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nice1
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
#14457260 - 05/15/11 04:13 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I got the idea from your original post lol - thats what you asked
You specifically asked about stealing a drunk girl who had a BF.
Now everyones trying to change the question and say shes got a bad BF or something lol
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Anthony917
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: nice1]
#14457267 - 05/15/11 04:14 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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No I asked if anyone here had any experience "stealing" chicks away from their BF's and by that I meant
"has anyone here gotten involved with a chick who already has a boyfriend, and how did it go"
I never said she had to be drunk, you misunderstand
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: nice1]
#14457289 - 05/15/11 04:18 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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just throwing it out their hypothetically..
the fact of the matter we have no idea what the situation truely is..
i mean.. where the hell was he/ if a chick i was with was puking at the bar id be there to see that she got home safetly.
but once again.. maybe he was at work...
who knows..
put your time in dude.. good chance if she goes to you while your still into her, its meant to be.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: rackem]
#14457298 - 05/15/11 04:19 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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rackem said: just throwing it out their hypothetically..
the fact of the matter we have no idea what the situation truely is..
i mean.. where the hell was he/ if a chick i was with was puking at the bar id be there to see that she got home safetly.
but once again.. maybe he was at work...
who knows..
put your time in dude.. good chance if she goes to you while your still into her, its meant to be.
yea I wondered where her BF was also? She was going out for the night...idk? she didn't say anything to me about him so idk.
I did see her home safely, to her front door.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
#14457428 - 05/15/11 04:46 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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oh ya one thing that kinda threw me off....
after our shifts were over we were in the back hanging out w/ a couple other servers and she was talking about smoking weed (cause I brought it up ) and she referred to being high as "when you're on weed"...and "when you do weed"
lol never heard anyone say it like that...
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
#14457456 - 05/15/11 04:51 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Whenever a girl says she has a boyfriend im always like so what i have a goldfish.
I'd be more concerned that you work with her.
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Anthony917
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we work together maybe once a week/every other week so it's really a non-issue
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
#14457467 - 05/15/11 04:53 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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until you break up and she tells all your coworkers you came home drunk one night and beat the shit out of her.
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starfire_xes
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
#14457470 - 05/15/11 04:53 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I always keep girls with boyfriends as good friends. Someday, they may be crying on your shoulder, and I have a theory:
The girl who cries on your shoulder soon cries in your bed.
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starfire_xes said: I always keep girls with boyfriends as good friends. Someday, they may be crying on your shoulder, and I have a theory:
The girl who cries on your shoulder soon cries in your bed.
I like this 
it's much easier to befriend a chick who already has a boyfriend cause the thought of them becoming potential mates is out the window
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stuntmanmike said: until you break up and she tells all your coworkers you came home drunk one night and beat the shit out of her.
speaking from personal experience?
haha I see what you mean though.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
#14457533 - 05/15/11 05:05 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Exactly. You can really get to be good friends with someone and get to know them well if you ain't sticking Big Red in them every night.
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
#14457540 - 05/15/11 05:06 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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ya and you can be her gay friend who talks about all her man troubles with her and maybe one day shell through you a pitty fuck or you can nut up and show her your just a better guy than who shes with
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but the big red option is wayy more fun.
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Anthony917
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stuntmanmike said: ya and you can be her gay friend who talks about all her man troubles with her and maybe one day shell through you a pitty fuck or you can nut up and show her your just a better guy than who shes with
what if she's happy? I want to be her friend, so...no use in causing unnecessary drama  if she's not happy though...it's on
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
#14457583 - 05/15/11 05:15 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Anthony917 said: Shroomery...sticky situation.
Super cute new(ish) girl who works @ my bar. I like her
She left after her shift ended last night, but I convinced her to come back and hang out. Well...she did, but she was shiittttfaceeedd drunk. Puking on the bar floor (which I had to clean up) puking on the couch, puking on me...it wasn't pretty. (I think if a chick pukes on you...and you don't get mad, it's a sign)
I managed to get her in the back office to lay down on the couch. Her friend was with her, and we started talking and she's like "oooh you like her don't you?" and I'm all..."uhh yes" and she's like "noo you can't she's got a boyfriend already" to which I replied "so?"
but...idk, is it worth it to even try? I'm probably going to anyway, but the chances of failure seem a little high...
about working together: She only works there once or twice a week - I am a bartender, and I don't even see her while I'm working...so 
edit: I guess this post sounded a little douchey, and I want to clarify so I don't get any more comments like Shins....
I am not actively pursuing this girl, nor have I made a single advancement towards her. I don't plan on sleeping with her on a whim, and I wouldn't sleep with her without being in a relationship with her. I just like her 
I didn't see any girls gettin' up in this thread, so I thought I'd give a little input. I, honestly, think it's kinda sweet Normally, the kind of dudes I'm used to don't give any kind of fuck whether or not a girl has a boyfriend and just encroach up in a relationship. It's so irritating, desperate-looking, and a real turn off. And all the posts claiming that if she leaves her boyfriend so quickly, she'll do the same to you! Yeah, I mean it's true sometimes...but maybe she gets to know you and never realized that the chemistry could even be that high between her and someone else. I mean if it's not there between her and her boyfriend and she finds someone who REALLY can show her happiness and completeness, then she owes it to everyone to be honest about her feelings. I think it's even shittier to drag someone along just because you "owe" something by saying "Yes, I'll go steady uh-hurr-durr "
I say just play it cool and be your awesome self. I mean if some other fling comes up, by all means don't pass that shit up for this chick...but she also will see that your a grown man who's still living his life. That to me, is way hotter than some guy who drops everything to cling on to some glimmer of hope that he might get me in bed
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Re: Chicks with boyfriends [Re: Anthony917]
#14457597 - 05/15/11 05:19 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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what if she's happy? I want to be her friend, so...no use in causing unnecessary drama  if she's not happy though...it's on
Im just saying clearly you want to be with her. No sense in pretending you just want to be her friends, in the hopes one day she breaks up with him. youll be stuck in the friend zone (which is a very real thing) It doesnt matter if shes happy, she could be happier with you. its not like your kidnapping some guys girlfriend. She is making the decision. I've never have a problem with drama but im a no nonsense kind of guy i squash that shit as soon as it starts up.
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Well, I lived in Asia for a long time, and it amazes me westerners have no concept of 'male friend' or 'female friend' without sex. It's very common in asia, people are just...friends. But that also can lead to really knowing someone a long time as a friend, and developing a relation that might go deeper. But that shouldn't be the focus of having a friend.
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Anthony917
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well all I mean is if I approach her about it (which I likely will) and she says "yea I've got a boyfriend" then it is douchey of me to try anything... if I was the boyfriend, I would be pissed if someone was doing that type of shit with my girl so 
if she says she's unhappy or something then it's game on, like I said, but I don't wanna fuck with someone's life like that. besides if I am her friend & then her boyfriend cheats on her or something, I'm golden
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