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WhiskeyClone
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Unprotected sex *DELETED*
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Post deleted by CyberChumpReason for deletion: I'm done discussing it and it's quite personal.
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The_Hobbit
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So you're about to tell a girl that you really like that you lied to her and had sex with a slut? Doesn't seem like a good idea to me. Some things are better left unsaid.
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PsillyNilly
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If you werent in an actual relationship, there is no reason to tell this girl you slipped with a slut....I would wait for later on down the line only if you feel compelled to tell her and you're still goin steady. Unfortunaltey, virus' do take a while to show up in tests and even skin viral diseases can lay dormant for years beore ever showing there face. This tingling or watever is not from anything you could of contracted though since symptoms wouldnt show up this early. I would just not have sex with this girl and just take it easy until you feel for sure that you are clean---but if you were to sleep with her, there might be more of an obligation to aware her of the risks. It's probably nothing.
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TheHateCamel
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Relax, you fucked up, get tested, if you caught something then you caught something.
Don't do it again, don't worry.
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WhiskeyClone
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Re: Unprotected sex *DELETED* [Re: PsillyNilly]
#3882341 - 03/07/05 11:58 AM (19 years, 26 days ago) |
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Post deleted by CyberChumpReason for deletion: I'm done discussing it and it's quite personal.
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CptnGarden
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Let her know next time you see her, most women are pretty understanding about personal things. If shes not understanding of you, cut her into cubes and throw her over a bridge in a drawstring mesh bag (chum). No seriously tho if she cant understand she shouldn't be worth your time. As far as STD's, tingling could be herpes, but over 70% of the US pop has herpes 1, and most just dont know it (PsillyNilly: viral diseases can lay dormant ). Get tested and good luck.
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damn right you better tell her. but you dont have to say she was a slut and shit, i dont think that would go over too well. just say you want to get tested so you know everything is ok before you do anything with her.
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MOTH
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Re: Unprotected sex [Re: Locus]
#3882929 - 03/07/05 02:28 PM (19 years, 25 days ago) |
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Locus said: damn right you better tell her. but you dont have to say she was a slut and shit, i dont think that would go over too well. just say you want to get tested so you know everything is ok before you do anything with her.
I agree.
No advice, but I hope the test comes out clean.
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Sterile
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I think that whatever you tell her about this, would really scare her, and (hopefully) without real reason too.
I see it as a strictly personal matter. If i was you, i would go find the slut again, and try to find out some things about her health..
Either way, don't freak out, cos that affects your health.Be positive! this way ,you minimize the risk of every possible issue.
Good Luck!
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RTate
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Re: Unprotected sex [Re: Sterile]
#3883576 - 03/07/05 04:55 PM (19 years, 25 days ago) |
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Relax brother... 99 chances out of a 100 you don't have HIV.
Seriously. In fact the CDC took unprotected heterosexual sex off the list for risk factors for HIV. It's WAY overblown in the media so everybody thinks they're gonna get HIV and die if they have sex, but it's just not true. You're much more likely to catch a HPV (Warts) or a Herpes.
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EarthAngel
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Re: Unprotected sex [Re: RTate]
#3883670 - 03/07/05 05:27 PM (19 years, 25 days ago) |
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Not every "slut" has an infection!! And if i was you, i wouldnt tell this new girl until ur test came back, and then worry about it,otherwise you mite be making her anxious for no reason!
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Sterile
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EarthAngel said: Not every "slut" has an infection!! And if i was you, i wouldnt tell this new girl until ur test came back, and then worry about it,otherwise you mite be making her anxious for no reason!
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HeavyToilet
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I bet you'll be fine.
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StonedShroom
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I hate to say this, but HIV can have a 10 year window of being undetected in blood tests.
you'll probably be fine though.
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Re: Unprotected sex [Re: Locus]
#3885017 - 03/07/05 10:00 PM (19 years, 25 days ago) |
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Locus said: damn right you better tell her. but you dont have to say she was a slut and shit, i dont think that would go over too well. just say you want to get tested so you know everything is ok before you do anything with her.
I have to 3rd this, as a female, fuck as a human I would want to make my own choice. Be safe though.
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MetaShroom
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StonedShroom said: I hate to say this, but HIV can have a 10 year window of being undetected in blood tests.
Do you have a source for that?
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WAIT dude!!!
dont tell yer new girl you think you have an STD.
Chances are you cough nothing, get tested to get it off your mind then leave it be.
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Go the your local health department ASAP. I go once a year. Takes and hour or two. The actual tests take like 10 mins. They test for everything including HIV for $10 here. Results should be back in a few days then you call and give a code number for your results so it's confidential then you tell you if you are negative or positive for each thing.
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StonedShroom
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my bad- that was what I wwas told in high school when we had our annual 'sex is bad' meeting where they seperated the boys and girls
appearantly tests have advanced and it can be detected with 1-3 months
damn school that's the second freakin wrong fact in a week
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WhiskeyClone
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Thank you everyone for your support and advice. I'm not frantic about this anymore. I'm going to a walk-in this afternoon to get checked out.
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