would just divorce me to marry her. I would be like hell nah, you gotta prove to me that your not going to just keep breaking up with me before I marry you.

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Re: What to do... [Re: ShiVersblood]
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He never said she dumped him, said they split. Me now wife and I spent some time apart. Not seeing other people but living apart, after being together for 3 years. Some times space makes you see things differently and how much you really do love one another. We are all different in the way things work for us, to each their own.


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Re: What to do... [Re: Kyshroomer19xx]
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Recently I had a situation just like this. I was going on dates with a woman 13 years older then me (36) and after the first few dates she made it clear what she wanted. She wanted husband material,she wants a baby soon, she wants someone to work out,get up early and eat healthy with. Also she said she couldn’t drink or smoke weed because she didn’t want to “dishonor” her family.

There was a lot of things involved and I simply wanted to fuck. She made it crystal clear that even if we did start going out it’d take a “very long time” to get to a sexual aspect. So I handled it in a way I don’t recommend but it worked for me. I did little things like mention I have no car or job, mentioned I party semi frequently with friends.Bought a beer at a baseball game in front of her. I used subtleties to let her now I hate intense workouts and 0 sex. After a while I just stopped texting her back as much until she gets to the point where she knows I’m not as interested now.

To this day every once in a while she will ask to go workout or go to a movie and it’s really weird because I know it’s not sexual.


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Re: What to do... [Re: Seriously_trippin]
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It looks like you were Friend zoned then.

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Re: What to do... [Re: ShiVersblood]
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I say fuck her.


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