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Wtf is the deal with human communication
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Idfk if people talk differently where I’ve moved to or what maybe i suck at talking idk.  It seems like almost everyday at work I will say something and the person im saying it to will hear something totally different or else there will be some awkward moment of confusion where they don’t understand me or i don’t understand them.  I am a socially anxious person so maybe I just create some kind of misunderstanding by being kinda socially withdrawn Idfk man but the shits kind of getting on my nerves. And it creates some awkward situations.  Example today I thought this woman said she was giving me and a coworker some free desert in boxes, I guess she never did and my coworker put some leftover food we serve in two boxes so I was like did you start eating one  “yeah”. I say which one. And he replies “yeah take either one”. So I’m like wtf.  I took one and get home and it’s not the desert and I feel like a dick for taking this guys free dinner he was probably planning on enjoying.  But he didn’t tell me not to.  These awkward misunderstandings annoy me so bad. It’s like the classic occurance  where you think about a social interaction for 30 min before you fall asleep except I’ve just been going over it ever since I got home. Wondering if this guy is thinking I’m a dick or weird.  But. :shrug:fuck ya gonna do. It’s so simple to communicate with people yet this confusing shit happens. The fuck bro. I’m probably just socially awkward and a bad listener.  All my fault.

This shit happen to anyone else?

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Re: Wtf is the deal with human communication [Re: NOUS333] * 1
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Dude. What are you even talking about?


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Re: Wtf is the deal with human communication [Re: ReynardTheFox]
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ReynardTheFox said:
Dude. What are you even talking about?



Awkward social interactions/misunderstandings and how complicated simple communication can get.


Can’t tell if you are making a joke based on the premise of the thread or if you really don’t know what I’m talking about in which case I should probably just delete all this.

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Re: Wtf is the deal with human communication [Re: NOUS333]
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Well, I have dyslexia which is often associated with dyslalia, dysgraphia and dyscalculia.

With practice I learned to read an write properly an my skill in math are ok.

But getting my ideas and communicating with other people on normal basis can sometimes be quite frustrating, much like what you have described.

Smoking weed and taking small dose of shrooms have helped me a lot with this problem. I quite enjoy long conversations while on those drugs.

You could take an online dyslexia test and if you test negative, check some speech therapy.

The important thing is to get a good diagnose so you can take the necessary steps to solve this situation.

This shit is not normal, but it does happen to some of us and it doesn't need to keep happening.

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Re: Wtf is the deal with human communication [Re: Dr. Freeman]
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Dr. Freeman said:
Well, I have dyslexia which is often associated with dyslalia, dysgraphia and dyscalculia.

With practice I learned to read an write properly an my skill in math are ok.

But getting my ideas and communicating with other people on normal basis can sometimes be quite frustrating, much like what you have described.

Smoking weed and taking small dose of shrooms have helped me a lot with this problem. I quite enjoy long conversations while on those drugs.

You could take an online dyslexia test and if you test negative, check some speech therapy.

The important thing is to get a good diagnose so you can take the necessary steps to solve this situation.

This shit is not normal, but it does happen to some of us and it doesn't need to keep happening.



Bruh. I certainly don’t have dyslexia or it would of been a problem I noticed earlier on and there’s no trouble with my speech.  I pronounce words just fine and everything it’s just like    Fuck idk.  It’s so hard to explain.  Sometimes I just feel like I’m in my own little world and I miss things. I guess you’d call it missing social cues.  But idk. Could just have to do with interacting with new ppl all day and we haven’t gotten used to eachother and learned eachothers mannerisms if that’s the word/way to say it.    I could say these ppl have the problem and are the ones missing things too. Sometimes I explain myself and see them looking at me confused and I gotta say it in a more clear way.  Idk.  This shits hard to explain.

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Re: Wtf is the deal with human communication [Re: NOUS333]
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NOUS333 said:
ReynardTheFox said:
Dude. What are you even talking about?



Awkward social interactions/misunderstandings and how complicated simple communication can get.


Can’t tell if you are making a joke based on the premise of the thread or if you really don’t know what I’m talking about in which case I should probably just delete all this.



You're overthinking everything, honestly
The less you think about communication, the easier it flows. Think before you speak but don't think twice

I've been in your shoes before and I'll probably be in them again, and I personally enjoy limited conversation with long distance friends and such - it's just how I am, if someone isnt directly infront of me i'm likely to not engage them unless there's a reason.


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Re: Wtf is the deal with human communication [Re: NOUS333]
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Ever tried microdosing at work?

I never thought I had a problem with dyslexia either.
I still don't think I have a problem.

I don't think I have a problem with my speech either, I teach anatomy and my students seem to comprehend just fine, but still I sometimes find myself in the situation you describe.

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Re: Wtf is the deal with human communication [Re: Dr. Freeman]
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you probably just mumble or dont show enough of your face/body to the listener when communicating

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Re: Wtf is the deal with human communication [Re: Dr. Freeman]
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ModestMouse said:
NOUS333 said:
ReynardTheFox said:
Dude. What are you even talking about?



Awkward social interactions/misunderstandings and how complicated simple communication can get.


Can’t tell if you are making a joke based on the premise of the thread or if you really don’t know what I’m talking about in which case I should probably just delete all this.



You're overthinking everything, honestly
The less you think about communication, the easier it flows. Think before you speak but don't think twice

I've been in your shoes before and I'll probably be in them again, and I personally enjoy limited conversation with long distance friends and such - it's just how I am, if someone isnt directly infront of me i'm likely to not engage them unless there's a reason.



I’m definitely over thinking but the problem I have is I can’t stop.  I’m fine now. I had a couple drinks and now it’s like whatever.  I’ll tell the kid what happened and apologize (unecessarily) for taking the food next time I see him and we will probably laugh off the misunderstanding I had.   

But I shouldn’t need a couple of drinks to feel like it’s nothing, ya kno? Shits weird.  I just hate social awkwardness.  I’m sure we all do. I just think I obsess over it more than most do too. 

And I’m kind of the same way as I get older regarding long distance friends.


Dr. Freeman said:
Ever tried microdosing at work?

I never thought I had a problem with dyslexia either.
I still don't think I have a problem.

I don't think I have a problem with my speech either, I teach anatomy and my students seem to comprehend just fine, but still I sometimes find myself in the situation you describe.



Microdosing at work is not even an option. Pupils would undoubtedly give me away as being on something and even if they didn’t I haven’t microdosed or even dosed fully in so long I’d be afraid of not being able to keep it together.


I think people just get so used to talking with the same group of people for so long everyone learns how the other in the group talks to the point where body language and facial expression within context can communicate as well as words when words fall short or are not heard or misinterpreted and it’s easy to just put together what was said or meant almost subconsciously but being around new people or people you don’t talk with frequently it’s harder to do this and weird social situations and awkwardness occurs.

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Re: Wtf is the deal with human communication [Re: morrowasted]
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morrowasted said:
you probably just mumble or dont show enough of your face/body to the listener when communicating



Could be bro.  Definitely could be it.  Not sure.  I don’t think I mumble but that’s only because it’s pretty easy to understand oneself and know what you are saying when you are the one thinking. Who knows how I sound objectively

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Re: Wtf is the deal with human communication [Re: NOUS333]
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People do communicate better with people from their own group.

An about microdosing in public, you might find this interesting:

https://www.shroomery.org/14150/Micro-dosing-at-work-home

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