Cannashroom said:

A healthy person who has been eating the proper foods and exercising, living as humans should will never get depression.  It is only in our fucked up society where people can no longer live naturally, and have many problems because of it.

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SocietyRejects said:

My thought is that, if you really care about this girl, your interactions during sobriety should be king to interactions on any drug ever.  I mean, you don't really want to base your relationship in recreational drug use, do you?

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Its not that i don't love her sober. But going back onto antidepressants is long term. That means long term i cannot connect with a female on both a spiritual and sexual level. Both is whats important. And its not always that i want this connection, its sometimes, but on antidepressants it would be never (never feels like i'm really missing out on something because of the relationship).

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Excuse me, but saying that you can "spiritually" connect with someone only on drugs sounds really stupid to me.
It is very true that people can create more complex relations while on drugs, but once the idea is there, the same thing can be continued sober. I honestly think that you're just looking for a girl to take drugs with and you're trying to make it sound nicer this way. There's no reason to stay with someone unless you want to, and it's obvious that she can't, at this moment, go without anti-depressants. We can discuss for ages if anti-depressants are good or bad, but this won't change her mind and her needs.