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Unfolding Nature Shop: Unfolding Nature: Being in the Implicate Order

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Have you ever used sex to justify a wrong doing?
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I am asking this question because im beginning to think that sex had alot to do with the way I was raised as a child. Like the things my parents justified as right when it was most certainly wrong, I interpreted as my parents exhibiting perfection that I should learn from. So this scenario in abusive families, when a step father beats the crap out of his son for spilling the milk, a child would expect their examples to come to their defense and accept their mothers actions in that scenario as reality and what should happen. Mom decides to run away and ignore it while the child locks himself in the bathroom and falls asleep. The next morning you see the two crappy parents kissing and being all touchy and pretending it never happened, breakfast on the table and everything. The child tries to figure out why and how anyone would be able to forget such an ordeal over night, several years later the child learns about sex and decides to hate it. What else can sex do?

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Re: Have you ever used sex to justify a wrong doing? [Re: Jon]
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Sounds like you have some issues you'll need to work out.

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Re: Have you ever used sex to justify a wrong doing? [Re: adrug]
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adrug said:
Sounds like you have some issues you'll need to work out.


Arg tell me about it

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Re: Have you ever used sex to justify a wrong doing? [Re: z_x_x_z]
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:xtc:


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Re: Have you ever used sex to justify a wrong doing? [Re: Jon]
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How do you tie in your hatred of sex with the example you just gave? Just curious so I can get your line of ration when you're thinking about this.


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Re: Have you ever used sex to justify a wrong doing? [Re: DrCamacho89]
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I think it is the moms fault for letting that shit go on. I would hate the mother for being a stupid un-responsible slut, instead of hating sex.

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Re: Have you ever used sex to justify a wrong doing? [Re: Rahie]
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never, ever listen to rahie.


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Re: Have you ever used sex to justify a wrong doing? [Re: Jon]
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as described, I don't see how the sex has justified the act of beating the kid. perhaps the sex led to some sort of feeling of escape for the mom and reinforced a feeling of power for the step-dad.

as far as the kid hating sex, its hard to imagine how that alone could be linked to the physical abuse. usually people who claim to dislike sex were sexualized by adults at an early age. those same individuals, who were sexually abused will often adamantly claim to dislike sex, be disgusted by it, or find it immoral. despite this they will act out sexually, risky situations etc and then feel extreme guilt & shame afterwards leading them to proclaim again that they don't like sex, etc.

its a pretty ugly cycle.

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