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Anyone like to talk with strangers?
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I want to learn how to talk with strangers... if it's even possible to 'learn' such a thing.  :crazy:

One of the things I've always wanted is to be able to sit down with ANYone and have a conversation with them...
probably because it's the ability I find most elusive. :shake:

Typically I'm more reserved around people I don't know, and it's frustrating, because I want to COMMUNICATE with them, and not just on the internet!

Anyone here 'good' at talking with strangers?  :crazy2:


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Re: Anyone like to talk with strangers? [Re: Adamist]
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You mean like start a conversation with some random fool?

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Re: Anyone like to talk with strangers? [Re: Adamist]
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i always talk to strangers, they got the best candy:grin:


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Re: Anyone like to talk with strangers? [Re: Adamist]
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I've al ways felt a bit shy around strangers, but when the time comes to actaully have a conversation with them, for some reason I never have any trouble. Not that that really has much chance of helping you but just my two cents


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Re: Anyone like to talk with strangers? [Re: Adamist]
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the way to start a conversation with them, is to jump into there conversation they r having with someone else. gotta know wut to say and when to say it.


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Re: Anyone like to talk with strangers? [Re: Adamist]
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I've become a hell of a bullshitter, I can strike up conversations about anything. It's a trait I had to perfect at work, because the longer I bullshit with a customer, the less real work I have to do

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Re: Anyone like to talk with strangers? [Re: Boom]
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lol i to am a bullshitter, not really proud of it, but it does get u through life alot easier.


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Re: Anyone like to talk with strangers? [Re: Boom]
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Sometimes my bullshitting ability will actually work against me, if I strike up too long a conversation, and begin looking for an out. That's the worst, when you bullshit with someone that you don't really want to talk to for that long, and then they don't shut up.

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Re: Anyone like to talk with strangers? [Re: Boom]
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here is a quote in my own words, who said this first, im not sure, but its something ive tried to follow since i heard it....

"Its easier to make a friend, by being interested in them, rather making them interested about you"

So just be interested in whatever the stranger has to offer, weather it be a convo about cars, or the weather, or whatever....... be honest, ive found that if you find out someone likes to..... (thinks) rock climb, and i say, ive never rock climbed before, the rock climber has 2 hours of convorsation to offer, and is more then happy to discuss rock climbing... *thats just an example, see what im saying tho*

Keep an open mind, and they will come :0

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Re: Anyone like to talk with strangers? [Re: l33tmouse]
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Find a subject that you think will directly relate to the person, then basically feed random nods and questions that seem as if you're interested, then do a token laugh or smile/nod.

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Re: Anyone like to talk with strangers? [Re: Boom]
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and isn't this a mantra too???

"There are no such things as strangers, just friends i havn't met yet?"

or am i just a brilliant specimen and should continue my path along enlightenment..... starting with a spelling course :P

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Re: Anyone like to talk with strangers? [Re: Boom]
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Booom thats not communication though, thats just making someone feel as if youre interested... admaist is interested in actually communcating ideas, feelings, experiences with someone.

he first has to get over the basic fear that they will not want to listen to him...

because when it comes down to it, if they dont its nothing to take personal...  ive met some of the most amazing people by just carrying around a lighter (i dont smoke) but if i see someone pulling out siggarettes, i just que up my lighter, the next thing i know, there thainking me, or asking me why i do that, and i simnply say, to meet more people, or to have conversation.

the art of conversation starts simple, especially with strangers!

you can do eet adamist, you wont regret asking someone there name, what is the harm?

:heart:


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Re: Anyone like to talk with strangers? [Re: Todcasil]
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Yeah that's what I figured... Same principle though, once ya get the ball rolling. Just start talking, Adamist. What's the worst that'll happen? You'll never see this person again (most likely)

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Re: Anyone like to talk with strangers? [Re: Adamist]
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Adamist said:
Anyone here 'good' at talking with strangers?  :crazy2:




^^^^^^^She is...LOL


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Re: Anyone like to talk with strangers? [Re: Boom]
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:thumbup:


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Re: Anyone like to talk with strangers? [Re: Boom]
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Booooom said:
Yeah that's what I figured...  Same principle though, once ya get the ball rolling.  Just start talking, Adamist.  What's the worst that'll happen?  You'll never see this person again (most likely)


haha, yeah.  dont let him get to comfortable.  if he will never see them again, he might sexually elope with them...

:shocked: :smirk:

Just kiddin.


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A plethora of music aspirations control my temptations of future revelations beyond "now". The percussion, and the heart beat of my love and devotion. The rhythm goes beyond, prying into the third eye, releasing the creativity held so far inside. The melodicies, through the out of tune pianos and broken classical guitars...there lies a beauty. A beauty as prevelent as the fire inside. To release these energies is pure ecstacy, to deveop these gifts is sacred. The vocality, so pure as can be, shying away from herself, lies within me. For the underlying serenitity, this is what I live for. I plea for harmony, and nothing more. Music equals love. Creation of love leads to the procreativity of the World, and it's spirals and puddles prevailing.

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Re: Anyone like to talk with strangers? [Re: AbstractHarmonix]
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sexually elope? as oposed to educationally eloping?

:blush:


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Men look at themselves and they see flawed humans, we look at women and we see perfect
GODDESSES
Women look at themselves and they seem utterly human, when looking at men they see proud
GODS.

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Re: Anyone like to talk with strangers? [Re: Todcasil]
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Todcasil said:
Booom thats not communication though, thats just making someone feel as if youre interested... admaist is interested in actually communcating ideas, feelings, experiences with someone.

he first has to get over the basic fear that they will not want to listen to him...

because when it comes down to it, if they dont its nothing to take personal...  ive met some of the most amazing people by just carrying around a lighter (i dont smoke) but if i see someone pulling out siggarettes, i just que up my lighter, the next thing i know, there thainking me, or asking me why i do that, and i simnply say, to meet more people, or to have conversation.

the art of conversation starts simple, especially with strangers!

you can do eet adamist, you wont regret asking someone there name, what is the harm?

:heart:


That's exactly the type of advice I was looking for man.. much appreciated.
I don't smoke either, but maybe I'll give your lighter-carrying tip a try.  :cool:


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Re: Anyone like to talk with strangers? [Re: Adamist]
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:sun: :spliff:


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GODDESSES
Women look at themselves and they seem utterly human, when looking at men they see proud
GODS.

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Re: Anyone like to talk with strangers? [Re: AbstractHarmonix]
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We all know YOU're good at talking with strangers, Mama..
It just makes my own inability that much more apparent. :wink:


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