Anthony917 said:

Shroomery...sticky situation.

Super cute new(ish) girl who works @ my bar. I like her 

She left after her shift ended last night, but I convinced her to come back and hang out. Well...she did, but she was shiittttfaceeedd drunk. Puking on the bar floor (which I had to clean up) puking on the couch, puking on me...it wasn't pretty. (I think if a chick pukes on you...and you don't get mad, it's a sign)

I managed to get her in the back office to lay down on the couch. Her friend was with her, and we started talking and she's like "oooh you like her don't you?" and I'm all..."uhh yes" and she's like "noo you can't she's got a boyfriend already" to which I replied "so?"

but...idk, is it worth it to even try? I'm probably going to anyway, but the chances of failure seem a little high...

anyone ever steal a chick away from their bf?

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Me_Roy said:

Best to wait it out. 

As long as you don't overstep certain bounds, you have the "nice guy who took care of you" card in your back pocket.  As soon as you make a move, that card's gone.

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Anthony917 said:

who said it was lust?

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IME, if shes that willing to leave someone (and might i add, only if the chemistry isnt perfect or close to it between you two) she'll be just as willing to do the same to you.

but it really depends on the situation. if theyve been dating for a while and shes tired of him and even better yet, you see him not treating her right (the best sign). then man the sails 

BoxyBrown said:

Anthony917 said:

who said it was lust?

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IME, if shes that willing to leave someone (and might i add, only if the chemistry isnt perfect or close to it between you two) she'll be just as willing to do the same to you.

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hmm....good point

Pigasus said:

do you think you have a chance of getting her to leave her boyfriend for you?

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Anthony917 said:

Pigasus said:

do you think you have a chance of getting her to leave her boyfriend for you?

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mmm...well I don't know how serious her and her bf are, so it's hard to say, but based on my outstanding personality and dashing good looks...
I'd say I could do it

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Pigasus said:

Anthony917 said:

Pigasus said:

do you think you have a chance of getting her to leave her boyfriend for you?

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mmm...well I don't know how serious her and her bf are, so it's hard to say, but based on my outstanding personality and dashing good looks...
I'd say I could do it

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well even so, one of the previous posters had a damn good point, if she leaves him for you that would only prove how easily she will drop a man the second she becomes smitten with someone new.

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Pigasus said:if she leaves him for you that would only prove how easily she will drop a man the second she becomes smitten with someone new.

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Eshu said:

Trying to take someones bf/gf is a scum bag move.

Just cause she puked on you and you didn't care doesn't mean you love her.

Don't fuck up someone elses business. Not cool man.

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Ok I'm going to put it like this.

I am a single guy, so honestly every woman I see is a potential partner, even ones who might already have boyfriends.

Besides, it isn't up to ME to decide what SHE does.

Rabidbaboon said:

You sound desperate enough that you're willing to compromise your morals to get laid.

Those are dangerous waters you're treading in.

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Rabidbaboon said:

For someone who values being in a relationship so much, you sure don't value others.

I'm just saying.

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you misunderstand me.

it's like...

there's a chick, I like her, I want her, she's taken, so I will be smooth and if she wants me too then I don't see the problem.
It's not like I'm actively trying to get her to break up with her bf, or making any advances.
It's more like wait-and-see type thing