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quillini
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I flirted with a 15 year old...dirty me
#5563549 - 04/27/06 04:27 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Last night I was at a coffeeshop doing homework and this girl sits at the table with me. She always hangs around me whenever I am there, but my ex-girlfriend always used to be there too. But now I am single and this girl sits down and we get to talking about music. She said she had been playing guitar lately but was too nervous to go onstage. I was encouraging her to come play sometime and not be nervous. She said she played Norah Jones-type stuff and immediately I was infatuated with her. I thought wow, this chick is interesting.
But after I left I asked around and learned she is 15. I don't know if I should be ashamed of myself. I feel like a dirty old pedophile praying on innocent youth or whatnot. Goddamnit, it's such a shame because it's rare for me to meet an interesting female, and when I do it's a little girl. It's disgusting. Where are all the women who like Norah Jones? I think I just want to be with Norah Jones, is the problem. Why did that girl have to say she played Norah Jones songs? It kills me.
Anyway, before I knew her age I told her if she would be at this open mic at another coffee shop, I would be there too. What, is her mom going to drive her there or something? Now I'm going to have to ignore this girl and be all cold towards her, and it's going to suck.
I'm not a perv I swear, she could have passed for 20.
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Re: I flirted with a 15 year old...dirty me [Re: quillini]
#5563560 - 04/27/06 04:31 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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No need to ignore her, just be friendly and keep it as it is.
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Re: I flirted with a 15 year old...dirty me [Re: Disco Cat]
#5563565 - 04/27/06 04:34 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
Disco Cat said:
No need to ignore her, just be friendly and keep it as it is.
I disagree with this. By saying "keep it as it is", do you mean he should keep flirting with a fifteen year old girl? Cause that's terrible advice.
IMO, no grown man needs to keep young girls as friends. It's inviting trouble.
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Re: I flirted with a 15 year old...dirty me [Re: Burke Dennings]
#5563577 - 04/27/06 04:36 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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No, I didn't mean flirting. I don't think it's hard to be friendly to the opposite sex without thinking of sex. I'm friendly to friend's sisters and people I work with who are a lot younger than me, it hasn't caused any trouble. Ages groups aren't supposed to be segregated from each other, I think that makes for a much thiner living experience.
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Re: I flirted with a 15 year old...dirty me [Re: Burke Dennings]
#5563590 - 04/27/06 04:37 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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yeah man stay away from that situation.. if she says anything happens even if it didnt you could end up facing charges and end up on the sex offender registry for 10 years if found guilty..
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Burke Dennings
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Re: I flirted with a 15 year old...dirty me [Re: Disco Cat]
#5563591 - 04/27/06 04:38 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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I just don't think it's necessary- why would any man want to hang out with a legal minor? That's my opinion.
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Re: I flirted with a 15 year old...dirty me [Re: Burke Dennings]
#5563618 - 04/27/06 04:41 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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I don't mean to intentionally hang out, but to not shun either, and if they're around don't refuse to say hi and ask what's up.
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quillini
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Re: I flirted with a 15 year old...dirty me [Re: quillini]
#5563680 - 04/27/06 04:51 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Oh believe me, I'm staying out of this for sure. I'm just saying it sucks that I can't meet someone interesting who is actually my age. It's almost like a cosmic practical joke, like here's a girl whose cute and talented and interesting...oh, and 15. Fuck!!
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Re: I flirted with a 15 year old...dirty me [Re: quillini]
#5563719 - 04/27/06 04:58 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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wait untill she is 18?
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Re: I flirted with a 15 year old...dirty me [Re: mikeownow]
#5563763 - 04/27/06 05:09 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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I think the legal age in Canada is 14, and I heard something about the Conservatives want to change it to 16.
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Re: I flirted with a 15 year old...dirty me [Re: Disco Cat]
#5563798 - 04/27/06 05:16 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Disco Cat said: I think the legal age in Canada is 14, and I heard something about the Conservatives want to change it to 16.
http://www.jfcy.org/age/milestone.html#over18
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#5563805 - 04/27/06 05:18 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Re: I flirted with a 15 year old...dirty me [Re: blink]
#5563832 - 04/27/06 05:25 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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My 20 year old friend is fucking a 15 year old.
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Re: I flirted with a 15 year old...dirty me [Re: downforpot]
#5563834 - 04/27/06 05:26 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Tell him he is a pedophile.
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Re: I flirted with a 15 year old...dirty me [Re: Burke Dennings]
#5563863 - 04/27/06 05:37 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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If you liked her before you knew she was 15, and she looked a lot older than she was, than I would not consider it pedophilia at all. Don't shun her or anything cold like that, but don't give her any signs that you could be more than friends. It would suck to cut someone off simply because of their age, because if they act mature and look mature, than it is simply a date that makes it "wrong". Besides, if she is like every other 15 year old girl, she will end up being boring and just plain bothersome after you hang out a few more times, so then you lose the problem of feeling bad for being attracted to her.
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Re: I flirted with a 15 year old...dirty me [Re: blink]
#5563870 - 04/27/06 05:39 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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I don't want to be with a girl under 20. That was cool when I was younger, but really, the immature bullshit is inevitable. Not that girls in their 20s are mature exactly, but many of them are independant, and that's sexy. I need a girl who is able to look after herself. The thought of having to baby someone to prevent drama is a big turnoff for me. Been there, done that. So, no 15 year olds. Period.
I need a girl who is free of disease, and while I'm thinking, throw in a couple of Gs yeah::::::::::::::
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Re: I flirted with a 15 year old...dirty me [Re: quillini]
#5563914 - 04/27/06 05:55 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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You should fuck her.
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Re: I flirted with a 15 year old...dirty me [Re: theuser]
#5563944 - 04/27/06 06:08 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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-------------------- No; truth, being alive, was not halfway between anything. It was only to be found by continuous excursions into either realm, and though proportion is the final secret, to espouse it at the outset is to insure sterility. Only connect...
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Re: I flirted with a 15 year old...dirty me [Re: theuser]
#5563946 - 04/27/06 06:08 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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theolduser said: You should fuck her.
I hope you're joking.
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