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My girlfriend is a week late
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So... last night, I was at a party for my girlfriends room mate.  It was her birthday.  Everything was cool, until I made a snide comment to my girlfriend about something stupid.  She went into the bathroom, and I knew she was upset.  I heard the sink running in there, and after like 2 minutes or so, I went in there and she was crying very quietly.
I started apologizing for the remark, and she tells me she's a week late on her period.  She didn't tell me before because she kept hoping it would start during the week.
I told her it was probably nothing, she's a pretty skinny chick, and sometimes skinny girls if they're not eating right, or under a lot of stress just won't bleed occasionally.  She's been stressed, because the semester just started, and she supports herself financially with no help from her family, so she works full time at a bank.
Also, a couple weeks ago, she bled for like two straight weeks, so I told her her cycle was probably just fucked up from all this.
She was freaking out real bad, because having a kid would just be a shit situation for us right now... we both have a year left in school after this semester.  I'm 23 (I took some time off) and she's 22, and is trying to finish.
I love her, and she loves me, and we've talked about marriage, but not until at least some time after we've graduated and have our lives in line.

So we leave the party and get an EPT.  It turns out to be negative (thankfully), but she's still a little worried.  Thankfully the guys come in packs of two, and it says to use the second one three days later, just in case of a false negative.

So, I don't think she's pregnant, but I'm still worried about the prospect.  I've already had one girl get an abortion (long story, it was the first time I had sex, I was 19 and she had lied to me about being on the pill).  It seemed necessary at the time, but ended up really tearing me up inside (partially because I never knew if it was actually mine, I found out she had been running around on me). 
I don't know if I could go through that again with another girl and have "us" be okay afterwards.  It would be a shit situation if she actually had it, since both of us are in school, but I know my parents would support us without any strain on them financially.

Any thoughts?  Encouragement?  I don't want to talk about this with any of my friends, because its happened before, and I feel like they would just talk shit behind my back, like "Great, he did it again" type things.

And before anyone tries to say she's manipulating me or fucking with my head, thats really not the deal guys.  She's the only girl I've dated who hasn't played mind games with me, or tried to make me jealous, or any stupid shit like that.  She's a real stand-up, honest kind of girl that makes me feel proud to have her as my girlfriend.

I think we're good, since the test was negative, but I'm still stressing out.  I'm trying to do homework but its really all I can think of... so yeah.


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Re: My girlfriend is a week late [Re: DragonChaser]
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been there man. Even if its like a .0001 percent shot shes pregnant you can't help but run the doomsday scenario through your head a thousand times. Just hang in there man!


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Re: My girlfriend is a week late [Re: DragonChaser]
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i feel your pain, dude... i've been there (including the abortion scenario - only i was 17 at the time)... there is really not much you can do right now other than trying to remain calm and being there for her... i know it can be frustrating, but try to rely on the fact that you got a negative test result, and wait out the 2 days until you can perform the next one... if you guys feel that you need it, take it tomorrow and maybe buy another test to take later... whatever makes you be able to deal with the situation... good luck, dude... and congrats on the great girlfriend (it feels good to finally find someone like that, doesn't it)

ps: i agree with you... imo it is near impossible to have an abortion with a girl and keep the relationship up after it... there is just too much guilt and emotion involved...


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Re: My girlfriend is a week late [Re: DragonChaser]
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go to a place that sells herbs, and buy some
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Motherwort
have her drink it twice a day

it makes a relaxing tea, it stimulates all that stuff in there, and she will eventually bleed (in a few days), if shes not pregnant - which it doesnt sound like she is.
her cycle is messed up, motherwort will help regulate it.

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Re: My girlfriend is a week late [Re: CptnGarden]
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Thanks a lot for the encouragement and sympathy you guys, and thanks Garden for the info on motherwort, I'll look into it.

And yes, In(di)go, it does feel great to have a non-scandalous girlfriend finally.

Thanks again you guys, its always helpful to hear from people who have been there too.


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Re: My girlfriend is a week late [Re: CptnGarden]
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My gf and I were together for a year when she got pregnant. We were both 20 and it was fucking scary. When I saw that positive sign on the little pink stick I was freaked. We talked about abortion and adoption with the doctor and amongst ourselves but decided there was no valid reasons for abortion; neither of us were drug addicts or anything and we were fully capable of having our son. Riley will be 2 on Feb 25th and he is the best thing that could have happened in my life. We live as a family now and its great. So... no matter what happens, just be accepting of what life throws your way and it can all be rewarding. Good luck!  :smile:


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