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This girl...
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Call me autistic for never dating before. I'm a newbie at the social shit, hey... I never did all that bullshit in high school.

So I actually grew the balls to ask this girl out on a date. I could tell she was waiting for me to ask.

Today we got lunch and went back to her place for a little bit, talked a bit, it went well. So far, so good. Not bad for never talking to her ever before, at least for me the n00b.

We're supposed to do something tomorrow in the afternoon, but I'm racking my brains as to what. WHAT?!?! I mean, there's nothing in this town, and both of us are sorta... short for cash.

My options so far are: A walk in the park (if it's not raining or cold as shit), shooting pool and chillin at my house (she hasn't been over). I feel like I want to keep shit open-ended... don't want to jump right into things too quick, and having her over would mean possibly chilling for over two hours which leads me to the thought that just playing pool and music and chainsmoking cigarettes would get dull quickly...

Please give me suggestions. Or ridicule. Or anything. Thanks  :bananahorsey:

Edited by poke smot! (09/07/20 02:12 PM)

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Re: This girl... [Re: poke smot!]
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I would be hesitant to take a girl to your place on the first date. You gotta play cool - that move makes it seem like you want to fuck her. Go play some pool, get some coffee, eat, go for a walk, talk & make her laugh, and when you've reached a high note, say you gotta get back home and call it a night.

leave her wanting more.

dont bring her home yet
dont take her to a movie (terrible first date - you want to get to know each other better not stare at a screen).

what is she into? maybe find something that she loves and do it.

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Re: This girl... [Re: poke smot!]
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:doggystyle:


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Jadian said:
:doggystyle:


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Re: This girl... [Re: poke smot!]
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movies, pool, talking is good to get to know each other, smoke a bowl with her, cook her dinner, watch the tele, take a walk, the options are endless


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Re: This girl... [Re: poke smot!]
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go get drunk. she sounds like she likes to party. need money for drinks? maybe borrow some or pawn something for cash.

forget the dancing - you dont want to look like a fool. just go to a bar and get hammered. but reist.the.drunken.urge.to.take.her.back.home (unless you only want sex and see no future with her...then go right ahead).

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Re: This girl... [Re: poke smot!]
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In that case..

:pimpslap:


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Re: This girl... [Re: poke smot!]
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alcohol & good conversation.
make her laugh - that's all you have to do.
seriously.

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Re: This girl... [Re: Animals]
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I agree with Bio.

I would go with the walk man. Honestly the best dates i've been on in mny life cost me almost nothing. And the worst dates i've been on have cost me plenty.

and its good that y'all are both low on cash. Because that way a low budget date makes sense to her too. I just went out with this girl who was psyched at seeing a three month old movie at the dollar theatre and it was a great date.

And if she's low on cash, she's probably not the type who will be impressed with the fanciest french restarant in town (that'll come later and you'll have time to save the money).

Personality, not locality is what makes a date great.


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Re: This girl... [Re: poke smot!]
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If there was more time I would Western Union you some money so you could show her a good time.

If I were to do that, you had better be thinking of me when you are getting laid.

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Re: This girl... [Re: Nephlyte]
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oh wait, and don't forget. if you do drink, keep it sloooooooooww! You know how much you can drink and be ok. whatever that level is, half that.

Where are the girls on this thread, they should be helping out.


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"To do right is to know what you want. Now when you are dissatisfied with yourself it's because you are after something you don't really want. What objects are you proposing to yourself? Are they the objects you really value? If they are not, you are cheating yourself. I don't meant that if you chose to pursue the objects you most value, you will attain them; of course not. Your experience will tell you that. But success in getting after much labor what you really don't care for is the bitterest and most ridiculous failure." -George Santayana

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Re: This girl... [Re: Nephlyte]
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Take a bottle of wine and a little food to a park.

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Re: This girl... [Re: poke smot!]
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poke smot! said:
Ok... We've established no movies, she smokes but I don't usually and if I took it up I'de be durrr. I could cook dinner, but that would again be at my place. We both don't watch TV much.

Take a walk... Options aren't endless from my... nervous... confused... point of view?


I've taken plenty of girls home on first dates and not fucked them. Cook a nic edinner smoke about 30 minutes before it gets done then eat up. If you get like la derrrr then she will understand because she is a smoke aswell.


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Re: This girl... [Re: poke smot!]
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If the weather is fair, take her to the playground, and go on the swings. Bring a big fluffy blanket and a basket [or mini cooler] with some wine and banana nut bread that you baked yourself [scores big points], and have a little picnic.

Don't be too surprised if she tells you that was the best date of her life.



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Re: This girl... [Re: Gr8fulJ420]
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Honestly, cheap dates for the first couple is better than expensive! You start out too expensive and the girl will be expecting a whole lot more later on if the dating turns into a relationship.

I reccomend the walk, maybe stopping in a coffee shop and having a cup of coffee and talking for a while. I have been dating the same girl for a year and a half now, and even though we have our expensive dates... the bedrock of the relationship has been formed through many late nights just talking to each other over coffee.

Guys need activities to facilitate coversation a lot more than females do typically. When guys talk to each other, usually we have some sort of intermediary thats keeping our hands busy so the conversation can come more naturally. (e.g. playing pool/basketball, smoking, drinking, playing video games)
Girls are typically more comfortable just sitting around and talking than male counterparts. *These are just stereotypes not rules mind you* So, something like coffee is a great meeting point, it keeps your hands busy and if you need a second to think something out you can take a sip of coffee.

And that should be good enough! Coffee screams that your interested in getting to know her, not just shag her...although that maybe an option later. If you want to make a woman comfortable, respond to her body language in the conversation. If a guy is listening to another guy and is interested, typically he'll lean back; if a female is interested in a coversation she'll lean forward.

Reciprocate her body language during the coversation and she'll be eating out of your hand! (Also on a side note, if you talk with your hands make sure to hold your hands palm side up and open).

Sounds like you have the right idea... go for it!

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Re: This girl... [Re: SkorpivoMusterion]
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SkorpivoMusterion said:
If the weather is fair, take her to the playground, and go on the swings. Bring a big fluffy blanket and a basket [or mini cooler] with some wine and banana nut bread that you baked yourself [scores big points], and have a little picnic.

Don't be too surprised if she tells you that was the best date of her life.




Yes this is a good idea too. Actually probably better than mine.


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Re: This girl... [Re: poke smot!]
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If you're good at pool, DEFINITELY go play pool. Great way to stay relaxed, show of your skills and you also get to see if she can get her body into some nice positions. All the while, order a pitcher. Cheap fun date. Can't be more than 20 bucks...

Thank god i'm pretty decent at pool.


McKennaDMT


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