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Andy21
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Does anyone ever feel like they are just using someone for sex?
#5943009 - 08/08/06 01:25 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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I mean telling them what they want to hear, pretending to feel things. I feel kind of like this at the moment, is it a shitty thing to do? I will do everything in my power not to hurt them, but most of the stuff I say is just to placate their weak needy ego. Comments advice....gifts?
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xDuckYouSuckerx
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Re: Does anyone ever feel like they are just using someone for sex? [Re: Andy21]
#5943506 - 08/08/06 09:35 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yea, it's a bad thing to do. The best thing is to find someone who openly can be told that it's just a sexual relationship, that you care about them as a friend but you don't want a relationship, the ever popular friends with benefits.
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trunksan
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Re: Does anyone ever feel like they are just using someone for sex? [Re: xDuckYouSuckerx]
#5943632 - 08/08/06 10:33 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Just tell him/her that you love the sex and you find them very attractive. Give many compliments to make him/her feel better and then maybe you can remain fuck buddies. The longer you keep the lie the more difficult it will be to end things.
Do the right thing! Not the easy or the fastest! <- Been trying to implement that but its quite difficult!
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Re: Does anyone ever feel like they are just using someone for sex? [Re: trunksan]
#5943645 - 08/08/06 10:39 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Of course, sometimes, it's worth a lie or two to get some hot ass. Once she gets hooked on the cock, you can come clean and just bust guts for pussy's sake.
Thats the OTD in me answering
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Andy21
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Re: Does anyone ever feel like they are just using someone for sex? [Re: xDuckYouSuckerx]
#5944082 - 08/08/06 12:57 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Lol thanks guys! I think ill take ducks last bit of advice I swore to myself I would never get myself in a situation like this again and lo and behold. I think maybe I want fuckbuddy who has shroomed at least once and can see why I dont take anything so seriously. The guy who I am with (I am gay) seems to want me to fix all his problems. Like all he wants is love and he will be happy forever. Like he wants 'the whole package' not realising that this whole package was conditioned into him through his consumption of Dawsons creek. He wont shut up about how depressed he is or how many times he has been sick, its like a twisted fucking competition. I just do not see why while we are young we cannot just enjoy each other and be relaxed, I dont wanna just have sex and dump him like trash. Why though does it have to always revolve around romance and someone being 'the one'. hhhmm reading that back to myself I can see perhaps I need to confront this situation
Edited by Andy21 (08/08/06 12:58 PM)
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Re: Does anyone ever feel like they are just using someone for sex? [Re: Andy21]
#5944137 - 08/08/06 01:14 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Once you get older you'll probably feel like finding somebody to settle down with.
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Re: Does anyone ever feel like they are just using someone for sex? [Re: Andy21]
#5944295 - 08/08/06 02:10 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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It's a guy/guy relationship? Should have said that to start off with, I rescind all of my advice.
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Re: Does anyone ever feel like they are just using someone for sex? [Re: Andy21]
#5944646 - 08/08/06 04:11 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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I've definetly done that, but I try to be honest with people.
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Andy21
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Re: Does anyone ever feel like they are just using someone for sex? [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5944670 - 08/08/06 04:20 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Your right I probably will, but at the moment I just can't seem to do that without this awful feeling of having someone elses hooks into me. It feels limiting and frustrating and boring. I will be more honest, next time we talk I will say "I really like you and all but I think you are expecting something from me that I find impossible to give".
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