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Anonymous #1
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emotional abusive parents...
#8213588 - 03/30/08 07:41 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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My parents are emotional abusive, nothing is ever good enough for them, EVER. My mum is shouting all the fucking time for nothing, she just randomly starts shouting, she doesn't really drink or anything.
I have suffered from fucking hardcore depression for years and started getting the symptoms of schizophrenia and i have to see a psychologist and psychiatrist. It is helping me allot and I'm starting to get better.
here is the problem, i have two younger sisters and i never want my sisters to feel the way i did growing up.
I believe the way my parents treat my sisters will definitely have a very negative impact on their life's, but what can i do about this?
They won't listen to anything i say when i tell them that they can't just keep shouting all the fucking time.
I have no relationship with my parents because they are assholes and i don't ever want a relationship with them but i want my sisters to be mentally healthy.
It's not like reporting physical or sexual abuse, so i don't know what to do. I'm in the UK by the way.
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Drewwyann
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Re: emotional abusive parents... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#8213879 - 03/30/08 10:34 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Are you still living in the house? If you can't get your parents to stop being assholes, treat your sisters well.
Whenever one of your parents yells at one of your sisters, positively reinforce your sisters. Treat them better than your parents treat them. Make them feel wanted, and like they are good enough. Tell them not to listen to your parents, and try to convince them that your parents don't know what they are talking about.
Basically distance them from your parents as much as you can. That is, if you can't directly change your parents.
How old are they may I ask?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: emotional abusive parents... [Re: Drewwyann]
#8214186 - 03/30/08 12:04 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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12 and 14
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Re: emotional abusive parents... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#8214364 - 03/30/08 12:37 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I'd be most worried about the 12 year old. Though the 14 year old will need help as well. Have your parents yelled at them their entire lives, or do they start to do it once they reach a certain age or something else? Do they seem to shout at you more, or is it evenly distributed?
The best advice I can give, is to love your sisters to death. Let them know how much they mean to you, and make them see themselves how you see them. With every bad thing your parents do to them verbally, counter it with two good things. Outdo them. Take them out places, and get them away from your parents.
I can't really say how you would go about talking to your parents, as I don't know much about your family situation, but if there is any way you can get them to stop, or at least slow down their behavior, that would be most beneficial. Taking the problem apart of the root would be the most effective, but may also be extremely difficult.
Act as a shield for your younger sisters essentially.
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