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Synthetic_Sun
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How old were you when you lost your virginity?
#3710124 - 01/31/05 08:35 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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I kinda feel like an asshole asking this but I trust shroomerites more than my own friends .
The reason I ask is because I`m now 18 and deathly afraid of intimacy. I`ve been seeing a girl now for about a month and I know my time is close, but I do trust her alot (more afraid of dissapointing her than anything)...any tips?
So how old were you....if your gonna flame, please be gentle .
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Boom
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Re: How old were you when you lost your virginity? [Re: Synthetic_Sun]
#3710183 - 01/31/05 08:44 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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17...and how the hell does this have over 900 views!!??
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SneezingPenis
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Re: How old were you when you lost your virginity? [Re: Synthetic_Sun]
#3710191 - 01/31/05 08:44 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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If only chef were here, he would know what to say.
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beejay
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Re: How old were you when you lost your virginity? [Re: Synthetic_Sun]
#3710199 - 01/31/05 08:45 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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I was 17. It seemed like the world at the time, but it was stupid. In any case if you really dig the girl and she is cool with you, then you have nothing to worry about. My early sex life sucked, I didnt really like my initial experiences, but I think it was the girls I was with. I say just relax and welcome the glory that is intercourse. Sex is great, especially if your with someone thats worth it. As far as being deathly afraid of intimacy, just work on it in your head. try to figure out what causes your gut reactions, then make decisions on what is acceptable and what could use some work.
Damnit! I made another serious post tonight. Grrrr.... I was just trying to be rediculous tonight. Oh well.
-------------------- Anjaba said: Oh shit, don't drink it.... It would eat away your esophagus... mantis said: Leave me out of this pissing contest, you fascist wang-dang-doodle! Hattori Hanzo said: If on your journey, you should encounter God, God will be cut
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Re: How old were you when you lost your virginity? [Re: Synthetic_Sun]
#3710200 - 01/31/05 08:45 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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It is an old thread, it has been posted too many times...
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Kenny7822
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Re: How old were you when you lost your virginity? [Re: Synthetic_Sun]
#3710212 - 01/31/05 08:47 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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17 and I too was afraid of intimacy before I first had sex. If you really love this girl I say go for it, if not I say save your first for someone worth it.
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PsillyNilly
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Re: How old were you when you lost your virginity? [Re: Skunk420]
#3710215 - 01/31/05 08:48 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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I was having oral sex at 15 but saveed myself for the actual real act till I was 19
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Re: How old were you when you lost your virginity? [Re: beejay]
#3710217 - 01/31/05 08:48 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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yeah my first time was horrible. ugh what trash! I wish I was with a women that didnt make me want to take a shower right afterwerds.
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YouEnjoyMyself
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Re: How old were you when you lost your virginity? [Re: Kenny7822]
#3710220 - 01/31/05 08:48 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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I was 16. Just don't worry about it when it comes.
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Synthetic_Sun
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Re: How old were you when you lost your virginity? [Re: Skunk420]
#3710227 - 01/31/05 08:49 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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I`m sorry if this has been posted too many times...if a mod wants to close it then please do...just kinda curious....whats with all these veiws...
Beejay I really do apreciate that you decided to make a serious post...your absolutely right. I`m sure everything will go okay...
Thanks for your input, sorry again about posting this.
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Re: How old were you when you lost your virginity? [Re: Synthetic_Sun]
#3710230 - 01/31/05 08:49 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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I first got oral at 15, then the real thing at 16.
Just go with the flow man, all that you need to do is contained within you. Let go of your apprehensions and ego and follow what your subconscious mind and instinct tell you to do.
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beejay
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Re: How old were you when you lost your virginity? [Re: YouEnjoyMyself]
#3710231 - 01/31/05 08:50 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
YouEnjoyMyself said: I was 16. Just don't worry about it when it cums.
-------------------- Anjaba said: Oh shit, don't drink it.... It would eat away your esophagus... mantis said: Leave me out of this pissing contest, you fascist wang-dang-doodle! Hattori Hanzo said: If on your journey, you should encounter God, God will be cut
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Skunk420
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Re: How old were you when you lost your virginity? [Re: PsillyNilly]
#3710236 - 01/31/05 08:50 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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I already told peeps, who cares I was much older...but hey who cares? I want some now, but even then...when you have legal problems, sex is just sex, there is more to life then that...freedom..
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Synthetic_Sun
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Re: How old were you when you lost your virginity? [Re: Skunk420]
#3710245 - 01/31/05 08:52 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Skunk I absolute agree...it seems my friends are more concerned about me losing my virginity than I am....so much pressure.
But I really do like her and like I said I dont wanna let her down.
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YouEnjoyMyself
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Re: How old were you when you lost your virginity? [Re: beejay]
#3710247 - 01/31/05 08:52 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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haha, i saw that and was like "did I really say that?" and checked.
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Boom
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Re: How old were you when you lost your virginity? [Re: Synthetic_Sun]
#3710261 - 01/31/05 08:55 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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My first time was after I was rippin shots of 151 and smoking joints in my friend's room, then in my stupor I ran into some girl I knew from years back and ended up (trying to) banging her.
Heres a tip - If your nervous about it, DO NOT get extremely drunk and attempt. I felt like an idiot cuz I was too drunk to keep it going. (if u know what I mean)
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beejay
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Re: How old were you when you lost your virginity? [Re: Skunk420]
#3710264 - 01/31/05 08:55 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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yeah sex can be a killer at times. It can be the worst drug of them all. Seeing as there are no women that truely interest me at the moment, Im on the abstinent route for now. I could make one of several phone calls and end the seven month stretch, but then I'd be hooked, and for nothing more than mere physical joy, which I might add can be achieved quite easily on ones own. If I did that, I'd make phone calls every night, then who would paint???? I am willing to sacrifice my time for those that are truely worth it, but it is too precious to waste needlessly.
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Skunk420
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Re: How old were you when you lost your virginity? [Re: Synthetic_Sun]
#3710270 - 01/31/05 08:56 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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hey dont rush it, sex just leads to having kids..why complicate you life over that? people having kids is the thing here in Utah..big deal...sex is so overrated anyway, it doesnt make you better of a person, besides how can you prove it? having a baby, that is about it.. sex has always been for pleasure for me, it is good that way..
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Re: How old were you when you lost your virginity? [Re: Synthetic_Sun]
#3710273 - 01/31/05 08:56 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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I was 16 and like you, deathly afraid of intimacy. I decided that buying a call girl would provide me with sex without the bullshit nor the baggage that usually comes along with it. Prostitution is a noble profession, providing a valuable and much needed service. God bless hookers and God bless Nevada.
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The_Red_Crayon
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Re: How old were you when you lost your virginity? [Re: Prosgeopax]
#3710278 - 01/31/05 08:58 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Prosgeopax said: I was 16 and like you, deathly afraid of intimacy. I decided that buying a call girl would provide me with sex without the bullshit nor the baggage that usually comes along with it. Prostitution is a noble profession, providing a valuable and much needed service. God bless hookers and God bless Nevada.
God bless you sir. They are indeed a noble profession, and not only that but the oldest practicing profession in the world.
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