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I'm an idiot and an asshole.
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I was talking to my friend today and she started spilling out how she loves me. I love her as a friend and didn't know what to say. I was confused as hell cause i didn't know how she really felt. She made me feel like an asshole and how every time she puts her heart up she gets smashed. She then starts taking it out on herself and made me feel like a bigger asshole. I guess i should have seen this but i never did. She uses sexual innuendos all the time and all seems to joke around. we were best friends and now she keeps saying how this is gonna be awkward and we can't ever talk anymore with out it being strange. I am feeling like the biggest asshole right now and don't know what to do. If only my soccer game wasn't canceled it would never had happened, but i guess it would have come out some time or another.

EDIT: fixed grammatical errors

Edited by mxdrk (03/16/05 04:08 PM)

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Re: I'm an idiot and an asswhole. [Re: mxdrk]
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You're wholly a holy ass hole.


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delta9

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Re: I'm an idiot and an asswhole. [Re: delta9]
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Thanks. I know I am.  :ass:

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Re: I'm an idiot and an asswhole. [Re: mxdrk]
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so, what are you going to do?


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Re: I'm an idiot and an asswhole. [Re: mxdrk]
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What's a guy to do  :shrug:


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Ecstacy got me standing next to you
Getting sentimental as fuck spillin' guts to you
We just met
But I think I'm in love with you
But you're on it too
So you tell me you love me too
Wake up in the morning like "yo, what the fuck we do?"

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Re: I'm an idiot and an asswhole. [Re: mxdrk]
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Why not give her a chance?

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Re: I'm an idiot and an asswhole. [Re: Mushie_Man]
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I don't know if I should try to still be friends with her. I am just angry that I lost my best friend.

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Re: I'm an idiot and an asswhole. [Re: DNKYD]
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You know what to do.. tap that shit!

You may as well.. shes dead as a friend, may as well take the awkwardness to a whole nother lever, and get your jollies off at the same time.


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What is your major malfunction?

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Re: I'm an idiot and an asswhole. [Re: mxdrk]
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I'm guessing that she is sexually un-attractive to you ...Hit it anyway... you'll feel better....and maybe she will become more than a best friend. :shrug: :goodluck:


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Re: I'm an idiot and an asswhole. [Re: vinsue]
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vinsue said:
I'm guessing that she is sexually un-attractive to you ...Hit it anyway... you'll feel better....and maybe she will become more than a best friend. :shrug: :goodluck:


Wise man, here  :strokebeard:


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delta9

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Re: I'm an idiot and an asswhole. [Re: mxdrk]
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My advice...

Don't listen to these men.

She is feeling emberassed about displaying these feelings for you, and you sound like you want to keep her as a friend.

Go ahead and let her know this!  Tell her the only thing that will make this akward, is you two thinking it will be akward.  If she cannot deal with being just friends with you, then its possible she needs to spend some time away from you, though I'm sure the feelings will never fully die down, they can be controlled and converted into a even stronger friendship then what you had previously.

Just a bit of advice:  If someones not sexually attractive, don't "hit it".  you are sacrificing your emotions for pornography in my opinion, and could possibly really hurt your friend...  But that is always your decision.

Good luck

:heart:


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Spiral Dancer

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Re: I'm an idiot and an asswhole. [Re: vinsue]
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If you go for more than friend's and it doesent work out, then your risking your relationship. If your not 100% or atleast 90% sure of her then i would try to resolve the problem rather then give in to it.


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Ecstacy got me standing next to you
Getting sentimental as fuck spillin' guts to you
We just met
But I think I'm in love with you
But you're on it too
So you tell me you love me too
Wake up in the morning like "yo, what the fuck we do?"

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Re: I'm an idiot and an asswhole. [Re: vinsue]
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I have a situation similar to that....

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Re: I'm an idiot and an asswhole. [Re: TYL3R]
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Quote:
I have a situation similar to that....

...so hit it...if it works... :thumbup:  If it doesn't,post story Here..


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  Have You Rated Ythans Mom Yet ?? ... :taser:  ... HERE'S HOW ... (be nice) .  :mod: ... :peace:

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Re: I'm an idiot and an asswhole. [Re: mxdrk]
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depends on what you want.

not everyone can be attracted to someone that is attracted to them.

there is nothing wrong with wanting to be just friends with someone.

if they can't handle that...that is their problem.

all you can do is be honest with the person...about your feelings.

good luck!~


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Laterz, Road

Who the hell you callin crazy?
You wouldn't know what crazy was if Charles Manson was eating froot loops on your front porch!

Brainiac said:
PM the names with on there names, that means they have mushrooms for sale.


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Re: I'm an idiot and an asswhole. [Re: vinsue]
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post story Here..


No thanks.  :blush:

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Re: I'm an idiot and an asswhole. [Re: vinsue]
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Something like that happened to me. Somehow even my mom knew that a certain girl liked me. She brought it up in conversation, like "What do you think of such and such?"

So I thought cool I'm up for this. So I asked her out, and she was very happy. Problem is after that I was very busy with hockey and school, so I hardly saw her. Then about two weeks later she started to deny we were ever a couple.

I thought I was just taking my time, in hindsight it was a bad idea. She was kind of aloof to me after that. I think a lot of time when people are in love they have an unrealistic view of the other person.

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Re: I'm an idiot and an asswhole. [Re: Roadkill]
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:thumbup:  good answer!


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Spiral Dancer

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Re: I'm an idiot and an asswhole. [Re: mxdrk]
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so, is she hot

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Re: I'm an idiot and an asswhole. [Re: mxdrk]
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an asswhole? as opposed to an asshalf?

sorry, nobody likes a grammar nazi. this girl sounds a bit unreasonable. try to be friends, or give a relationship a try..either way, i don't think you've done anything wrong. you have nothing to feel bad about. good luck with this one.

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