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Mushie_Man
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Unprotected Sex
#5729850 - 06/09/06 06:34 AM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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So me and my girlfriend have frequently been having unprotected sex recently and I'm curious as to what other peoples views are on this. I mean, I'm not totally stupid, I always make sure to pull out. Although often I pull out climax then keep going.
I'm aware this is risky behaviour but condoms suck, although we do use them when in hand (30% - 40% of the time). She was also on the pill but that just made her loose her sex drive.
I'm wondering if many pregnancies are conceived this way, i know lots of pregnancies are due to unprotected sex, but is that because the guy couldn't hold it in, or this practice of sex is how most unplanned babies are conceived.
I'm aware this is risky behavior, and most would agree that if i cant strap it, dont wrap it.
What do you guys think?
Peace, Mushie Man
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Edited by Mushie_Man (06/09/06 07:20 AM)
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dazed1980
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: Mushie_Man]
#5729947 - 06/09/06 07:56 AM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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That's not a very good idea. I found the following on Planned Parenthood's website in response to your question.
"How Well Withdrawal Works Of every 100 women whose partners use withdrawal, 27 will become pregnant during the first year of typical use. Of every 100 women whose partners use withdrawal, four will become pregnant during the first year of perfect use.
Pre-ejaculate can contain enough sperm to cause pregnancy. Pregnancy is also possible if semen or pre-ejaculate is spilled on the vulva."
Here is the web address: http://www.plannedparenthood.com/pp2/por...-control-03.xml
Hope that helps.
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: Mushie_Man]
#5729951 - 06/09/06 08:00 AM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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You and your girlfriend should calculate your ovulation cycle.
Basically, there is generally 4-5 days that a woman is REALLY fertile. If you have sex during her ovulation cycle your chances are MUCH greater for getting her pregnant.
The other 3 weeks in the month, there's a slimer chance you could knock her up You still shouldn't finish in her or around her.
Consider a spermicidal lube.
Lana
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: Mushie_Man]
#5730024 - 06/09/06 09:10 AM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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i have had tons of unprotected sex with my ex a while back before she went on the pill. It is my understanding that it is actually pretty difficult to get a girl pregnant. It's all about timing. Pregnancies dont just happen out of thin air.
...but theyd like you to think that, i swear. They scare those poor kids to death about pregnancies and stuff in sex ed.
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Mushie_Man
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: Colbadol]
#5730040 - 06/09/06 09:19 AM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Really appreciating the advice, has put my mind much as ease.
Thanks for the link dazed1980, very informing.
http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html 
It's those kinda videos which get me worried.
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Edited by Mushie_Man (06/09/06 09:37 AM)
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: Mushie_Man]
#5730069 - 06/09/06 09:41 AM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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What you're playing we used to call Catholic Roulette.(birth control was a no no back then and they used the rhythm method or the quick pull out) Now you know how many Catholics there are in the world right. Guess how lots of em got here?
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Mushie_Man
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: Icelander]
#5730138 - 06/09/06 10:09 AM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Icelander said: Now you know how many Catholics there are in the world right. Guess how lots of em got here?
I'd like to think it was a real hot catholic and he just couldn't get out of there in time 
But yeah, I see where your cumming from.
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: Mushie_Man]
#5730203 - 06/09/06 10:38 AM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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My next door neighbors were Catholic back in Michigan where I grew up. The house wasn't much over 1000 sq ft. They had 12 children. They used the rhythm and quick pull out method. The Church loves it. 
And you're right. All the girls in that family were hot.
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Mushie_Man
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: Icelander]
#5730236 - 06/09/06 10:51 AM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Maybe they wanted 12 children.. or at least not all were accidental.
How do you know your Catholic neighbors used the rhythm and quick pull out method, did you ask?
..You must have been real close neighbors.
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: Mushie_Man]
#5730252 - 06/09/06 10:59 AM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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When we were grown then we asked the kids.
They might have wanted the first 5 or so. I would go over there in the morning and see the kids in a row in sleeping bags on the living room floor because there wasn't bedrooms for them. Ever try to raise 12 wild kids? Only an insane person would want that. They were dirt poor too. The father was unskilled labor and they never would have made it without charities.
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: Icelander]
#5730481 - 06/09/06 12:07 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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pulling out does not mean that you wont get her pregnant, as stated above seemen is still contained in the pre ejaculate. you might not realiser it, but slamming you junk into your girl over and over causes some stuff to come out even before you cum.
I highly recomend either getting her on the pill, and or finding out her ovulation cycle. but then again many girls dont have a normal cycle.
IMHO wrap that shit up.
I have NEVER had un-protected sex, i dont think that anyone should.
also 1 in 4 people with aids/hiv dont tell their partners, you know why? because they dont know that they have it.
they dont call aids an epidemic for no reason.
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: Colbadol]
#5730515 - 06/09/06 12:16 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Colbadol said: i have had tons of unprotected sex with my ex a while back before she went on the pill. It is my understanding that it is actually pretty difficult to get a girl pregnant. It's all about timing. Pregnancies dont just happen out of thin air.
...but theyd like you to think that, i swear. They scare those poor kids to death about pregnancies and stuff in sex ed.
yeah they do man. yeah they do. look at all the knocked up girls, how do you think it happened?
don't gamble with something so serious.
what you need to do is to be in a comitted relationship and both go get tested for STDs and HIV before you have sex (and some places will test for free) HIV also can lie undetectable in your system for a long period of time (i think roughly 6 months) during which you can transmit without it showing up in tests....
so 6 months of monogamy before having sex would be good too unless you're both virgins (but i've heard it said never trust a girl to be telling the truth if she says she's a virgin for safety's sake)
1/4 of college kids are estimated to have herpes man.
so anyway when you do fuck unprotected use some sort of pregnancy barrier.
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Mushie_Man
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: leery11]
#5730611 - 06/09/06 12:36 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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STD's are not an issue, that is not my worry.
As Zippoz commented, its the pre ejaculate cum I'm concerd about.
I know her cycle, if u mean when her periods tend to start/stop.
Meaning shes less fertile straight after her cycle?.. thats what I presumed anyways.
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Edited by Mushie_Man (06/09/06 12:37 PM)
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: Mushie_Man]
#5730632 - 06/09/06 12:40 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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how do you know stds aren't a worry?
you guys ought to get checked at a clinic just to be safe.
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: Mushie_Man]
#5731389 - 06/09/06 04:48 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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umm
man use a friggen condom...
read carefully, you wont understand how good of an idea this is until shes pissing on a stick that keeps showing two pink lines
im especially cautious because my best friend recently knocked his girl up after unprotected sex and shes catholic so not having an abortion... hes taking it pretty well
there are alot of options for the woman other than the pill also, the o ring, the shot (3 months), the patch. or just use a condom 
seriously dude its worth it just so you never become one of those guys who got trapped in a bullshit life of children when you didnt want them yet. Most often this occurs with a woman who you probably didnt intend on spending the rest of your life with, or even associating with for the next 18 to life.
I dunno about pulling out but cumming inside a girl without a condom is the best sexual feeling, condoms arent as good, but it still really fucking good
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: Mushie_Man]
#5731450 - 06/09/06 05:20 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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See if your girlfriend is willing to go on the pill. If not, play it safe and wrap it up. You might want to go to a clinic and get tested for STD's, just in case.
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: ManianFH]
#5731899 - 06/09/06 07:44 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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mickdawg666 said: I dunno about pulling out but cumming inside a girl without a condom is the best sexual feeling
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: Mushie_Man]
#5732006 - 06/09/06 08:17 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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How comfortable are you with abortions
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: Mushie_Man]
#5732282 - 06/09/06 09:38 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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i'm going to say this... and people are gonna flame me and tell me i'm irresponsible, but i'm gonna say it anyway.
i've been pulling out since i was 16. thats damn near five years of pulling out. i aint had no babies yet.. and i've had a damn lot of sex.
but, you know.. i could be infertile, or something..
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dazed1980
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: Mushie_Man]
#5732350 - 06/09/06 09:54 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Edited by dazed1980 (09/20/06 03:42 PM)
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dazed1980
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: dazed1980]
#5732663 - 06/09/06 11:38 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Read my last post.
Edited by dazed1980 (06/09/06 11:46 PM)
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: Mushie_Man]
#5733431 - 06/10/06 07:59 AM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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When I was in college a couple years ago I never used a condom. Like never, as in I was totally retarded and had sex with dozens of random girls without ever wearing a condom. However, I never got a girl pregnant and thank god I never got a disease.
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: Catalysis]
#5734178 - 06/10/06 12:43 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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You will end up getting her pregnant eventually. Pre-ejaculate can contain sperm when you've cum within the last 24 hours. Also, you are leaking sperm after your main load. There is obviously sperm getting into her and they can live for weeks inside of my fallopean tubes waiting for the eggs to get fertile.
Sure, your numbers of sperm are less since you don't shoot a full load, but some will get by eventually.
Baby, abortion, or use a condom. Your choice. Actually it's her choice since she has to the power to decide what happens when she gets pregnant.
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Re: Unprotected Sex [Re: Colbadol]
#5737231 - 06/11/06 04:58 AM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Colbadol said: It is my understanding that it is actually pretty difficult to get a girl pregnant. It's all about timing. Pregnancies dont just happen out of thin air.
...but theyd like you to think that, i swear. They scare those poor kids to death about pregnancies and stuff in sex ed.
ha!
tell that to my three children
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