Anonymous #1 said:
Well, the situation took a turn for the, interesting.... but not really.
the money has been explained, and to an extent i believe it. I certainly dont think she was a hooker. as a matter of fact i know thats not the case.
the messages, they continue to be a blind spot, because since i confronted her about them, shes made damn sure that there was no more evidence or any chance for me to have any insight, and her explanations of them are just bullshit that i dont entirely or wholly believe.
It is good to read that the money was explained and that you are not starting to reason things out.
Think of that girl as your partner, and not just a whore.
If you want to build a good relationship, start by showing some trust and love unconditionally.
If it is her desire to have friends and keep them from you, at this point of time, accept that and show her that you have enough faith in yourself, and in the relationship to take whatever comes out of it.
Relationships have to go through a lot of stormy weather, and the best relationships involve great team work. Just let your partner know that you love her and as part of that friendship your goal is to help her enjoy and learn as much as possible through life.
With you, or without you ....should make no difference in how much you love her and the depth of the friendship.
See her not as your possession, but as a beautiful human being that you are fortunate enough to have her want to spend time being and living with you.
If you treat her like shit, you will lose her.
If you continue to blame her and make her feel that she is living in some kind of oppression, she will dump your ass in the long run.
She does not want a jail guard for a lover, and she does not need a father.
Giver her trust.
If she fails that trust, forgive her and love her just the same.
Most often the people that tell you to leave your relationships are envious and it is their desire to actually see you suffer.
Think of Losers like drowning people in the water.
They would rather see you drown too, than drown alone.
So they try and pull you down with them while they sink.
The best advise i can offer is be an example of what is good in a relationship. Be kind, loving, and get rid of the jealousy and insecurity. Those are just a sign of a sickness that will bring you down.
If you are a stand up guy, than you give her no cause to leave you. If she does leave you, at least you know you tried your best with out being a total asshole and a jerk.
Good luck, and best wishes for your relationship.
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