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Offlinekotik
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sex for closure?
    #5807268 - 06/30/06 04:49 PM (17 years, 6 months ago)

just wondering what everyones stance is on fucking for closure.. as opposed to genuine attraction, or passion or love or anything like that..  for lack of a better phrase, let's call it "unfinished business"

it seems there are a few girls that are in somewhat of an akward/grey area, where we started going somewhere, but then it just sort of fizzled out, however whenever I see them or talk to any of them, the innuendo always comes up within the matter of minutes.  They all live far away, but whenever I go home, its always right where everything left off.

Over the years, its not even about physical attraction, but more about the tension itself, and the fact there are "loose ends" hanging about. I'm thinking it's time to start closing some deals, but it's a very profound feeling, since there really are no emotions tied to the people, but more of being back in the time / mindstate I was in many years ago when everything was still developing (before I moved).

thoughts?  relative experiences?  call me a ranting loser?  :cool:


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Re: sex for closure? [Re: kotik]
    #5807550 - 06/30/06 06:52 PM (17 years, 6 months ago)

I'll let you know on Sunday  :wink:


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Re: sex for closure? [Re: demiu5]
    #5807625 - 06/30/06 07:31 PM (17 years, 6 months ago)

Those loose ends are called memories. They have emotions tied to them.

If you want to tie on even stronger emotions in an attempt to forget the memories, I have to question your logic. =)


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Re: sex for closure? [Re: The_Hobbit]
    #5807766 - 06/30/06 08:54 PM (17 years, 6 months ago)

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hobbitcg said:
Those loose ends are called memories. They have emotions tied to them.

If you want to tie on even stronger emotions in an attempt to forget the memories, I have to question your logic. =)





hmm, good reply!  :thumbup:


and yea, I get that alot too, always some girl that you were suposed to, ya know, and then never did for whatever reason. It will haunt you forever more. Best thing, I think, is, if possible, do what you must to tie those loose ends and close the book.


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Re: sex for closure? [Re: eligal]
    #5807970 - 06/30/06 10:53 PM (17 years, 6 months ago)

ah, but I would argue that the sexual tension has less to do with emotion for the other person, and more to do with emotions of self.

therefore, ill start finishing a few chapters so i can start a new book


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Re: sex for closure? [Re: kotik]
    #5809369 - 07/01/06 10:48 AM (17 years, 6 months ago)

In any case, those emotions are magnified greatly. Even if you were a complete narcissist and only cared about yourself, the trigger to those emotions would be a memory of that person because you see them as sex.


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Re: sex for closure? [Re: The_Hobbit]
    #5824145 - 07/05/06 03:57 PM (17 years, 6 months ago)

turns out you were right, nothing has changed.

but on the plus side, i got some first-hand insight.

i always have to learn things the hard way, to truly appreciate them.


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