Anonymous #3 said:

I know that's how you feel now, but you have to be strong, and stick it out. There's a reason it didn't work out, and a year isn't that long if you think about it.
Just remember, time heals all wounds

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Anonymous #3 said:

Well, of course if you keep talking to the person and being with them won't help.
For anyone who wants to get over someone, they need to distance themselves from that person, at least for a while. After a certain time apart, and after seeing other people, you'll be able to talk to her/him as only a friend.

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Anonymous #2 said:

Me and my wife's relationship has always been that way well least since our first child, we DON'T get along for more then a day or two. It's better in every way that were apart though we still both have feelings for each other and when i'm away for her for very long i miss her profusely. It took many years but we have finally reached a set up were we dont live together but still hang out all the time and talk daily. It allows us to have the interaction with each other we cherish (some of my happiest times are with her) with out allowing us to be together long enough to get out of hand.
It's not traditional but it works for us.

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Anonymous #2 said:

Anonymous #3 said:

Well, of course if you keep talking to the person and being with them won't help.
For anyone who wants to get over someone, they need to distance themselves from that person, at least for a while. After a certain time apart, and after seeing other people, you'll be able to talk to her/him as only a friend.

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Lol.
Those are two different dame's.
In fact you could say Miss Ocheltree is why me and my wife have the problems we do.
Me and her seldom talk once a month or so maybe more maybe less she's "The one that got away"
The love i have for my wife is a very different kind of love.
Beein away from...
Ocheltree = Physically painful.
Wife= Loneliness

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