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How to approach girlfriend about shrooms?
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Cheers all, this is my first visit to the site/forum and from the looks of it, it definitely won't be my last.

Anyway, onto the topic. I've been seeing this girl for a couple of months now, and she recently left for Europe and will be gone for the next month and a half. When she comes back, we're planning on going camping for a week.

Now, I love shrooms. They (as well as other drugs) have literally opened my eyes as to how personal perspective really is. I now know what it's like to be a blade of grass, a tree, or a random person walking beside me on the street. A friend of mine put it best, "whenever you trip on shrooms, you either lose something or you gain something." I'll never forget this advice, and if I could go back I'd do all the drugs I did all over again.

The problem I have is that my girlfriend absolutely hates drugs. LOATHES them. This is partly because we're both Serbian, and Serbian parents can be very strict (and ignorant) when it comes to a touchy topic like drugs. Because of her parents, she believes that trying anything "bad" will result in death, mental instability, etc.

How do I convince her that shrooms are really not as bad as she seems to think? I'm hoping to get her to try them during our camping trip, but would this be a bad idea? I don't want her having a bad trip due to us being in an unknown environment.

Thanks for reading :smile:

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Re: How to approach girlfriend about shrooms? [Re: Srdjan]
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lol cook them in some food give to her and she'll either like it or freak out


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Iam Insane and You are My Insanity.

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Re: How to approach girlfriend about shrooms? [Re: KillrX]
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KillrX said:
lol cook them in some food give to her and she'll either like it or freak out


lol if I was about to put an illegal substance into her, I'd be happier if she knew. Besides, if someone ingested shrooms and didn't know, wouldn't they think they were dying or something?

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Re: How to approach girlfriend about shrooms? [Re: KillrX]
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KillrX said:
lol cook them in some food give to her and she'll either like it or freak out


DO NOT do that! That is a horrible thing to push onto someone. If you don't have the right set/setting then things could get ugly. She probably would have no idea what is happening to her and freak out completely. This is the most idiotic thing i have ever heard, i am sure you are probably just joking but i had to note that it would be extremely stupid to take advice like that, so at least put j/k after your post or something to that nature as this is a horrible idea, this guy is coming to the board looking for advice and you give him advice like that? c'mon!

Ok to answer your question, i too have had to deal with a situation like this with my girlfriend. I explained that they were safe and that all the propaganda out there is just lies and that you will not go insane, and all that. Then i let her read on this board, also on Erowid about the effects and how they work. She then became interested HERSELF and wanted to willing take them. DO NOT try to force her into trying them by saying "ooh c'mon, you'll like it just eat it" because she would have no idea what to expect. Let her read about them or go over everything before and let her make the decision on if she wants to try them.


-Silent Echo


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Life is only a dream and we are the imagination of ourselves.
-Bill Hicks (R.I.P)

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Re: How to approach girlfriend about shrooms? [Re: KillrX]
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Hey man, glad to see ya here on the forums.

I got a girl who is the same way, I just hint about them every now and then and tell her all the great things drugs can do. For instance- shrooms can cure cluster headaches, lower crime, etc.

Yeah sorry I'm not much help right now- kinda out of it.

If you like shrooms, check out the hunting forum, you'll love it- so addicting.


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Re: How to approach girlfriend about shrooms? [Re: Jair]
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shrooms aren't drugs any more than white people are crackers

brainwashing works by keeping people on the bottom end of the linguistic pyramid while the eye at the top authors the words that they peddle around thinking errantly that they have free will and intelligence while doing so

this control of the information flow works on repetetive free-association mainly from the television in which certain situations are always paired, but in constant varieties to make it seem innocuous and innocent, with certain outcomes

rarely will the pot be good, for instance, although we will incessantly see people happily holding beers in their hands. sometimes there will be a pro-pot message on tv, or a joke about tripping

but for the most part all of reality operates upon free-association between words exactly like an inkblot, and only those who take psychedelics or meditate or somehow think critically come to be able to rearrange the pieces better to their liking.

they realize that tree is not tree. there is no such thing. since they realize this, they realize that they are tree, not intellectually but actually experience it. and this radical perspective shift allows us to become the eye at the top.

this vantage is necessary for programming others, so in order to address your girlfriend you will need to either systematically hit her with pro-undrug propoganda, such as telling her about medical studies and things like that, or you will need to subvert the term drug entirely in her mind.

it is all intuitive and cannot really be explained. i have reprimanded my parents for making blanket statements about drugs by saying "but actually mescaline cures drug addiction, so you have to be careful what you mean when you say drugs" now they don't know anything about mescaline but little things like that shift their minds to being more open.


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I am the MacDaddy of Heimlich County, I play it Straight Up Yo!

....I embrace my desire to feel the rhythm, to feel connected enough to step aside and weep like a widow, to feel inspired, to fathom the power, to witness the beauty, to bathe in the fountain, to swing on the spiral of our divinity and still be a human......
Om Namah Shivaya, I tell you What!

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Re: How to approach girlfriend about shrooms? [Re: leery11]
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another approach is to describe to her a mushroom trip without saying that you were on mushrooms, by making it sound like you had just randomly happened upon a spiritual experience, then after speaking so much of the benefits you can eventually disclose that it was facilitated by the mushroom.

but regardless of what any user says YOUR solution is the best one, and it will be intuitive, gentle, graceful, and non-manipulative.


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I am the MacDaddy of Heimlich County, I play it Straight Up Yo!

....I embrace my desire to feel the rhythm, to feel connected enough to step aside and weep like a widow, to feel inspired, to fathom the power, to witness the beauty, to bathe in the fountain, to swing on the spiral of our divinity and still be a human......
Om Namah Shivaya, I tell you What!

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Re: How to approach girlfriend about shrooms? [Re: leery11]
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lol sorry i angered you of course i was kiding it was sarcasm people against drugs stay against drugs....If you mention Shrooms or ne controled substance you may jeprodise you realtionship depending on your gf


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Iam Insane and You are My Insanity.

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Re: How to approach girlfriend about shrooms? [Re: Jair]
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Jair said:
Hey man, glad to see ya here on the forums.

I got a girl who is the same way, I just hint about them every now and then and tell her all the great things drugs can do. For instance- shrooms can cure cluster headaches, lower crime, etc.

Yeah sorry I'm not much help right now- kinda out of it.

If you like shrooms, check out the hunting forum, you'll love it- so addicting.


shrooms give me hella headaches


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Iam Insane and You are My Insanity.

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Re: How to approach girlfriend about shrooms? [Re: leery11]
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Thanks guys :cool: It's nice being part of a forum where actual thought and creativity take place, not just the ignorant kiddie forums that are so rampant these days.

Regardless, my girlfriend will be gone for a while and reading these threads reminds me of all my past tripping experiences... It's been a long time without shrooms, I can feel them calling me :smile:

I'll let you guys know how it goes when she comes back.

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Re: How to approach girlfriend about shrooms? [Re: KillrX]
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KillrX said:
lol sorry i angered you of course i was kiding it was sarcasm people against drugs stay against drugs....If you mention Shrooms or ne controled substance you may jeprodise you realtionship depending on your gf


I don't believe this... I think any smart, intelligent person that has been brainwashed has the ability to see the truth.

My girlfriend is intelligent, and she trusts and loves me a lot. It's because of these reasons I wish to share the magic experience with her, and take our relationship to a whole new level.

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Re: How to approach girlfriend about shrooms? [Re: Srdjan]
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this might be relevant too

when i was in highschool i was somehow at a druggy table in my art class. i was not into drugs at the time, and this stoner was always stoned and making a stoner of himself..... anyway at the time i was interesting in acid and mushrooms a bit, but he made marijuana look like an absolute worthless drug that makes you mentally retarded and braindead

sure he looked like he was having a good time, and i later enjoyed cannabis (several years later) and understood then why he felt the ways he did, but you know, to just some random person if you are out of your head on a psychedelic you may look like a complete idiot to them, they might understand you are amazed, but attribute it to some massive loss of intelligence or something of the sort, so just food for thought.

he offered to smoke me up a lot but i wasn't interested. i liked him and thought him to be very funny though, but he actually tarnished my ideas about pot.


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I am the MacDaddy of Heimlich County, I play it Straight Up Yo!

....I embrace my desire to feel the rhythm, to feel connected enough to step aside and weep like a widow, to feel inspired, to fathom the power, to witness the beauty, to bathe in the fountain, to swing on the spiral of our divinity and still be a human......
Om Namah Shivaya, I tell you What!

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Re: How to approach girlfriend about shrooms? [Re: Srdjan]
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Srdjan said:
Thanks guys :cool: It's nice being part of a forum where actual thought and creativity take place, not just the ignorant kiddie forums that are so rampant these days.



Clearly you haven't been by OTD :grin:

Anyhoo, yeah, just talk to her about it. Shrooms should probably not be her first experiance with drugs. Get her stoned a few times, keep talking about psychadelics. Just build to it. Don't, absolutely do not pressure her into doing drugs. Good luck


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