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Chicks with boyfriends
#14456287 - 05/15/11 01:34 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Shroomery...sticky situation.
Super cute new(ish) girl who works @ my bar. I like her
She left after her shift ended last night, but I convinced her to come back and hang out. Well...she did, but she was shiittttfaceeedd drunk. Puking on the bar floor (which I had to clean up) puking on the couch, puking on me...it wasn't pretty. (I think if a chick pukes on you...and you don't get mad, it's a sign)
I managed to get her in the back office to lay down on the couch. Her friend was with her, and we started talking and she's like "oooh you like her don't you?" and I'm all..."uhh yes" and she's like "noo you can't she's got a boyfriend already" to which I replied "so?"
but...idk, is it worth it to even try? I'm probably going to anyway, but the chances of failure seem a little high...
about working together: She only works there once or twice a week - I am a bartender, and I don't even see her while I'm working...so 
edit: I guess this post sounded a little douchey, and I want to clarify so I don't get any more comments like Shins....
I am not actively pursuing this girl, nor have I made a single advancement towards her. I don't plan on sleeping with her on a whim, and I wouldn't sleep with her without being in a relationship with her. I just like her 
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
#14456331 - 05/15/11 01:45 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Anthony917 said: Shroomery...sticky situation.
Super cute new(ish) girl who works @ my bar. I like her
She left after her shift ended last night, but I convinced her to come back and hang out. Well...she did, but she was shiittttfaceeedd drunk. Puking on the bar floor (which I had to clean up) puking on the couch, puking on me...it wasn't pretty. (I think if a chick pukes on you...and you don't get mad, it's a sign)
I managed to get her in the back office to lay down on the couch. Her friend was with her, and we started talking and she's like "oooh you like her don't you?" and I'm all..."uhh yes" and she's like "noo you can't she's got a boyfriend already" to which I replied "so?"
but...idk, is it worth it to even try? I'm probably going to anyway, but the chances of failure seem a little high...
anyone ever steal a chick away from their bf?
he could be a push over, or he could hate fuck you and then shoot you in the back of the head. Not really a good gamble for a little lust.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Lennyk]
#14456339 - 05/15/11 01:47 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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who said it was lust?
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Lennyk]
#14456342 - 05/15/11 01:48 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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What he said. And considering you work together, shit could get weird fast. I wouldn't advise any action.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: shadowplay]
#14456371 - 05/15/11 01:53 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Best to wait it out.
As long as you don't overstep certain bounds, you have the "nice guy who took care of you" card in your back pocket. As soon as you make a move, that card's gone.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Me_Roy]
#14456375 - 05/15/11 01:54 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Me_Roy said: Best to wait it out.
As long as you don't overstep certain bounds, you have the "nice guy who took care of you" card in your back pocket. As soon as you make a move, that card's gone.
exactly.... must play this game strategically
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
#14456379 - 05/15/11 01:55 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Anthony917 said: who said it was lust?
IME, if shes that willing to leave someone (and might i add, only if the chemistry isnt perfect or close to it between you two) she'll be just as willing to do the same to you.
but it really depends on the situation. if theyve been dating for a while and shes tired of him and even better yet, you see him not treating her right (the best sign). then man the sails
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Muufokfok]
#14456389 - 05/15/11 01:57 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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BoxyBrown said:
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Anthony917 said: who said it was lust?
IME, if shes that willing to leave someone (and might i add, only if the chemistry isnt perfect or close to it between you two) she'll be just as willing to do the same to you.
hmm....good point
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: shadowplay]
#14456393 - 05/15/11 01:58 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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do you think you have a chance of getting her to leave her boyfriend for you?
because if all she's willing to do is cheat on him with you, that's a dealbreaker.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Pigasus] 1
#14456401 - 05/15/11 02:00 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Pigasus said: do you think you have a chance of getting her to leave her boyfriend for you?
mmm...well I don't know how serious her and her bf are, so it's hard to say, but based on my outstanding personality and dashing good looks... I'd say I could do it
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
#14456425 - 05/15/11 02:04 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Anthony917 said:
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Pigasus said: do you think you have a chance of getting her to leave her boyfriend for you?
mmm...well I don't know how serious her and her bf are, so it's hard to say, but based on my outstanding personality and dashing good looks... I'd say I could do it
well even so, one of the previous posters had a damn good point, if she leaves him for you that would only prove how easily she will drop a man the second she becomes smitten with someone new.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Pigasus]
#14456429 - 05/15/11 02:06 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Pigasus said:
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Anthony917 said:
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Pigasus said: do you think you have a chance of getting her to leave her boyfriend for you?
mmm...well I don't know how serious her and her bf are, so it's hard to say, but based on my outstanding personality and dashing good looks... I'd say I could do it
well even so, one of the previous posters had a damn good point, if she leaves him for you that would only prove how easily she will drop a man the second she becomes smitten with someone new.
indeed, I am wary.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Pigasus]
#14456438 - 05/15/11 02:07 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Pigasus said:if she leaves him for you that would only prove how easily she will drop a man the second she becomes smitten with someone new.
I don't have a problem with that. People aren't designed to stay together forever. We mingle.
The danger sign is if she stays with her boyfriend and cheats on him. That is very different than dumping him for someone new.
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Trying to take someones bf/gf is a scum bag move.
Just cause she puked on you and you didn't care doesn't mean you love her.
Don't fuck up someone elses business. Not cool man.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Eshu]
#14456567 - 05/15/11 02:34 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Eshu said: Trying to take someones bf/gf is a scum bag move.
Just cause she puked on you and you didn't care doesn't mean you love her.
Don't fuck up someone elses business. Not cool man.
Ok I'm going to put it like this.
I am a single guy, so honestly every woman I see is a potential partner, even ones who might already have boyfriends.
Besides, it isn't up to ME to decide what SHE does.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
#14456711 - 05/15/11 02:55 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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You sound desperate enough that you're willing to compromise your morals to get laid.
Those are dangerous waters you're treading in.
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Rabidbaboon said: You sound desperate enough that you're willing to compromise your morals to get laid.
Those are dangerous waters you're treading in.
I'm not desperate, and I don't just want to get laid...wtf? I don't fuck chicks without being in a relationship with them...
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917] 1
#14456739 - 05/15/11 02:59 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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For someone who values being in a relationship so much, you sure don't value others.
I'm just saying.
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Rabidbaboon said: For someone who values being in a relationship so much, you sure don't value others.
I'm just saying. 
you misunderstand me.
it's like...
there's a chick, I like her, I want her, she's taken, so I will be smooth and if she wants me too then I don't see the problem. It's not like I'm actively trying to get her to break up with her bf, or making any advances. It's more like wait-and-see type thing
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917] 1
#14456764 - 05/15/11 03:03 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Hey is there a ring on the finger, nope. Maybe they are not that happy, or she could be happier. If it is just a boyfriend girlfriend thing big deal. Things change.
Granted I don't think I would try, but if it happened... I wouldn't say no.
I do agree with an earlier poster concerning her switching mates to easily, it could happen to you later.
As far as working together, my wife was my boss 6 or 7 years ago. It doesn't always go bad, and the fact you don't work the same shifts no biggie there.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
#14456795 - 05/15/11 03:07 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Anthony917 said:
I don't fuck chicks without being in a relationship with them...
i do, and in your shoes i'd probably try to bang that chick too.
the one girl i've ever cared about more than anyone else sure didn't care that i was her boyfriend when she decided to fuck a black guy. i'd still never cheat on a girlfriend, cause i don't see the point in being together if you'd be willing to fuck someone else. but i have no problem going for a chick who already has a bf.
just be ready for a fight if he finds out, unless he's a pussy anyway.
idk i dont have any advice, just basically saying that i'm a manwhore when i feel like it. morals suck.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
#14456804 - 05/15/11 03:09 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Anthony917 said: it's like...
there's a chick, I like her, I want her, she's taken, so I will be smooth and if she wants me too then I don't see the problem. It's not like I'm actively trying to get her to break up with her bf, or making any advances. It's more like wait-and-see type thing 
Hm 
Well I don't see anything wrong with that.
I assumed you had different intentions, considering most guys who try to "steal" girls from their boyfriends go about it with a self-righteous douchebag demeanor.
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Rabidbaboon said:
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Anthony917 said: it's like...
there's a chick, I like her, I want her, she's taken, so I will be smooth and if she wants me too then I don't see the problem. It's not like I'm actively trying to get her to break up with her bf, or making any advances. It's more like wait-and-see type thing 
Hm 
Well I don't see anything wrong with that.
I assumed you had different intentions, considering most guys who try to "steal" girls from their boyfriends go about it with a self-righteous douchebag demeanor.
haha perhaps I shouldn't have said "have you stolen a chick away from her bf?" I didn't mean it in a douchebaggy way. More like...I will be myself, and this chick will be unable to resist
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
#14456833 - 05/15/11 03:13 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Anthony917 said: I will be myself, and this chick will be unable to resist 
Best strategy for all humans
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: 4runner]
#14456844 - 05/15/11 03:14 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Why don't you try and go for chicks who you KNOW are single? There are plenty of girls out there that you would probably like better than this one if you got to know them. Especially seeing as it's obvious you dont really know this girl, you just know what her puke looks like.
But going after someone who already has a boyfriend is kind of a dick move on your part. All it is going to accomplish is a bunch of drama between you and the bf, and probably more when you get to know her and find out she is a crazy bitch.
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rustyeffect said: Why don't you try and go for chicks who you KNOW are single? There are plenty of girls out there that you would probably like better than this one if you got to know them. Especially seeing as it's obvious you dont really know this girl, you just know what her puke looks like.
But going after someone who already has a boyfriend is kind of a dick move on your part. All it is going to accomplish is a bunch of drama between you and the bf, and probably more when you get to know her and find out she is a crazy bitch.

maybe. There are plenty of single chicks, ur right...but I like this one  I don't know her THAT well, at least not well enough to know about the seriousness of her relationship...but I wouldn't ask anyway. That'd be way too forward imo
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
#14456899 - 05/15/11 03:21 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Anthony917 said:
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rustyeffect said: Why don't you try and go for chicks who you KNOW are single? There are plenty of girls out there that you would probably like better than this one if you got to know them. Especially seeing as it's obvious you dont really know this girl, you just know what her puke looks like.
But going after someone who already has a boyfriend is kind of a dick move on your part. All it is going to accomplish is a bunch of drama between you and the bf, and probably more when you get to know her and find out she is a crazy bitch.

maybe. There are plenty of single chicks, ur right...but I like this one  I don't know her THAT well, at least not well enough to know about the seriousness of her relationship...but I wouldn't ask anyway. That'd be way too forward imo
You could be casual about it though. Just bring it up to her "hey so I was wondering if you were seeing anyone?" then just take it from there, and see how she reacts to questions about her boyfriend.
Back in my man-slut days this method would work for me pretty well. They would start talking shit about their bf to me, and I would make them forget about him
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Pigasus]
#14456943 - 05/15/11 03:28 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Thou sall not covet thy neighbours wife. Thou shall not commit adultery.
You're a horrible person.
Pathetic too.
Out of the million of girls in the world, the only one you have a hope in getting has a boyfriend?
Maybe if you acted like a man it wouldn't be such a problem.
You slimy weasel cad.
Go to hell.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Shins]
#14457021 - 05/15/11 03:39 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Shins said: Thou sall not covet thy neighbours wife. Thou shall not commit adultery.
You're a horrible person.
Pathetic too.
Out of the million of girls in the world, the only one you have a hope in getting has a boyfriend?
Maybe if you acted like a man it wouldn't be such a problem.
You slimy weasel cad.
Go to hell.
wow....this is a lot of hate for nothing.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
#14457028 - 05/15/11 03:42 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Its generally a cuntish thing to do and if karma is in you'll get stabbed by her psycho boyfriend
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Shins]
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Shins said: Thou sall not covet thy neighbours wife. Thou shall not commit adultery.
You're a horrible person.
Pathetic too.
Out of the million of girls in the world, the only one you have a hope in getting has a boyfriend?
Maybe if you acted like a man it wouldn't be such a problem.
You slimy weasel cad.
Go to hell.
damn some one is a religous nut. it is sunday but sheesh the ten commandments.
on topic though, op you sound like your putting the pussy on a pedestal. thats always a mistake.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: nice1]
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nice1 said: Its generally a cuntish thing to do and if karma is in you'll get stabbed by her psycho boyfriend
So if I just befriend her, and make no attempt at "stealing" her, then she breaks up with her boyfriend and we get together, I did something worth getting stabbed???
Logic fail.
Maybe if I wooed her and then banged her on the couch in the back office, that would be fucked up, but I'm not doing anything wrong here...
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
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I never said that. Nice hypothetical though - my uncle was actually stabbed to death for shagging a woman with a BF Shit happens.
As long as you don't mind people hitting on your girlfriend while she is fucked up I spose its ok... how do you feel about the shoes being on the other feet?
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: nice1]
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nice1 said: I never said that. Nice hypothetical though - my uncle was actually stabbed to death for shagging a woman with a BF Shit happens.
As long as you don't mind people hitting on your girlfriend while she is fucked up I spose its ok... how do you feel about the shoes being on the other feet?
I mean...it obviously happens. Also, the fact that all I had to do was text her saying "____ you left without saying goodbye!" and she returned tells me that either A- she's into me B- she has a lame ass bf C- she's a skank D- all of the above
So, I really don't know at this point, but if my gf was out getting cozy with another dude I'd be pissed...but then she probably wouldn't be my gf
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: nice1]
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just because she has a boyfriend doesnt mean they are in a meaningful relationship.
she could be in a fiery misery of hell trying to get away from this dude but sense he doesnt beat her and mom likes him he has to be good right.
there are plenty of reasons that people stay with each other with lables and not all of them are for the good.
op do your thang.. and remember if ya do shag this chick, work will never be the same broseph.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
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Anthony917 said: if my gf was out getting cozy with another dude I'd be pissed...
Thats why its cuntish.
You can be her friend but you asked about stealing her from him. I wouldn't steal someone. If she decides to dump him for you its a different matter but actively stealing her, while shes drunk - that would be a dick move bro.
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DarkMatterOfFact said: on topic though, op you sound like your putting the pussy on a pedestal. thats always a mistake. 
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: rackem]
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rackem said: she could be in a fiery misery of hell trying to get away from this dude
lol yeah I spose... not a very good excuse IMO for cheating with a drunk girl 
If shes in a bad relationship fucking end it - theres no BS excuses like that for YOUR action.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: nice1]
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nice1 said:
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Anthony917 said: if my gf was out getting cozy with another dude I'd be pissed...
Thats why its cuntish.
You can be her friend but you asked about stealing her from him. I wouldn't steal someone. If she decides to dump him for you its a different matter but actively stealing her, while shes drunk - that would be a dick move bro.
where did you get this idea that I was going to do something shiesty? She was drunk enough last night that I probably could have boned her no questions asked, but...I'm not that kinda guy.
I edited my original post, I didn't mean it to sound like I was being an asshat, actively trying to rip her away from her boyfriend. not at all.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
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I got the idea from your original post lol - thats what you asked
You specifically asked about stealing a drunk girl who had a BF.
Now everyones trying to change the question and say shes got a bad BF or something lol
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: nice1]
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No I asked if anyone here had any experience "stealing" chicks away from their BF's and by that I meant
"has anyone here gotten involved with a chick who already has a boyfriend, and how did it go"
I never said she had to be drunk, you misunderstand
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: nice1]
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just throwing it out their hypothetically..
the fact of the matter we have no idea what the situation truely is..
i mean.. where the hell was he/ if a chick i was with was puking at the bar id be there to see that she got home safetly.
but once again.. maybe he was at work...
who knows..
put your time in dude.. good chance if she goes to you while your still into her, its meant to be.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: rackem]
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rackem said: just throwing it out their hypothetically..
the fact of the matter we have no idea what the situation truely is..
i mean.. where the hell was he/ if a chick i was with was puking at the bar id be there to see that she got home safetly.
but once again.. maybe he was at work...
who knows..
put your time in dude.. good chance if she goes to you while your still into her, its meant to be.
yea I wondered where her BF was also? She was going out for the night...idk? she didn't say anything to me about him so idk.
I did see her home safely, to her front door.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
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oh ya one thing that kinda threw me off....
after our shifts were over we were in the back hanging out w/ a couple other servers and she was talking about smoking weed (cause I brought it up ) and she referred to being high as "when you're on weed"...and "when you do weed"
lol never heard anyone say it like that...
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
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Whenever a girl says she has a boyfriend im always like so what i have a goldfish.
I'd be more concerned that you work with her.
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we work together maybe once a week/every other week so it's really a non-issue
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
#14457467 - 05/15/11 04:53 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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until you break up and she tells all your coworkers you came home drunk one night and beat the shit out of her.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
#14457470 - 05/15/11 04:53 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I always keep girls with boyfriends as good friends. Someday, they may be crying on your shoulder, and I have a theory:
The girl who cries on your shoulder soon cries in your bed.
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starfire_xes said: I always keep girls with boyfriends as good friends. Someday, they may be crying on your shoulder, and I have a theory:
The girl who cries on your shoulder soon cries in your bed.
I like this 
it's much easier to befriend a chick who already has a boyfriend cause the thought of them becoming potential mates is out the window
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stuntmanmike said: until you break up and she tells all your coworkers you came home drunk one night and beat the shit out of her.
speaking from personal experience?
haha I see what you mean though.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
#14457533 - 05/15/11 05:05 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Exactly. You can really get to be good friends with someone and get to know them well if you ain't sticking Big Red in them every night.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
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ya and you can be her gay friend who talks about all her man troubles with her and maybe one day shell through you a pitty fuck or you can nut up and show her your just a better guy than who shes with
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but the big red option is wayy more fun.
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stuntmanmike said: ya and you can be her gay friend who talks about all her man troubles with her and maybe one day shell through you a pitty fuck or you can nut up and show her your just a better guy than who shes with
what if she's happy? I want to be her friend, so...no use in causing unnecessary drama  if she's not happy though...it's on
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
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Anthony917 said: Shroomery...sticky situation.
Super cute new(ish) girl who works @ my bar. I like her
She left after her shift ended last night, but I convinced her to come back and hang out. Well...she did, but she was shiittttfaceeedd drunk. Puking on the bar floor (which I had to clean up) puking on the couch, puking on me...it wasn't pretty. (I think if a chick pukes on you...and you don't get mad, it's a sign)
I managed to get her in the back office to lay down on the couch. Her friend was with her, and we started talking and she's like "oooh you like her don't you?" and I'm all..."uhh yes" and she's like "noo you can't she's got a boyfriend already" to which I replied "so?"
but...idk, is it worth it to even try? I'm probably going to anyway, but the chances of failure seem a little high...
about working together: She only works there once or twice a week - I am a bartender, and I don't even see her while I'm working...so 
edit: I guess this post sounded a little douchey, and I want to clarify so I don't get any more comments like Shins....
I am not actively pursuing this girl, nor have I made a single advancement towards her. I don't plan on sleeping with her on a whim, and I wouldn't sleep with her without being in a relationship with her. I just like her 
I didn't see any girls gettin' up in this thread, so I thought I'd give a little input. I, honestly, think it's kinda sweet Normally, the kind of dudes I'm used to don't give any kind of fuck whether or not a girl has a boyfriend and just encroach up in a relationship. It's so irritating, desperate-looking, and a real turn off. And all the posts claiming that if she leaves her boyfriend so quickly, she'll do the same to you! Yeah, I mean it's true sometimes...but maybe she gets to know you and never realized that the chemistry could even be that high between her and someone else. I mean if it's not there between her and her boyfriend and she finds someone who REALLY can show her happiness and completeness, then she owes it to everyone to be honest about her feelings. I think it's even shittier to drag someone along just because you "owe" something by saying "Yes, I'll go steady uh-hurr-durr "
I say just play it cool and be your awesome self. I mean if some other fling comes up, by all means don't pass that shit up for this chick...but she also will see that your a grown man who's still living his life. That to me, is way hotter than some guy who drops everything to cling on to some glimmer of hope that he might get me in bed
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
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what if she's happy? I want to be her friend, so...no use in causing unnecessary drama  if she's not happy though...it's on
Im just saying clearly you want to be with her. No sense in pretending you just want to be her friends, in the hopes one day she breaks up with him. youll be stuck in the friend zone (which is a very real thing) It doesnt matter if shes happy, she could be happier with you. its not like your kidnapping some guys girlfriend. She is making the decision. I've never have a problem with drama but im a no nonsense kind of guy i squash that shit as soon as it starts up.
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Well, I lived in Asia for a long time, and it amazes me westerners have no concept of 'male friend' or 'female friend' without sex. It's very common in asia, people are just...friends. But that also can lead to really knowing someone a long time as a friend, and developing a relation that might go deeper. But that shouldn't be the focus of having a friend.
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well all I mean is if I approach her about it (which I likely will) and she says "yea I've got a boyfriend" then it is douchey of me to try anything... if I was the boyfriend, I would be pissed if someone was doing that type of shit with my girl so 
if she says she's unhappy or something then it's game on, like I said, but I don't wanna fuck with someone's life like that. besides if I am her friend & then her boyfriend cheats on her or something, I'm golden
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