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OfflineScumBagMaximum
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more girl problems
    #1480906 - 04/22/03 01:40 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

i really like one of my good friends and we've know each other for quite a while, and i want to tell her how i feel but i'm scared things might get weird and she'd want to stop hanging out with me, can anyone offer any help??


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Re: more girl problems [Re: ScumBagMaximum]
    #1482797 - 04/22/03 04:48 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

come on, doesn't someone have some advice?


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Re: more girl problems [Re: ScumBagMaximum]
    #1483100 - 04/22/03 06:09 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Thats a tough call. Do you think she might like you more than a friend too? Either way, it might be better to "get it out". If she isnt groovin to it, then things might be weird for a lil while, but it will pass. I say go for it. Take her on a walk, and just slam your feeling into her. good luck to you man, this is a hard situation  :crazy:


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Re: more girl problems [Re: BlowMiNose]
    #1483663 - 04/22/03 09:06 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

need more details. how does she act around you? do youthink that your feelings might be returned? don't just blurt out how you feel, you need to lay ground work first. maybe start mildly flirting, if she responds positively keep it up. if you do tell her how you feel and she doesn't feel the same way it will probably make things weird.


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Re: more girl problems [Re: AbFab]
    #1483802 - 04/22/03 09:35 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

i've noticed she acts differently around me than she does to other guys but i'm pretty sure she doesn't feels the same way i do. we flirt sometimes but the problem is she sleeps around a lot, people tell me to get over her but theres just something about her, and her friend told me that she wouldn't get with me because of our friendship... sorry if i'm rambling but i don't know how to explain this, thanks for the help


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Re: more girl problems [Re: ScumBagMaximum]
    #1483925 - 04/22/03 09:54 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

You're pretty sure she doesnt feel the same way? hmm.. And she sleeps around a lot? Man i hate that, it really hurts to like a girl, and her be foolin around with a lot of other guys. I usually try to distance myself from these type of girls. All you can really do is get over her, and try to be friends...or go ahead and tell her. It would probably feel good to let it out, but at the same time, it could make things a little akward. But what if she feels the same way?? it would be great! lol


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Re: more girl problems [Re: BlowMiNose]
    #1484582 - 04/23/03 12:43 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

sounds like you've gotten yourself into quite a situation. you have several options though. you can:

A) listen to your pals and get over her and just be friends (its difficult but may be possible in your case)

B) up your flirting a little and try to subtley send her the message that your interested without being pushy or pervy. if you make her feel special and loved and has an inkling that you may be interested she may just start viewing you in a whole new light.

C) you can tell her, it will feel good to get it out, but it will most likely make the friendship very weird if she doesn't reciprocate.

good luck and keep us posted.


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