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help.. more bullshit..
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my dad's going to actually remove my door from my bedroom tomorrow. he said if i try to stop him he will call the police. what am i supposed to do? this is insane.. its fucking ridiculous.. im 21 living with these psychos.. i cant leave because i have a fucked up pain problem which is why ive had to endure all this bullshit from these assholes that are my parents. and now hes taking the door off my room... what the fuck.. i cant take this shit.. is there any law against this or something that i can possibly do to prevent him doing this.. i dunno what to do at this point.. its hard enough dealing with all the pain i have to on a daily basis and trying to manage that but then in addition to that i have an entire other thing which is all the crap from my parents. ive posted a bit about my life in other posts, in a lot of detail actually.. right now im just focusing on this problem with the door.


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Re: help.. more bullshit.. [Re: Locus]
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move out.
we all have pain. moving out would give you less pain.
and more freedom.
if your parents insist on taking your door off.
be naked all the time. just sit around with your ballsack airing out and try to ensure your taint and hole is visable.
they can't make you wear clothes in your own room.

but seriously tho, untill you get your own place, you have no right to complain. whatever your excuses. many people have pain. they dont still live at home at 21. at least not with an imminant plan to leave soon. which I'm assiming you do not have.


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Re: help.. more bullshit.. [Re: Locus]
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keep porn running constantly and make sounds like your jerking off


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Re: help.. more bullshit.. [Re: barfightlard]
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why is he taking the door off, did he catch you with drugs / are you using drugs to medicate the pain?

if its weed can you get a prescription? If it's nothing to do with drugs then I don't know what to say.

You said he'd call the police, so I'm assuming its drug related. If it's not drug related I'm pretty sure he can't do that to you, and if you were naked all the time you could get him in legal trouble for like, wanting to see you naked and stuff , sexual harrasment and whatnot.

Become a born-again nudist and say that your dad has the door off to spy on you in sick ways....

but that would be a last resort, honesty is the best policy, that would be kind of shady.... but taking your sons door off {especially when he's 21) is real shady too.

frankly i think we kind of need more info.


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Edited by leery11 (02/08/06 07:02 PM)

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Re: help.. more bullshit.. [Re: Locus]
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what happened to killing yourself? (seriously)

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Re: help.. more bullshit.. [Re: faslimy]
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faslimy said:
what happened to killing yourself? (seriously)


wtf man....go away


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Re: help.. more bullshit.. [Re: leery11]
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leery11 said:
why is he taking the door off, did he catch you with drugs / are you using drugs to medicate the pain?

if its weed can you get a prescription? If it's nothing to do with drugs then I don't know what to say.

You said he'd call the police, so I'm assuming its drug related. If it's not drug related I'm pretty sure he can't do that to you, and if you were naked all the time you could get him in legal trouble for like, wanting to see you naked and stuff , sexual harrasment and whatnot.

Become a born-again nudist and say that your dad has the door off to spy on you in sick ways....

but that would be a last resort, honesty is the best policy, that would be kind of shady.... but taking your sons door off {especially when he's 21) is real shady too.

frankly i think we kind of need more info.


yea im wonderin about the same questions. although he cant really call the cops since its the parents house and they can remove any door they want...

why dont you move out though? whats this pain you have? why wouldnt you be able to put up with the pain in your own house?


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Re: help.. more bullshit.. [Re: eligal]
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You can put up some of those beads that you have to walk through in your doorway. Atleast you'll have some visual freedom.


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Re: help.. more bullshit.. [Re: Locus]
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find some way to attach a really heavy item to the door so he can't easily carry it away.


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Re: help.. more bullshit.. [Re: Locus]
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What is it about your pain that makes you Dependant on your parents? If you could pick up a part time job that would be suitable to work at with your pain, you could apply to a community college and most have very limited dorm facilities for students who especially need them. With a job and student loans, you could go to school and be away from your parents for good. while you're studying hopefully they could diagnose your pain and then you'd be alright.

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Re: help.. more bullshit.. [Re: Locus]
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Are there any other relatives you could live with? Like a Brother or Uncle or something?

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Re: help.. more bullshit.. [Re: Locus]
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Why is he taking the door off your room?

Do you leave the house often?

It is his house and he can do whatever he wants to do with the doors. You either are going to have to get used to it or move. Maybe he is trying to tell you something, trying to give you a hint maybe.

And when you talk about your pain; just exactly what kind of pain are we talking about here?

Do you guys talk to each other anymore?

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Re: help.. more bullshit.. [Re: gregorio]
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Don't do anything rash. Just explain to your parents how you feel. Tell them you don't deserve to have your freedom taken away. If you did something bad, then tell them to punish you for it, not lose all trust in you. Tell them that you respect them so they should show the same respect to you.

It seems like you're taking this really hard and getting irrational. That won't help.


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Re: help.. more bullshit.. [Re: The_Hobbit]
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Do you have a full-time job? If not get one.
then get your own place.
its simple.
The "bullshit" here is the idea that you are in ANY way entitled to complain.
Time to be all grown-up.
Like really, what do you do all day?
Do you pay rent to your parents? If so then they shouldn't be taking your door off.
If you don't pay rent, well, sometimes you just gotta put salt on a leach. make sense?

if you are 21, still living at home, unemployed, unmotivated, introverted, and have ZERO plans for your adult life. odds are you in fact have a real mental illness. the thoughts of suicide really support this. and your "pain" could easily be anxiety. which, can feel JUST like real pain.
a sane person could NEVER be able to tell the difference between physical pain and stress-related pain. it feels exactly the same. so don't go saying you KNOW theres nothing wrong with you mentally. the only way to tell is mental pain doesn't heal and doesnt have a medically identifiable scource, and usually sets in around adolecence.

If you have some sort of potential, start using it.
if not, then move out and be a bum on the street or get into some sort of program, stop burdening your parents with your defeatist lifestyle.

living comfortably in the illusion that you made anything out of yourself. you have to face up to life. even if it hurts, you must hurt. if pain is all you have, then revel in it or something. why do you need constant privacy if your not agoraphobic? you don't need privacy to lie in bed all day, if your excuse to live at home is "pain" and not "reclusiveness" then giving up your door should be NOTHING to you, but in contrast you're over-the top freaking out.
you know, funny thing about mental illness, people who are ill, think they are the only sane people around, and that they are surrounded by insane people.
sorta like what youre saying.

heres one, do you regularly help out around the house? withought being nagged for days? is you area kept tidy? or is it full of dirty clothes and stink?
do you just live in filth and squalor and close the door?
what are you not telling us with your complaint about your big bad facist parents?
why would your father remove a functioning part of his own house which he worked for and paid for? just to sadistically make you miserable?

my mother used to yell and scream at me all the time, she happens to be an unreasonable and angry person, usually i would just go to my room to avoid her pointless fits.
eventually she kicked the door off the hinges in a rage right on top of me. that was violent and wrong. but it's her right to not want me around.
i moved out. and nowadays i don't really speak to her.
usually she just tries to stir up conflict and upsurp my marriage. now THATS crazy.

maybe thats what you need, to be your own person and not just a stagnant fixture in your parents house.

they are obviously sick of you. why would you stay where you aren't wanted? some sick need for mistreatment? or just that lazy? perhaps you just have to be the victim in your mind. i dunno. I DO know that your pain will only get worse as you milk it for all the justification it gives you.

pretty sad tho, a man who cant take care of himself and hates on the people who take care of him.

have some dignity. thats EXACTLY what you are lacking here.

Even people in pain need dignity. Most people would rather die with dignity than withought pain.

you need work. not excuses.
A man doesn't just pop out of a boy. it takes character.

and before you tell me i can NEVER know the pain you suffer, first, tell me how you have dignity and character.

pain shouln't stop you from having that. even agony coupled with the real and present prospect of being near death can't touch a REAL mans self-respect.

Im not saying it's easy for you.
I'm just saying do it anyway.

and yes, I know it hurts. I know youre thinking I just don't get it. but its SPECIFICALLY that thinking that is your failure. not the pain, not your parents.

nothing is simpler than pain.

If you can be a man in spite of your pain and struggle, then you are a man I really want to be around.

Funny how people don't respect your pain like you think they should isn't it?


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Edited by Mitchnast (02/09/06 11:54 AM)

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Re: help.. more bullshit.. [Re: Locus]
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I hope you've worked things out with your parents.

If this issue is still going on, then move out. If you can't live without someone taking care of you...maybe you can get disability or something. Regardless, you need to get away. There are others who can help you.

I hope you're okay.


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Re: help.. more bullshit.. [Re: CaRnAgECaNdY]
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Yep.
Your 21 now and your own person. Your parents have no right to pry on you like that, but you do live in their house and it's up to them what they do.
That leaves you with no option but to put up with it, or leave (leaving being something your going to have to do eventually anyway :wink:).

If you want to move out try talking to them about it, it might make them realize how they are acting.
If they don't change you might at least be able to keep the peace until you can sort something out.

Always try and fix things before you go though, it might not need to come to leaving yet, but if it does try and keep a relationship with them.
You might hate them now but things usually get better once you've moved out, when your spending less time with them.

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