Anonymous #1 said:

ok, its like midnight on valentines day, I stay up to cook my girl a nice dinner according to her gluten free highly restrictive diet when she gets home at midnight, l;ike ive been planning it for hours. I have flowers and a card on standby. And she is just such a bitch to me, just sarcastic as hell, murdering the mood. I dont even break out the card and flowers, it just feels so wrong.

so we go to eat diner and watch tv, she passes out, thats it. its after midnight, no happy valentines day, all she tells me is shes taking yoga in the morning, when I had planned to cook her a nice breakfast in bed, once again on the highly restrictive diet. I had to spend hella money on special uncured bacon, just to try and make something she could enjoy and actually eat....

So im like, ok what the fuck, she was on her phone all day blowing up with texts from her friend 'lauren' and has been all week, wont mention a thing, and at this point im like highly suspicious. whats going on with lauren, why the cold shoulder, what the actual fuck is going on here, because I know its something.....

so i go to check her phone, but i have to find it first. I check her bag/purse thingy, And I come across $1,000 in CASH and a check for $1,000 from her old man, dated 2 days ago. like, what the fuck, she doesn't make that in 4 months, shes a student.... and it was all in 50's.

Then i come across the phone, all those messages, the ones I was with her for when she was getting them, theyre all gone. no evidence they ever happened. Now thats fishy as fuck, right?

And NONE of this was mentioned to me. Which is odd, because just 3 days ago we had a discussion about our finances.

So secrets, and large sums of money, i know my brain is going to go INSANE with speculation.

shroomery, have at with your wild speculations.

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My fellow shroomer.....

From my humble opinion..

Just because a crazy thought enters your head does not mean that you have to believe it

You have absolutely no proof of any affair other than your wild ass speculation. (Whatever  information may or may not be on her phone is none of your business)

You have absolutely no business looking through her purse without her consent.


I am just going to give it to you strait off the hip ....

From my perspective, you are the one being an asshole.

You have been so busy crying    the blues about feeling your own self pity that you have not tried to see things from her perspective.


Perhaps she was exhausted from work when she came home and was too tired to deal with your fussing over and trying to cook for her.

Perhaps she is getting tired of your constant whining and inquisitions about her every phone call or move

Perhaps she is getting very tried of you searching through her purse.

Perhaps she is getting sick of your constant whining about what you do for her, instead of seeing how much she does in the relationship to try and make it work.

Perhaps she is just not liking the terms of your "conditional love" where if she fails to jump, bark and roll over like you want, you go off on a rant about her.


Just playing devils advocate.....

Anonymous #14 said:

Anonymous #1 said:

ok, its like midnight on valentines day, I stay up to cook my girl a nice dinner according to her gluten free highly restrictive diet when she gets home at midnight, l;ike ive been planning it for hours. I have flowers and a card on standby. And she is just such a bitch to me, just sarcastic as hell, murdering the mood. I dont even break out the card and flowers, it just feels so wrong.

so we go to eat diner and watch tv, she passes out, thats it. its after midnight, no happy valentines day, all she tells me is shes taking yoga in the morning, when I had planned to cook her a nice breakfast in bed, once again on the highly restrictive diet. I had to spend hella money on special uncured bacon, just to try and make something she could enjoy and actually eat....

So im like, ok what the fuck, she was on her phone all day blowing up with texts from her friend 'lauren' and has been all week, wont mention a thing, and at this point im like highly suspicious. whats going on with lauren, why the cold shoulder, what the actual fuck is going on here, because I know its something.....

so i go to check her phone, but i have to find it first. I check her bag/purse thingy, And I come across $1,000 in CASH and a check for $1,000 from her old man, dated 2 days ago. like, what the fuck, she doesn't make that in 4 months, shes a student.... and it was all in 50's.

Then i come across the phone, all those messages, the ones I was with her for when she was getting them, theyre all gone. no evidence they ever happened. Now thats fishy as fuck, right?

And NONE of this was mentioned to me. Which is odd, because just 3 days ago we had a discussion about our finances.

So secrets, and large sums of money, i know my brain is going to go INSANE with speculation.

shroomery, have at with your wild speculations.

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My fellow shroomer.....

From my humble opinion..

Just because a crazy thought enters your head does not mean that you have to believe it

You have absolutely no proof of any affair other than your wild ass speculation. (Whatever  information may or may not be on her phone is none of your business)

You have absolutely no business looking through her purse without her consent.


I am just going to give it to you strait off the hip ....

From my perspective, you are the one being an asshole.

You have been so busy crying    the blues about feeling your own self pity that you have not tried to see things from her perspective.


Perhaps she was exhausted from work when she came home and was too tired to deal with your fussing over and trying to cook for her.

Perhaps she is getting tired of your constant whining and inquisitions about her every phone call or move

Perhaps she is getting very tried of you searching through her purse.

Perhaps she is getting sick of your constant whining about what you do for her, instead of seeing how much she does in the relationship to try and make it work.

Perhaps she is just not liking the terms of your "conditional love" where if she fails to jump, bark and roll over like you want, you go off on a rant about her.


Just playing devils advocate.....

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