ichugwindex said:

Violet Wizard said:

I'm the loud arrogant "jerk" as the women call me. I make things like sushi, cupcakes, and cookies the parade around exclaiming how great i am for doing it. We also have a full kitchen so I make omelettes, fried rice, literal full meals so I end up with a lot of talking points.

I usually start off quiet and reserved but by this part im pretty much known as a know it all (which i can prove when confronted) a master chief, someone who counts calories collects gemstones... basically any conversation other then sports i can get into.

Sure I can be a bit much but by this time Im not changing But the soft spoken new girl enjoys trying to put me in my place and I like that type of interaction, I am very confident and always say "the best thing someone can do is challenge me, dont let me walk around praising myself lording stuff over you without calling me out... thats the fun!"

I work in a very different office. There was this one time the warrant squad came to arrest a coworker that worked here for 8 months and he ran out the back door when someone informed him, the cops showed up and asked "does anyone know wayne... anyone, wayne wayne he works here" (a minute of the cop looking around) "wayne who" someone says "wayne F" (silence) "well can anyone answer is wayne black or white" (another minute passes someone says) "well hes light skinned black" *police leave upset* and i said "well thanks guys at least now i know if the feds come you will all go "violet who, we dont know him" even though it says ive worked here for 7 years"

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based on this post you represent so much of what I hate in this world.

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Good, I’m glad. I am not the way I am to seek approval that’s like me hating on you for feeling the way you do. We are all entitled to our opinions as well as individual personalities

ichugwindex said:

To be fair you DID say you were an asshole right in the post.

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I sure did the defended your right to feel that way, we’re cool don’t worry

Patlal said:

LogicaL Chaos said:

This shit is tough. This girl at my company, I believe she just quit. Or got fired. She had a "firey" personality. I liked her, she was cool to me and always said "hi" to me in a friendly way. It really sucks that she is gone. I liked her.

It feels like heartbreak even thou I saw her only as a friend. Feels like the "squad" has been split up. Sucks.

U guys ever gone thru this?

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Jesus Christ dude. I thought she had died.

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sh4d0ws said:

This. I think almost everyone was coming to give their condolences. Can't you just hang out with her outside of work?

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