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OfflineSpleh
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Age difference (Older Woman)
    #4328185 - 06/23/05 01:10 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

I'd like some opinions on this, i'm currently 18 and have the opportunity of entering a relationship with an older female 23 years old.

I've been thinking about it a lot and personally i'm all for it (won't go into reasoning but this isn't about sex) but im unsure of what to do.Right now i'm thinking of going for it, I can't think of any reason not to apart from an age difference which would only matter socially to other people. Maturity also isn't an issue here, so what do you think?


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Re: Age difference (Older Woman) [Re: Spleh]
    #4328190 - 06/23/05 01:12 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

I think you should try it out, then you'll have an idea of what to expect if you run into this situation again.


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Re: Age difference (Older Woman) [Re: barfightlard]
    #4328200 - 06/23/05 01:14 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

Go for it man, always nice to have an older woman guiding you :P

But seriously, go for it.


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Re: Age difference (Older Woman) [Re: drtyfrnk]
    #4328211 - 06/23/05 01:17 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

I have one piece of advice:

Hit it and Quit it. (that's my advice for every interaction with the opposite sex)

Just kidding. If you like her and she likes you then go for it.


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Re: Age difference (Older Woman) [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #4328243 - 06/23/05 01:22 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

Thanks for the replies, got rid of any doubt I had.


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Re: Age difference (Older Woman) [Re: Spleh]
    #4328251 - 06/23/05 01:24 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

yeah man, do it. thats not even such a big difference actually. sexually im deff into older women, and i like em older than that. not too old, but i do like em older. i like women my age too, but preferably i like em a little older :smile: yepp..


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Re: Age difference (Older Woman) [Re: Spleh]
    #4329813 - 06/23/05 08:48 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

Do you love her?


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Re: Age difference (Older Woman) [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #4330289 - 06/23/05 10:42 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

RandalFlagg said:
I have one piece of advice:

Hit it and Quit it.




:thumbup:

Whatever you do, just make sure you don't let her control you.  Make sure you remain the dominant male that you should be.  Some older women date younger guys because they want someone who they can control.  Just don't let it happen and you'll be alright.


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Re: Age difference (Older Woman) [Re: PowerTrip]
    #4330352 - 06/23/05 11:03 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

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Make sure you remain the dominant male that you should be.




Exactly. Enter the relationship, but remember, you're the man of the relationship, and despite her being older you are still the dominant one.


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Re: Age difference (Older Woman) [Re: Ravus]
    #4331526 - 06/24/05 09:35 AM (11 years, 5 months ago)

well..the answer lies in your question itself. Do you feel going for her because you want to because the society wants to.
Cmon these age differences, height differences, racial differences etc. hardly matter now a days. If you think you should go for her just go ahead.
All the best!


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Re: Age difference (Older Woman) [Re: Spleh]
    #4334785 - 06/25/05 03:04 AM (11 years, 5 months ago)

mmm gota love them older women.
and if your really 18, than shes not that much older. Your both still babies in the sceme of things.


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Re: Age difference (Older Woman) [Re: Spleh]
    #4335227 - 06/25/05 08:22 AM (11 years, 5 months ago)

a 23 year old chick will most likely be very demanding and controlling. She will want a straight up committed relationship. And you are 18 - you should be out fucking your brains out and having a good time. Before you know it, she'll be very concerned about your career and your ability to support her - Are you ready for that? No, you are 18. Believe me - she will begin to nag you.

And if she isnt like that, then she's a loser who wants to be 18 again and not grow up. If that is the case, then avoid her.


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Re: Age difference (Older Woman) [Re: Vvellum]
    #4335652 - 06/25/05 01:15 PM (11 years, 5 months ago)

IMO age and maturity are separate things and don't necessarily go hand in hand.

Go for it and enjoy yourself. You'll get a feel of where things are going and how things will end up.


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Re: Age difference (Older Woman) [Re: Spleh]
    #4338315 - 06/26/05 03:43 AM (11 years, 5 months ago)

I am 20 years old and my friends are setting me up with a 29 year old. It's a little weird, but I will still give it a shot. :P


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