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fuck i'm sick of ending up alone in bed
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i don't know what i'm doing wrong. i'm a reasonably good-looking guy. i've actually started talking to women, which is a lot more than i could say this time last year. i strike up conversations all the time at parties and in bars. i get into involved discussions. i compliment what they're wearing. i think we're hitting it off. and then they peace out. and i'm stuck being like "eh??".

i mean.. i'm not being entirely shallow here. it's not like i just want sex. i want the company (and sex). but i just can't seem to get it. i feel like i'm talking to women and they show some interest. but maybe i'm way off? maybe they're just being nice? i'm not sure, but it's becoming frustrating. celibacy blows.


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Re: fuck i'm sick of ending up alone in bed [Re: tiny_rabid_birds]
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dude, that's life. don't get down about it. something good is coming your way.

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Re: fuck i'm sick of ending up alone in bed [Re: tiny_rabid_birds]
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Help is on the way.








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Re: fuck i'm sick of ending up alone in bed [Re: Learyfan]
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i'm not worried, but i'm sexually frustrated. and aggravated. it's been far too long. so very long. monday, i'm back in the gym.


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Re: fuck i'm sick of ending up alone in bed [Re: tiny_rabid_birds]
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I feel you
I'm somewhat bad with the ladies
for me It kind of has to be an acquittance (like a friend through a friend) to be comfortable talking around them. I find it quite hard for myself to walk up to some random chick and trying to get things going.

I used to act like I cared too much and it seemed girls got turned off by it. the dont give a fuck attitude really doesn't work with me because thats not my real intention. have to find a middle ground.


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Re: fuck i'm sick of ending up alone in bed [Re: mikeytro]
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i hear you, and that's kinda what i've been adopting. i talk to them, but i also wait for them to talk to me. i pay attention to the conversation, but i also pay attention to what's going on around me. it's not like i'm acting desperate, i'm just being sociable. but i mean... last night i was talking to a cute/cool girl one on one i thought i was doing well, i thought she was interested. about 20 minutes later she was gone and even my friend was surprised. tonight, i was talking to another girl, thought things were going well etc, and again, after we go out and smoke with some friends she's out. and i'm like wtf mate? bagh.


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Re: fuck i'm sick of ending up alone in bed [Re: tiny_rabid_birds]
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yeah man its hard sometimes. sometimes i can tell the girl is blatantly flirting with me and its easy and other times im just lost as to where its heading and sometimes things seem to hit off right and then things end up dissipating and i dont know what happened or i dunno know exactly what to make of the situation. i think thats cus my radar is a bit off though when it comes to subtle signals... like unless theyre blatantly hitting on me then i cant really assess the situation well and know what to make of it, and then i fuck things up, haha.


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Re: fuck i'm sick of ending up alone in bed [Re: tiny_rabid_birds]
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doesn't sound like your doing anything in particular wrong to turn em off. you'll get lucky soon enough.

as for myself I haven't gotten laid for around 3 months, which is way too fucking long. plus it was my ex so that doesn't even really count


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Edited by mikeytro (09/15/07 11:36 PM)

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Re: fuck i'm sick of ending up alone in bed [Re: tiny_rabid_birds]
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tiny_rabid_birds said:
i don't know what i'm doing wrong.  i'm a reasonably good-looking guy.  i've actually started talking to women, which is a lot more than i could say this time last year.  i strike up conversations all the time at parties and in bars.  i get into involved discussions.  i compliment what they're wearing.  i think we're hitting it off.  and then they peace out.  and i'm stuck being like "eh??".

i mean.. i'm not being entirely shallow here.  it's not like i just want sex.  i want the company (and sex).  but i just can't seem to get it.  i feel like i'm talking to women and they show some interest.  but maybe i'm way off?  maybe they're just being nice?  i'm not sure, but it's becoming frustrating.  celibacy blows.


do you have your avatar in a bigger resolution? :smile:

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Re: fuck i'm sick of ending up alone in bed [Re: tiny_rabid_birds]
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it's the same way with me bro, somehow i always manage to drop the ball whether its with a girl i've been talking to or just someone who smiles and makes eye contact with me on the street.

doesnt help that i'm terrible introverted most of the time and unable to think on my feet without coming off as desperate.


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Re: fuck i'm sick of ending up alone in bed [Re: tiny_rabid_birds]
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You're probably not doing anything wrong.  Girls are weird.  You're a cutie though, I'm sure things will look up for you soon.
:cheers:


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Re: fuck i'm sick of ending up alone in bed [Re: tiny_rabid_birds]
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tiny_rabid_birds said:
i thought she was interested. about 20 minutes later she was gone


I think you're waiting too long. You're gonna have to step things up sooner so she knows you're interested. Women only have so much patience, especially when the next guy is likely to seal the deal in a matter of minutes.

And by "seal the deal" I dont mean have sex with her, I mean he's gonna be assertive and gain her attention and attraction very early on. I would recommend joking with the girl, smile your face off, touch her hands and arms, use suggestive body language. Your body langauge should radiate "I want you", but your conversation should not be so obvious.

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Re: fuck i'm sick of ending up alone in bed [Re: BoneMan]
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I would recommend joking with the girl, smile your face off, touch her hands and arms


check, check and check. i did all of those and then some. i joked around, i never stopped smiling from 2:30pm to 12:00am (i started working at 2:30, then hung out at the bar/restaurant i work to drink after my shift), and i wasn't overly touch, but i didn't avoid contact either.


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Re: fuck i'm sick of ending up alone in bed [Re: tiny_rabid_birds]
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Hmm. I dunno man. Usually I don't approach a girl unless shes already been eyeing me. I suck at approaching girls who I'm not sure are interested.

I think having a bit of a mysterious vibe helps out too. Its totally unintentional but I'm very hard to read. Girls, or anyone, can hardly ever tell what I'm thinking or feeling. Its tough to explain but I guess my facial expressions and reactions may be inappropriate or just unreadable in some situations. The end result is that people don't know what the hell is going on with me, and I guess for girls thats exciting maybe?

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Re: fuck i'm sick of ending up alone in bed [Re: mikeytro]
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man if you want sex i'm sure you could get a hooker

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Re: fuck i'm sick of ending up alone in bed [Re: tiny_rabid_birds]
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tiny_rabid_birds said:
i don't know what i'm doing wrong. i'm a reasonably good-looking guy. i've actually started talking to women, which is a lot more than i could say this time last year. i strike up conversations all the time at parties and in bars. i get into involved discussions. i compliment what they're wearing. i think we're hitting it off. and then they peace out. and i'm stuck being like "eh??".

i mean.. i'm not being entirely shallow here. it's not like i just want sex. i want the company (and sex). but i just can't seem to get it. i feel like i'm talking to women and they show some interest. but maybe i'm way off? maybe they're just being nice? i'm not sure, but it's becoming frustrating. celibacy blows.


hey man u sound too desperate, girls smell desperation from a mile away.

try giving them a hard time, just have fun with em. dont be too nice.

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Re: fuck i'm sick of ending up alone in bed [Re: tiny_rabid_birds]
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You sound desperate man.

Theres a trick to pulling like most things in life. You have to flirt in a playful / offensive manner.. and be fucking obvious about your intentions. Last night I was talking to some girls and complimented her breasts and insinuated that I wouldn't mind further observation and she got em out :grin:

When you do find your target you have to play it cool. This is imperative. You gotta be somewhat of a playful cunt.

Don't just talk to women you want to fuck either. A lot of the time if you just start talking to someone random, one of their hot friends will normally join the conversation when they see you with their friend. This is a good indicator of things :grin:

Oh and another thing.. don't set your standards too low/high. Be realistic and ask female friends about your aesthetics.


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Re: fuck i'm sick of ending up alone in bed [Re: tiny_rabid_birds]
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on the day that I was born, daddy sat down and cried...

boo-fucking-hoo I had to learn to tie my shoes too

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Re: fuck i'm sick of ending up alone in bed [Re: tiny_rabid_birds]
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Ooze confidence even if you really don't have any. Thats what I do and it seems to work sometimes.


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Re: fuck i'm sick of ending up alone in bed [Re: tiny_rabid_birds]
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tiny_rabid_birds said:
i don't know what i'm doing wrong.  i'm a reasonably good-looking guy.  i've actually started talking to women, which is a lot more than i could say this time last year.  i strike up conversations all the time at parties and in bars.  i get into involved discussions.  i compliment what they're wearing.  i think we're hitting it off.  and then they peace out.  and i'm stuck being like "eh??".

i mean.. i'm not being entirely shallow here.  it's not like i just want sex.  i want the company (and sex).  but i just can't seem to get it.  i feel like i'm talking to women and they show some interest.  but maybe i'm way off?  maybe they're just being nice?  i'm not sure, but it's becoming frustrating.  celibacy blows.


i'll do ya....:boxerface:

but seriously, most women dont know what they want. speaking as one, i had many friends who would go to clubs/bars, get dressed up all sluttynice, and never have the intention pf coming home with a number.

They do it for the attention, the free drinks, to see if they still have the power of attraction. a lot of younger girls are kinda crazy. i listen to ppl talk, and they make no sense to me.
i seen ya TRB - if I wasnt almost married, and you were not 1/2 an idiot - id give you my numba.

I dont think you are doing anything wrong, i think you just have to plug away until you finally hit...I looked for a man for 3 years straight. i went to bars. i looked on the internet. i asked friends if they had contacts. just when i felt i was never going to get anyone. it finally paid off -  i was weeks away from quitting and resigning myself to a life of loneliness. and then this nerdy guy answered my friendster ad. the rest is history....:heart:

keep trying. be positive, dont let it turn you sour, thats a sure way to stay alone.

now, take off yor shirt!

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