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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: DeathCompany]
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This thread is :facepalm:

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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: Solemente]
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She said she's been with a girl once before - and she gave her her first orgasm...

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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: pwnasaurus]
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Makes her too tired for class?

Dude, She's Just Not That Into You.

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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: pwnasaurus]
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pwnasaurus said:
She said she's been with a girl once before - and she gave her her first orgasm...



Lol definitely a closet lesbian. I would really ask her.

Why do you want to deal with this.


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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: DeathCompany]
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Better luck next time  :ugly:


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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: Entropymancer]
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Yeah all these people saying shes not into you don't know what they are talking about. If shes spending time with you and says she loves you but does not want to have sex she is obviously confused. Sadly yes Ive seen it before she is most likely a lesbian. I have also heard the sex is degrading line before. Have a serious conversation about it with her. And as much as you don't want to believe it she is not going to change. Not unless she has some drastic experiences in the next 5 to 10 years.


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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: DeathCompany]
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Dude, I've been wondering about this myself lately.  Refer to my threads in the past 6 months that I've made (the ones about the girl), you'll see the issues she's got are insane.  Insecurities that she dumped on me.  She finally called me and realized how shitty she had been treating me.  I didn't rub it in however...


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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: Maverick]
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Yeah, guys she's definitely into me.  We have a great time when we hang out, with or without friends.  No drama, no bullshit, and NO SEX.  I'm gonna have a good talk with her tomorrow - and hopefully some good fucking too!

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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: pwnasaurus]
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have you ever considered she may have been sexually abused? or something like that

basically telling her she needs to get in line and put out more is not exactly the most considerate thing


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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: pwnasaurus]
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I'd hate to be a negative voice, but it sounds like you do need to have a talk, but it probably wont end in fucking.

If you can't turn her on and you can't figure out what's really going on in her mind, you have problems. Problems which will need painful resolutions.

People who are butterfly stages of love fuck like madmen, they will miss their responsibilities just to get a fucking taste of that euphoria.

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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: the bizzle]
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the bizzle said:
have you ever considered she may have been sexually abused? or something like that

basically telling her she needs to get in line and put out more is not exactly the most considerate thing


Yeah, something is obviously up that she hasn't communicated with you yet. Perhaps abuse.

I understand that you have needs to be met, I'm a guy too. But in all honesty, if she feels she's being 'pushed'--it won't increase your chances of getting any. Besides, even if she does agree to have sex, it probably won't be that enjoyable since it won't be what she truly wants.

Shitty situation man, I've def been there.


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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: the bizzle]
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It's definitely possible - she used to be be addicted to coke and X, and quit it all over a year ago.

I just do not have good luck.  My last ex was raped while on coke in grade 8, and had a ton of baggage.  But she was so hot...

Well, I'm gonna try and get a straight answer tomorrow.

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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: pwnasaurus]
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pwnasaurus said:
It's definitely possible - she used to be be addicted to coke and X, and quit it all over a year ago.

I just do not have good luck.  My last ex was raped while on coke in grade 8, and had a ton of baggage.  But she was so hot...

Well, I'm gonna try and get a straight answer tomorrow.


are you wearing lipstick in your avatar?


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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: Neuron]
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Sometimes I wonder if the women I've been seeing was sexually abused.  I know she was abused, sometimes she hints at it, I think she has been sexually abused.  Someone should get rid of her old man (who's really her step-dad anyway).  I'll give you 5 dolla, love you long time.


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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: Neuron]
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Lol I'm assuming that was a joke, but I'll answer anyways: nope - played trombone for 7 years, and as such have massive lips (they get permanently inflamed).

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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: pwnasaurus]
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pwnasaurus said:
Yeah, guys she's definitely into me.  We have a great time when we hang out, with or without friends.  No drama, no bullshit, and NO SEX.  I'm gonna have a good talk with her tomorrow - and hopefully some good fucking too!




I don't know why I did not see this before. This is textbook child molestation. Lets just assume she is cause I'm pretty damn sure I'm right on this one.



This is your only chance of hooking up with her on a regular basis. That is if the only problem is shes been taken advantage of.

Ask her if she had an bad sexual experiences as a child. Like Uncle joe touched her. I almost guarantee you something like this happened. It could have happened sooner as well. If it was recent then you have a higher chance of changing her. If she says yes which she probably will(unless its too hard for her to admit) tell her you would never do anything to hurt her or against her will. You don't want to have sex for your own pleasure but for both of you to enjoy.


The healing process can take a number of years This is not going to happen over night or in a month or two. Its a very serious problem that is set in a persons mind that cannot be easily changed. You need to understand this is no longer you fucking her its about changing her life and helping her understand its ok. Ive learned much about this in a number of psychology classes and have had speakers come in and talk about it. There is no quick fix. IF you really want to be with her and she is that important to you, work through it. Getting a therapist for you and her will be the best course of action.


I have seen this so many fucking times. Good luck if you want to stick with it and once again (if she has been raped) this is not something that she can easily change, Might not even be worth it, regardless of the reason for your problem.


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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: DeathCompany]
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Ahh you guys got to it before I did.


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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: DeathCompany]
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DeathCompany said:
pwnasaurus said:
Yeah, guys she's definitely into me.  We have a great time when we hang out, with or without friends.  No drama, no bullshit, and NO SEX.  I'm gonna have a good talk with her tomorrow - and hopefully some good fucking too!




I don't know why I did not see this before. This is textbook child molestation. Lets just assume she is cause I'm pretty damn sure I'm right on this one.



This is your only chance of hooking up with her on a regular basis. That is if the only problem is shes been taken advantage of.

Ask her if she had an bad sexual experiences as a child. Like Uncle joe touched her. I almost guarantee you something like this happened. It could have happened sooner as well. If it was recent then you have a higher chance of changing her. If she says yes which she probably will(unless its too hard for her to admit) tell her you would never do anything to hurt her or against her will. You don't want to have sex for your own pleasure but for both of you to enjoy.


The healing process can take a number of years This is not going to happen over night or in a month or two. Its a very serious problem that is set in a persons mind that cannot be easily changed. You need to understand this is no longer you fucking her its about changing her life and helping her understand its ok. Ive learned much about this in a number of psychology classes and have had speakers come in and talk about it. There is no quick fix. IF you really want to be with her and she is that important to you, work through it. Getting a therapist for you and her will be the best course of action.


I have seen this so many fucking times. Good luck if you want to stick with it and once again (if she has been raped) this is not something that she can easily change, Might not even be worth it, regardless of the reason for your problem.


Mind explaining how this is "textbook"? Seems like a popular term to throw around these days, but it seems like it could be a number of other things as well. Maybe you're stuck in a schema?

EDIT: Whatever, it doesn't really matter. OP should ask her tomorrow anyways. I'm fucking tired, and gotta be at school for 14 hours tomorrow. Later guys.


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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: Neuron]
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LOl I guess I could have used another term.

Anyways I got a good 5 friends who this has happened to. My older brothers gf and most importantly my mother as well. So i know a number of people who had bad childhood experiences.They all have the same problems. Everything he has said about her thus far points towards it.:shrug: And yea they are all still fucked up. Except for my mom. But she used to be real bad. in fact one of the reasons my dad left my mom was because she would not sleep with him.:lol:

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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: Chubba]
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Figured I'd update you guys on the situation, if anyone gives a shit.

So she said we could hang out tonight - we've both been pretty busy with school, and haven't had alone time really lately, so we were planning on chilling and talking about the whole issue.

I called her about 10 min ago, just finished my brutal day: class 9:30-10:30, work 10:30-4:30, lab 4:30-6:30.  I'm beat, and all I wanted to do was head over there, hang out, cuddle, talk... well she's hanging out with her roommate from last year, and is having a 'girls night' with them and a couple more chicks.

I've about had enough of this shit.  I'm all about spending time with friends - fuck I do it all the time.  But once every week or two I'd like to have some one-on-one time.  Literally just a couple hours a week.  And she won't even give me the time of day.

Time to tell her peace - it's my bud's b-day today, and to hell if I'm not getting laid when we go out tonight!

Edited by pwnasaurus (10/08/09 05:00 PM)

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