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how do you know for sure if you were molested or not?

#9519918 - 12/30/08 06:53 PM (17 years, 7 months ago)

what do you do if you have a lot of strange memories and remember a lot of strange nightmares as a child but don't remember anything conclusive?

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Veritas

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Re: how do you know for sure if you were molested or not?

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#9520219 - 12/30/08 07:52 PM (17 years, 7 months ago)

Whether or not you were actually molested is only the issue if you want to press charges. Without someone to corroborate your memories, there is no real way to be certain whether your memories represent actual events.

However, the emotional experience is real to you, and can be worked through now. Find a trustworthy friend or counselor to be there for you while you work towards resolution of these issues. If you carry a sense of being betrayed in some way during childhood, and this is negatively impacting your present-day life, then it truly does not matter what happened or did not.

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Re: how do you know for sure if you were molested or not?

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#9522264 - 12/31/08 05:31 AM (17 years, 7 months ago)

I think we all have strange fantasies as children.

Just look back on the Children's stories, full of sexual undertones,

Snow white and the seven dwarfs.

Little red riding hood.

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Re: how do you know for sure if you were molested or not?

[Re: rod]
#9522305 - 12/31/08 06:00 AM (17 years, 7 months ago)

rod said:

I think we all have strange fantasies as children.

What does this statement have to do with the OP?

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Just look back on the Children's stories, full of sexual undertones,

Snow white and the seven dwarfs.

Little red riding hood.

Sexual undertones? You mean just like everything else?

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All this time I've loved you
And never known your face
All this time I've missed you
And searched this human race
Here is true peace
Here my heart knows calm
Safe in your soul
Bathed in your sighs
:bunnyhug:

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Re: how do you know for sure if you were molested or not?

[Re: rod]
#9522569 - 12/31/08 08:05 AM (17 years, 7 months ago)

rod said:

I think we all have strange fantasies as children.

Just look back on the Children's stories, full of sexual undertones,

Snow white and the seven dwarfs.

Little red riding hood.

How are children's stories (written by adults) example of strange fantasies a child has?

Makes no sense.

Edit: Unnecessary sarcasm removed.

Edited by JacquesCousteau (01/01/09 07:26 AM)

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Re: how do you know for sure if you were molested or not?

[Re: JacquesCousteau]
#9522677 - 12/31/08 08:53 AM (17 years, 7 months ago)

Just my thoughts.

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