Anonymous #6 said:

Anonymous #10 said:

I like your thought process, and tend to agree here... I don't think humans are supposed to be monogamous. I wish it were the case, but we cannot defy nature.

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There is a pretty well observed relationship amongst mammals between the size of males and the number of sexual partners. In species where the males are larger than females they tend to compete over a harem, ie polygamous. In species where male and female are the same size, the relationships tend to be monogamous.

There are also many physiological aspects that point to humans having a polygamous past.

For example, the fact that it takes women much longer to orgasm through intercourse than it does men. The fact that some men have "blocker sperm" that clog up the uterus, preventing competing sperm from reaching the egg. Even the shape of the penis is thought to be partially to pull out rival sperm (sloppy seconds) out of the vagina as you pump.

It all points towards one thing, our natural state is polygamy. Without sufficient cultural pressure monogamy is pretty much doomed to fail or lead to frustration. That's just the way it is.

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Anonymous #15 said:

I kind of feel similar OP, but at the same time I am grateful that I am not owned by someone and have the freedom to do what I want. I can't say how many relationships I see where the girl seems to be extremely annoying. Point is- keep yourself happy , go with the flow, don't fret on what you don't have and be happy your not owned by a bitch. one day we will find the right girls for us just give it some time and if not than you can always do drugs

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Very well said.