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Adamist
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Disappearing on people
#1679003 - 07/02/03 02:23 AM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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This may sound a little strange, but... I have a problem. Often when I'm hanging around a group of people, even if they are friends I am comforatble around, I will just leave. Won't say anything, for no apparent reason, just take off.
Sometimes I will come back hours later... most of the time I don't.
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daba
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Re: Disappearing on people [Re: Adamist]
#1679033 - 07/02/03 02:37 AM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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What's wrong with that?
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Re: Disappearing on people [Re: Adamist]
#1679081 - 07/02/03 02:58 AM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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I do that sometimes. I just need some alone time at certain points.
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Adamist
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Re: Disappearing on people [Re: daba]
#1680498 - 07/02/03 02:09 PM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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Well, that's how I always looked at it. It was never a problem. Then I get into a relationship with this girl and I keep leaving her places!
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Re: Disappearing on people [Re: Adamist]
#1680582 - 07/02/03 02:33 PM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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lol I used to do stuff like that, I was just unconfertable and anti-social. I would want to leave and if I didn't I'd be real quiet. I kinda just stoped. Dunno what to say cept dont leave lol
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Re: Disappearing on people [Re: Adamist]
#1681573 - 07/02/03 09:23 PM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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I think that's rude I would want a friend to at least say something like "ok man I'm heading out for a while.. I'm gunna go think" or whatever heh
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Re: Disappearing on people [Re: Strumpling]
#1681656 - 07/02/03 09:50 PM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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well, even though I know EXACTLY where you're coming from, other people just take it as rude
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I do that to my family alot. I get pissed off easily at something they say and I just go. I don't have a problem with it, but they do.
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Re: Disappearing on people [Re: Adamist]
#1682410 - 07/03/03 01:36 AM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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you disappear on me all the time man . *sniffelz* its okay i know what you gotta do brotha! dont worry about it too much, but dont hold back if you feel you really need to adress something. but also dont fool yourself into thinking you have a problem because you feel sympathetic. See how it goes... and get online more... asshole...JK! heh heh... you have your moments, but dont we all.
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Adamist
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Re: Disappearing on people [Re: Zero7a1]
#1682713 - 07/03/03 03:53 AM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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man i'm online all the time, from about 1 am - 6 am.
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Re: Disappearing on people [Re: Zero7a1]
#1683757 - 07/03/03 11:23 AM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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"i know what you gotta do brotha!"
and what is that?
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Re: Disappearing on people [Re: Adamist]
#1683813 - 07/03/03 11:47 AM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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you werent online from 1 - 3.... .
strumpling: find out for himself what it is he must do. hence his need to leave, i cant tell him, you cant tell him, whatever he gets out of it is his own. Why he does it, i dont know. I used to do that a lot. I would get upset with people, or get upset with other things and leave. I dont wander as much as i used to, but if a bad situation arises i leave. Sometimes their are some situations... especially when im high i wish i could leave. Some people just give weird vibes. Or at least i get weird vibes and I leave. Bad vibes for me is a warning...people i cant trust, shady situations. it may not be the same.... i dont know. I dont know strumpling! you were right... i didnt really know. i only had a good guess.
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Re: Disappearing on people [Re: Zero7a1]
#1683929 - 07/03/03 12:34 PM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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Well maybe Adamist has some insight? What are you doing when you "disappear?" Where do you go?
Adamist you had said "for no reason" you get up and leave... no offense man but I don't believe you - "NO REASON?" well then why would it happen?
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Adamist
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Re: Disappearing on people [Re: Strumpling]
#1684707 - 07/03/03 06:51 PM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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For no apparent reason that is, from the perception of those around me. My own reasons are very similar to what Zero describes as 'weird vibes'. Certain situations I get myself into will make me uncomforatble and the only thing that seems to bring peace is to just leave.
Also of interest: not all, but many times when I do this I'm stoned.
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Re: Disappearing on people [Re: Strumpling]
#1684778 - 07/03/03 07:35 PM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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try to go home, be alone. i havent done it in a long time. The last time i can remember i was at this girls house me and my friends know and they were smoking lots of weed making lots of noise. We were there for like 4 hours, i was getting pissed off, my friends were zoned out, i was just sitting there. So i walked out on the porch for a cig. hoped over the porch fence and walked about 2 miles home.
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Re: Disappearing on people [Re: Adamist]
#1685372 - 07/03/03 11:57 PM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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are you suffering from social anxiety?
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Re: Disappearing on people [Re: Strumpling]
#1685642 - 07/04/03 01:45 AM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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Adamist, I've found myself in the SAME situation! When I haven't smoked in a while and then I do, I just get uncomfortable and flake off. My friends are like WTF he just came over to get high? but,it's like I have this spastic energy going and no acceptable outlet, no way to explain it to those around either. Anyways, I've found that if I just realize what's about to happen and relax into the situation as much as possible, the anxiety sometimes passes. Also, try disscussing it with others when yr level. Hope this helps.
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Re: Disappearing on people [Re: Elvish]
#1687087 - 07/04/03 10:21 PM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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I have a friend who does this all the time and I am usually driving and it pisses me off coz I dont know weather to just leave or spend ages looking for him.
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Re: Disappearing on people [Re: Adamist]
#1687436 - 07/05/03 02:44 AM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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A friend of mine does this if he gets very drunk, he will disappear on us. In the morning he will say he regrets doing it. It is very annoying cause we would anticipate it and when he's halfway home we'd phone him and ask him what he is doing, it's a big piss off when he just says "uhhhhhhhhh I'm going home".
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Adamist
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HAhahahaha yeah I could see how it might annoy people.
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