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JettaJay
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Advice Wanted
#4571579 - 08/23/05 04:25 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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What do you guys do when you get really really hurt by someone you love very very much ... more than anything in the world? I need some advice on this ... It feels like my heart is being ripped into many many tiny peices.
-------------------- I saw a little green light buzzing around in a tree, and it dawned on me that "they" were here ~~~LouiseLouise
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Todcasil
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Re: Advice Wanted [Re: JettaJay]
#4571584 - 08/23/05 04:27 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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i go into the fetal position and cry until my sockets hurt.
-------------------- Men look at themselves and they see flawed humans, we look at women and we see perfect GODDESSES Women look at themselves and they seem utterly human, when looking at men they see proud GODS. ~Casil
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License_to_Chill
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Re: Advice Wanted [Re: JettaJay]
#4571586 - 08/23/05 04:27 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Well, is it a girlfriend/wife?
The first thing I would do is just to talk with them, of course. Just let them know what went on and how you feel. I mean, I don't know what actually went on, but just try to have a conversation about the situation.
If all else fails...alcohol. Helped me through many a' time.
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Cowgold
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Re: Advice Wanted [Re: JettaJay]
#4571591 - 08/23/05 04:29 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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When someone I love hurts me... I've gotta have alone time... not sittin around pouting but alone time where I go complete a task by myself. Like mowin the lawn or putting somethin together. It helps me put the emotional part behind me that way if I can do something about the situation then I can do it rationaly without confusing emotions being involved.
First things first you gotta take your mind off whatever it is so your emotions will cooperate.
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dblaney
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Re: Advice Wanted [Re: JettaJay]
#4571594 - 08/23/05 04:30 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Cry, moan, weep, groan, stamp your feet, shout, express your sadness and frustration, and experience them in their entirety. Then continue on your way.
-------------------- "What is in us that turns a deaf ear to the cries of human suffering?" "Belief is a beautiful armor But makes for the heaviest sword" - John Mayer Making the noise "penicillin" is no substitute for actually taking penicillin. "This country, with its institutions, belongs to the people who inhabit it. Whenever they shall grow weary of the existing government, they can exercise their constitutional right of amending it, or their revolutionary right to dismember or overthrow it." -Abraham Lincoln
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JettaJay
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neither ...
Already talked it was bad it ended in more pain ...
-------------------- I saw a little green light buzzing around in a tree, and it dawned on me that "they" were here ~~~LouiseLouise
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MellowMood
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Try to see past the pain.
or....get wasted
-------------------- "Im a dreamin man yes thats my problem I cant tell when im not being real"
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JettaJay
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I think wasted is gonan happen tonight ... I have some cocaine too ... I dunno though.
-------------------- I saw a little green light buzzing around in a tree, and it dawned on me that "they" were here ~~~LouiseLouise
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danlennon3
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Re: Advice Wanted [Re: JettaJay]
#4571622 - 08/23/05 04:38 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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we have all been there dude, it sucks.... This might sound kind of strange but anytime i feel mad, sad or have any negative emotion, i think to myself that it's my brain that is producing these feelings...if im making these sad feelings, then i can produce the chemical to make me happy... and with enough practice, you can control your emotions much better.
-------------------- "Psychedelics should be used not to escape reality, but to embrace it"
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insectvhore
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Re: Advice Wanted [Re: JettaJay]
#4571856 - 08/23/05 05:48 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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inject heroin into your vein..like a charm
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CaptainH13
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i know exactly what you mean,last week I was more hurt by TWO people More than I ever have my entire life(on the same day even)....
just gotta keep on the gas,no need to slow down,it can only hurt you more to slow or stop,gotta keep throwin' gears at full speed...
(i relate shit to hotrods alot sorry,haha)
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Icelander
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Re: Advice Wanted [Re: Todcasil]
#4572096 - 08/23/05 06:59 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
Todcasil said: i go into the fetal position and cry until my sockets hurt.
Best advice by far. Go deep into it and feel everyting. Don't let yourself off the hook until you feel a lightness. Then things will work out for the best. I been there.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
Edited by Icelander (08/23/05 07:00 PM)
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JasonV
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Re: Advice Wanted [Re: JettaJay]
#4572128 - 08/23/05 07:05 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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You have to release somehow. Take Todcasil's advice. It should help.
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RandalFlagg
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Re: Advice Wanted [Re: JettaJay]
#4572350 - 08/23/05 07:55 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
JettaJay said: What do you guys do when you get really really hurt by someone you love very very much ... more than anything in the world? I need some advice on this ... It feels like my heart is being ripped into many many tiny peices.
Go fuck her best friend.
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