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How do you subtly put people in their place? * 1
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I deal with some irritating coworkers, the type to constantly make little comments/criticisms with a frequency that warrants a response.

The thing is is that I'm not really good at "playing it off" or saying shit back in a way that doesn't seem to personal/direct ya know? So I just let it all slide but their shit is getting on my nerves and I want to say some shit back.

Not really sure how to go about it.

For example there's a special needs coworker who's like king of the tards because his iq is probably only 1 away from triple digits, but he always fucking just stares at me, mouth gaping and goes "are you alright??"

Do I just say "yes and you can stop asking whenever you feel like", or would that be too aggro? I kinda wanna do it in that playful way that other people are good at if you know what I'm talking about.

I can give more examples if yall want, there's like 3 irritating people in total that I work with all the time.


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Re: How do you subtly put people in their place? [Re: yeah] * 3
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Say "Is anyone?"


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"Its moving of its own accord...and I like that in a shirt!" - Me, tripping.

deCypher said:
Schizophrenia beats dining alone, you know.

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Re: How do you subtly put people in their place? [Re: yeah]
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You could respond reasonably and say "Yes, I'm allright. I appreciate you checking in all the time, but there is no need to do so because I will let you know if any issues arise."


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...the whole experience is (and is as) a profound piece of knowledge.  It is an indellible experience; it is forever known.  I have known myself in a way I doubt I would have ever occurred except as it did.

Smith, P.  Bull. Menninger Clinic (1959) 23:20-27; p. 27.

...most subjects find the experience valuable, some find it frightening, and many say that is it uniquely lovely.

Osmond, H.  Annals, NY Acad Science (1957) 66:418-434; p.436

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Re: How do you subtly put people in their place? [Re: yeah] * 5
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If the guy is intellectually disabled, I wouldn’t take his “are you alright” as some kind of affront.  People with limited thought capacity may have limited conversation skills, and it could be that that’s the only thing he can think of to say to initiate a discussion.  I’m not sure why you feel that he needs to be “put in [his] place” for asking if you’re alright.

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Re: How do you subtly put people in their place? [Re: Burke Dennings] * 1
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nah he knows what he's doing, he's just low iq from habitual mouth breathing, he just stops and stares at me like trying to put me on the spot

he's not down's syndrome I think he just had low brain oxygen from chronic mouthbreathing during youth which lead to lower intelligence. That's my take.


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Edited by yeah (04/23/19 08:20 AM)

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Re: How do you subtly put people in their place? [Re: yeah] * 5
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:burke:

:canthelpbutlaugh:


Pick on people your own size OP. Subtly going after retards? Really?


It might actually be an even playing field the more that I think about this


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I'm ugly, Enlil is beautiful.
I'm a loser, Enlil is a winner.
Someday, I hope to be like Enlil but secretly know I never will.

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Re: How do you subtly put people in their place? [Re: badchad]
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I've already told him I'm fine the last several times he's asked, he's just trying to assert dominance because he takes his job so seriously

but I see where this thread is going I'm just gonna ignore condescending people because there's so many of you on this forum


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Re: How do you subtly put people in their place? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
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lol you guys like to focus on one thing you think makes you a better person than some internet stranger, I mentioned that there's other irritating coworkers as well


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Re: How do you subtly put people in their place? [Re: yeah] * 1
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yeah said:
I've already told him I'm fine the last several times he's asked, he's just trying to assert dominance because he takes his job so seriously

but I see where this thread is going I'm just gonna ignore condescending people because there's so many of you on this forum

Has he started aggressively humping you or trying to take a piss on your leg? That's how you know you're in trouble.


In all seriousness OP it sounds like you're overreacting to something that seems pretty benign


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I'm stupid, Enlil is smart.
I'm ugly, Enlil is beautiful.
I'm a loser, Enlil is a winner.
Someday, I hope to be like Enlil but secretly know I never will.

Edited by Malcolm_Xtasy (04/23/19 08:26 AM)

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Re: How do you subtly put people in their place? [Re: yeah]
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yeah said:
I've already told him I'm fine the last several times he's asked, he's just trying to assert dominance because he takes his job so seriously

but I see where this thread is going I'm just gonna ignore condescending people because there's so many of you on this forum


Dogs assert dominance by humping. Try that.

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Re: How do you subtly put people in their place? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy] * 1
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You could always go with the tried and true "fuck off".


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"Its moving of its own accord...and I like that in a shirt!" - Me, tripping.

deCypher said:
Schizophrenia beats dining alone, you know.

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Re: How do you subtly put people in their place? [Re: Ima Trooper]
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yeah idk if I should even change my behavior, I'm just there to make money


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Re: How do you subtly put people in their place? [Re: yeah]
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Then why the hell are you worried about all this bullshit then? :lol:


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I'm ugly, Enlil is beautiful.
I'm a loser, Enlil is a winner.
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Re: How do you subtly put people in their place? [Re: Ima Trooper] * 2
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Op. You soundnlike a fucking crotch munch. Mouth breathing has nothing to do with IQ. Have you tried simply asking the special needs person, or telling him rather that you dont like to be interrupted during your tasks at work? What job do you do? I deal with ppl at my job calling me racist and resent the fact Im an employee with them because I outwork those poor bastards. I work hard it's what I do.

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Re: How do you subtly put people in their place? [Re: StillSong]
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Quote:
crotch munch





:loldongs:


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I'm ugly, Enlil is beautiful.
I'm a loser, Enlil is a winner.
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Re: How do you subtly put people in their place? [Re: yeah]
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Everyone is showing you how to do it, OP.


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NotSheekle said
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Re: How do you subtly put people in their place? [Re: StillSong]
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https://www.amazon.com/dp/B078126DL4/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1
:saulgoodman:


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Re: How do you subtly put people in their place? [Re: yeah]
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I knew it. Special needs guy is your manager and you polish knobs. Im sure if you do a good job a promotion is in the near future.

Seriously OP. Good luck.

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Re: How do you subtly put people in their place? [Re: StillSong]
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I know people who are like this :shrug:

I know where op is coming from.

To me it's just a childish form of attention seeking and if you are actually real with them they'll tune you out.

It's better than him wanting to be your friend. Imagine that hellish reality for a second.

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Re: How do you subtly put people in their place? [Re: yeah]
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Im gunna need more examples.....

Also your statement is paradoxial. How can his IQ be one short of triple digits (which is a high score) and have special needs mental ability?

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