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I think my wife will leave me. * 1
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The usual tension, anger, loss of vibe. Sex becoming duty. Communication impossible. We are now in a state of cold war. On the issue of sex I can't even talk to her about it without rage. And so I snapped and told her I need a therapist before I go to talk to someone else about it. This didn't really frustrate her, as she always tells me she doesn't give a fuck just don't love anyone else, but I never took this as a go ahead I just figure shed just go out and sleep with someone too if I do. So.. I don't think mentioning that is anywhere near the problem. I sense it is this narrative building in her that has grown like a weed over time. That I'm incompetent at everything. That she needs to micromanage me, that I am like a child. A delusion of superiority too. She seems to have become very very good at being the aggressor then flipping the narrative into me being the bad guy. Now I have gotten to the point were I snapped and for the first time ever screamed at her that I am not her fucking enemy. Now it seems we are like roommates in the same home. I've told her its not working and that I think she doesn't want to be my wife. She confirmed it with a yes... But I dunno if she really truly means it yet. I've gone through a hopeless spiral and felt crushed. I've gone through years and years of trying to please and satisfy to no avail. I do literally everything, clean the home, care for the kids, pay all the bills while she stays home. And something strange happened to me. I died inside and on the other side... I no longer feel anything at all at the prospect of her leaving, even though I really really don't want her to go. I love her. What hit me into this state is.. Realization that she has already "left". That I am already in that world. The despair was so extreme, like a bad bad trip. But its over. And reality has just said.. Now here is your next challenge. I'm a roommate in my own home now. And rather than despair.. I've been looking at all the ways to integrate this new reality. To find the new freedoms and benefits from it rather than focusing on the despair. Its.. Weirder than a shroom trip. I really hope I can keep her still. Anyone experience similar?

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Re: I think my wife will leave me. [Re: Anonymous #1]
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First call a lawyer to save what parts of life you want to have.  Second yes I have been in that situation its more common then you think. Just know you will be happier in the long then being locked up in a unhappy relationship for the long hall.


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Re: I think my wife will leave me. [Re: Anonymous #1]
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When I was contemplating divorcing my wife, a female friend asked me if I still enjoyed kissing her.

That woke me up. This possibility needs to be addressed at the beginning of a relationship.

We expect waaaay too much  . . . .

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Re: I think my wife will leave me. [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
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Serious question, have you two explored the idea of MDMA therapy, or taking mushrooms together?


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notapillow said: "you are going about this endeavor all wrong. clear your mind of useless fear and concern. buy the ticket, take the ride, and all that.... "

ChrisWho said: "It's all about the journey, not the destination."

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Re: I think my wife will leave me. [Re: Mickalopagus]
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How is she going to leave you if she doesn't have a job?

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Re: I think my wife will leave me. [Re: Anonymous #2] * 1
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Anonymous #2 said:
How is she going to leave you if she doesn't have a job?


Because she'll have her new bf pick her up.


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Re: I think my wife will leave me. [Re: Mickalopagus]
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Mickalopagus said:
Serious question, have you two explored the idea of MDMA therapy, or taking mushrooms together?


My thoughts exactly

MDMA was made for these types of situations. Smash the mental walls down for a few hours and reconnect, then reassess it all afterwords

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Re: I think my wife will leave me. [Re: Anonymous #1]
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She settled for you which makes sex with you disgusting. Unfortunately very common nowadays; She measures you against an amalgam of everyone she's ever slept with and no individual person can measure up to that.

Make sure you stop paying the mortgage (if applicable) before the divorce proceedings start. That way the house will be in the process of being repossessed and they can't make you continue paying.

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Re: I think my wife will leave me. [Re: vicepope]
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vicepope said:
Anonymous #2 said:
How is she going to leave you if she doesn't have a job?


Because she'll have her new bf pick her up.


Truth nuke. But also alimony is basically UBI

The MDMA thing isn't the worst idea but you can't really unfo the feeling of "I consider you the worst possible compromise and feel like you stole my life".

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Re: I think my wife will leave me. [Re: Anonymous #3]
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Fuck I WISH my wife would leave me
Or at least leave me alone
Bitch is always up my ass or saying something fucking rude and she can't be told about it either or it's a stupid big problem

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Re: I think my wife will leave me. [Re: Anonymous #4]
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If your wife leaves you, can I get her number?

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Re: I think my wife will leave me. [Re: AlChemicalResearch]
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If I want to hand it out to randos I’ll just write it on a bathroom stall

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Anonymous #4 said:
If I want to hand it out to randos I’ll just write it on a bathroom stall


In a Dennys.


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Anonymous #4 said:
Fuck I WISH my wife would leave me
Or at least leave me alone
Bitch is always up my ass or saying something fucking rude and she can't be told about it either or it's a stupid big problem



If she is needlessly up your ass, accuse her of being a Roman general and deny any allegiance to Carthage

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Re: I think my wife will leave me. [Re: AlChemicalResearch]
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Any updates ?

:popcorn:

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Re: I think my wife will leave me. [Re: Anonymous #5]
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I can update. Haven't done much here on shroomery for a bit. She still seems uninterested in me. Like I'm a child compared to her. I'm still being emasculated. MDMA is out of the question there's no fucking way my wife will open up to that with me as every suggestion I make like this shell just meet with me being a druggie while she guzzles megatons of booze every night. So yea.. I've tried psychedelics with her a few times she doesn't like them. It seems she just can't handle the terrors of self reflection, she specifically uses words to that effect. After a few trips we've had she just kinda pushes it away and considers it a form of me trying to control her. So its just not gonna work. Fair enough we have the right to choose, I've backed off completely on a psychedelic approach it just don't vibe with her. And I'm not about to try bugging her with this over and over otherwise she will have full right to accuse me of being pushy.

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Re: I think my wife will leave me. [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Certified woman moment lmao.

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